How to safely engage a sexual professional

[BiDave1962]

My wife and I are considering a trip to Nevada. While there we think it might be fun to hire a professional escort (or two, male and female). We know about going to a Ranch, which may be our best option, but for those in the know, are there other arrangements that work?
I would like to be with a man. My wife would like to see if she is moved to be with a woman. We would like to be together. We would also like a threesome. Or two. I would like another woman. Again, my wife would like to see if she is moved to be with another man. Online searches seem very obscure, likely for legal reasons, so if anyone knows anything, clue me in.

 

[AchtungNight]

Probably best to ask the professionals at the ranch when you get there. Be prepared to spend a lot of money- what I’ve seen online of Nevada prices is quite expensive. Amsterdam may be a more affordable option for what you’re seeking- if you can travel there.

 

[BiDave1962]

Thank you for that perspective.

 

[Britva415]

Do the ranches have men?

(For hire)

Anyway, that presumes you want to do this through 100% legal channels. Many tens of thousands of people are hiring escorts daily in Nevada without going through one of the hyper-expensive state licensed brothels. There absolutely are other arrangements that work.

While online searches are obscure, it's not too hard to learn to read between the lines. It's also not at all hard to find helpful written guides as to how one can engage with these quasi-legal professionals without risking ripoffs or a bad time.

Quasi-legal because what you're paying for is an escort's time. If she or he decides to have consensual sex while they're spending time with you, that's their *cough* business and *cough* not prostitution. (Legal stings are very, very rare, but you still want to know how to play the game.)

Many are professionals with established reputations to protect, so, keep that in mind while using your spider sense to judge whether you think someone is a responsible and independent business person, or a ripoff artist with someone else (a pimp) pulling the strings.

Be transparent and frank if you call someone for an incall or outcall appointment. Don't be selfconscious about just expressing what you want. Make sure you explain who will be there - DO NOT surprise a call girl by having another (hired) guy there when she shows up, without talking about it with both of those people first.

Just be clear by talking out loud about your preferences, desires, questions, and limits/boundaries. That way everyone knows what to expect and the hired friend(s) can be prepared to show you the best time they can. Get as much of that as possible out of the way on the phone before they show up, because otherwise you'll be spending the time you're paying for negotiating instead of having fun. But at the same time, don't waste their time with endless phone calls and renegotiations - try to just get it taken care of in one call. It is reasonable to have an open conversation so both sides can get on the same page, but if you're unnecessarily a pain in the ass, they might just cancel on you.

It's also fine for you to decide to not hire someone who you aren't feeling good about.

Deposits are generally not a scam - an escort asking for a deposit is not a red flag or a reason to think they're not legit. And be ready to just pay them when they get there. Get that taken care of and out of the way so you both can proceed to the business.

If you do your research you can definitely find more information like this out there to help you have a good experience with an escort - or two.