How to safely bring gf into exhibitionism

[davion2308]

Hi, everyone!

I'm a guy, early 40s, and I have a girlfriend who's late 30s. We're in a newish relationship and we're comfortable enough to start sharing sexual fantasies outside the realm of vanilla sex. I love that I don't feel judged and I can discuss anything with her.

My kink is exhibitionism and public nudity. I started to talk about it a bit with her and I was surprised to find myself very defensive about others seeing her body. I have feelings for her and I'm protective and my kink is the hint or possibility of showing her off, not actually showing her off. It's weird because I've always been turned on by flagrant nudity and my ideal fantasy would be a woman walking naked across a bridge over heavy highway traffic, for example.

Now, things are toned down and I'm wondering if any of you have ideas on things we could do. I like the idea of her being completely nude in a dressing room, for example, and I pop the door open a crack to check on her. There are other people around but no one sees her. Or, better, I'd go into the room and kiss her for a bit while she was nude and others were outside, doing their normal shopping and clothes trying-on.

Driving at night while naked is another idea since it's tougher to see into the car, for example.

What thoughts do all of you have? I know this isn't "Hey, I want six men to blow out my wife's back" but I'm hoping there are some good ideas that are sexy, suggestive, and playful.

Thanks!

 

[fool4u]

Hi Davion
You are in a good place with possibly being seen. Remember possible will leadf to probable and eventually to definite.

Driving can be great, come up a trucks, flash on the interior light for a few moments. Add to her excitement by have her play with her tits at the same time. You will get a great fuck from her when you decde you have had enough flashing for the night.

Sex on a bush walk, start by having her open her top on a not so busy bushwalk, you can here when people approach so she can button it vack up. Progress to no knickers, then tuck her skirt into waistband. I went through these recently, GF who said she could not be naked outside got so horny from this progression that she had me strip her off and bend her over a rock, fist fucked her then fucked her. She went home to hubby, showered and to her surprize he ate her later on, she was over the moon because he did not know he was copping a mouth ful of jiz.

Get a hotel room across from offices, have her walk around naked during the day, see if the office workers notice.

 

[ericalauren]

Flashing random people without their consent is a form of sexual assault. If you want to "show off" your girlfriend, do so in a way that doesn't violate consent.

 

[Britva415]

What thoughts do all of you have?

My thought is that I didn’t see anything in what you wrote which was about how she feels about this.

Does she even want to do it?

 

[davion2308]

Flashing random people without their consent is a form of sexual assault. If you want to "show off" your girlfriend, do so in a way that doesn't violate consent.

Well, that's exactly it. Unless we have permission from the other people, it's assault. It's not something I want to involve her with anyway. I'm looking for exhibitionism for me with a threat of possibly being seen but really unlikely. It's more like safe, secret exhibitionism between just us. The idea that someone 'may be lurking in the bushes' is what turns me on. I'd rather she not actually be seen. That's where I'm looking for ideas.

 

[davion2308]

My thought is that I didn’t see anything in what you wrote which was about how she feels about this.

Does she even want to do it?

Yes, she's in. And the few ideas I've thrown out have been successful. She said it all feels easy and she's excited to indulge me and be involved in my fantasies. It's been a healthy conversation and it's nice to be able to discuss sexual interests without thinking I'm getting outright rejected or judged.