How To Squirting
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ivantheterrible
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my wife didn't start to squirt until i tied her down with her legs spread. forcing her to have a vaginal orgasm instead of a clitoral one. clit orgasms tend to cause a woman to force her legs together, and/or raise her hips. also it seems that either clitoral or vaginal stimulation along with anal stimulation will help a lot. as in, a vibrator tool in her ass as you lick her or fuck her.
SweetErika
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You and your gf should also read this excellent article on female ejaculation. It's a bit lengthy, but totally worth your time, since it gives real information and a good foundation of knowledge in general, and for experimentation.
I find I have to be completely relaxed and combine just the right kind of g-spot stimulation with clit stimulation (a vibe plus fingers or two vibes work best for me). Like most women, my "squirting" is really more of a "gushing" than anything else - it certainly doesn't look like what you've undoubtedly seen in porn (then again, what does?
). Complete relaxation means NOT trying to ejaculate - if I think about it, or try at all, it's not going to happen. It does happen when I simply focus on the pleasure and don't have any goal (including orgasm) pr worry on my mind.
Therefore, you're probably setting yourselves up for failure by trying to make your gf ejaculate. Instead, try stuff she likes and might enjoy, and if ejaculation happens, great. If not, you had a lot of fun, and it might happen in the future (and if it does, you'll probably get an idea of some of the things that help her get there).
Don't get hung up on "techniques" you read/hear about. Definitely try lots of new things and refine what feels good, but realize everyone is different and there are NO surefire techniques. Trying to follow techniques, instead of your partner's feedback, will likely lead to frustration and far away from orgasm and ejaculation.
Basically, you need to try for pleasure, communicate a lot and just see if it happens. She's a woman, not a machine.
You and your gf should also read this excellent article on female ejaculation. It's a bit lengthy, but totally worth your time, since it gives real information and a good foundation of knowledge in general, and for experimentation.
I find I have to be completely relaxed and combine just the right kind of g-spot stimulation with clit stimulation (a vibe plus fingers or two vibes work best for me). Like most women, my "squirting" is really more of a "gushing" than anything else - it certainly doesn't look like what you've undoubtedly seen in porn (then again, what does?
). Complete relaxation means NOT trying to ejaculate - if I think about it, or try at all, it's not going to happen. It does happen when I simply focus on the pleasure and don't have any goal (including orgasm) pr worry on my mind. Therefore, you're probably setting yourselves up for failure by trying to make your gf ejaculate. Instead, try stuff she likes and might enjoy, and if ejaculation happens, great. If not, you had a lot of fun, and it might happen in the future (and if it does, you'll probably get an idea of some of the things that help her get there).
Don't get hung up on "techniques" you read/hear about. Definitely try lots of new things and refine what feels good, but realize everyone is different and there are NO surefire techniques. Trying to follow techniques, instead of your partner's feedback, will likely lead to frustration and far away from orgasm and ejaculation.
Basically, you need to try for pleasure, communicate a lot and just see if it happens. She's a woman, not a machine.
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Don't get hung up on the techniques but read them so you know the basics THEN do your own "research" with your g/f. Communication is key. Use your imagination. Use her imagination. Once you know the basics then the rest is all experimentation to find what works for her.
Those who have already managed to produce / experience these fantastic orgasms have happily shared much of their own research so others can follow and at least know the possibilities. It is up to each couple to learn as much as they can about each other to give each other the maximum amount of pleasure during sex. All the posted techniques are simply options that you can try - adopt if the work for you or vary whatever it is to fit your partner's responses. The biggest obstacle to so much pleasure that couples can enjoy with each other is ignorance of the possibilities. The fact that you came here to ask puts you in a whole 'nuther catagory. You guys should have a loot of fun discovering.
Don't get hung up on the techniques but read them so you know the basics THEN do your own "research" with your g/f. Communication is key. Use your imagination. Use her imagination. Once you know the basics then the rest is all experimentation to find what works for her.
Those who have already managed to produce / experience these fantastic orgasms have happily shared much of their own research so others can follow and at least know the possibilities. It is up to each couple to learn as much as they can about each other to give each other the maximum amount of pleasure during sex. All the posted techniques are simply options that you can try - adopt if the work for you or vary whatever it is to fit your partner's responses. The biggest obstacle to so much pleasure that couples can enjoy with each other is ignorance of the possibilities. The fact that you came here to ask puts you in a whole 'nuther catagory. You guys should have a loot of fun discovering.
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One of my girlfriends has a Rock Chick (see pic below) and she used it on me the other day. Well, it made me gush as it rubs your g-spot really good. I probably would have squirted had she pulled it out of me when I came. Now i've never squirted or gushed until then and we weren't really trying for it. It was pretty cool 
I think you just have to be completely relaxed and at ease. It will probably happen when u least expect it. You may try this toy... I've heard from others that it makes them squirt. I'm convinced!
http://img.alibaba.com/photo/11018135/Rock_Chick_Massager.jpg
and we weren't really trying for it. It was pretty cool I think you just have to be completely relaxed and at ease. It will probably happen when u least expect it. You may try this toy... I've heard from others that it makes them squirt. I'm convinced!
http://img.alibaba.com/photo/11018135/Rock_Chick_Massager.jpg
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Thanks everyone for the quick responses. Thank you SweetErika for the links. Me and my gf will read that. I also liked the first thread about it that soccrstar posted. littlebitshe, my gf said the toy you posted looks very interesting and it sounds like you had an amazing orgasam with it.
Any more tips are welcome
Any more tips are welcome
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