How to Prostate massage?

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Ok, next question(s)....

How do I massage a prostate gland? Any particular motions? And how do I know where it is? Is it distinctly different from the rest of the passage?
 
Thanks so much for that article :) I knew I could count on someone here to point Mr in the right direction!
 
This is what I use to find mine.

The motion you use with your fingers is almost the same as he would make to hit your g-spot!

I find with mine the best place, if you can imagine it, is if you try and touch the base of the penis though the anus.

NOTE!
That works FOR ME... YMMV

I also found that *I* need a vibe to get me off. simple massage alone doesn't work.
 
A toy can be fun and cleaner

I had this done for me a couple of time. Once I was with someone that had a collection of phallic shaped toys. I was looking at them and she asked if I wanted to try one. I grabbed one and she commented "that one is big even for me." I thought let's go big or go home.

I laid on my back in the exact face-to-face position as described in the link that was attached. She applied lots of lube to the toy and the opening of my anus. She pllied lube to my penis and started to masturbate me while holding the toy against the opening of my anus. She applied little to no pressure and rubbed the toy against my anus opening for awhile (kind of like when a man will uses his cock on a woman's clit prior to intercourse). Next, she started to apply direct pressure to the toy and let my anus take the toy. This was a very slow process and she was very patient. All the while she continued to masturbate my penis. It was 5 to 10 minutes before I felt my anus "accept the toy." When this happened she encouraged me by saying "Come on baby. You can take it." Next, the toy sunk deep inside my ass. As I felt the toy slide into me I was overcome by one of the greatest sensations ever. I came buckets almost immediately as the toy slid in me.

After I was drained she milked my cock until I was spent. After a pause, she started to remove the toy. This sensation was also very nice. I got hard again and immediately fucked her.
 
I had this done for me a couple of time. Once I was with someone that had a collection of phallic shaped toys. I was looking at them and she asked if I wanted to try one. I grabbed one and she commented "that one is big even for me." I thought let's go big or go home.

I laid on my back in the exact face-to-face position as described in the link that was attached. She applied lots of lube to the toy and the opening of my anus. She pllied lube to my penis and started to masturbate me while holding the toy against the opening of my anus. She applied little to no pressure and rubbed the toy against my anus opening for awhile (kind of like when a man will uses his cock on a woman's clit prior to intercourse). Next, she started to apply direct pressure to the toy and let my anus take the toy. This was a very slow process and she was very patient. All the while she continued to masturbate my penis. It was 5 to 10 minutes before I felt my anus "accept the toy." When this happened she encouraged me by saying "Come on baby. You can take it." Next, the toy sunk deep inside my ass. As I felt the toy slide into me I was overcome by one of the greatest sensations ever. I came buckets almost immediately as the toy slid in me.

After I was drained she milked my cock until I was spent. After a pause, she started to remove the toy. This sensation was also very nice. I got hard again and immediately fucked her.
I love the visuals in this. It's so wonderful to have a patient and loving partner that wants to bring you only pleasure. So sexy.
 
Milking Thread

Hey, if you find any information on PROSTATE MASSAGE that is NOT already discussed in this thread - let us know.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=98657


SORRY. I should have mentioned the thread's name ....

" Milking a mans cock - is that for real? "
 
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It doesn't work for everyone though.

From most of the feedback in that forum it works for almost ALL guys. The only ones who say they don't enjoy it or would not enjoy it are guys who think a finger or two up their butt means they are gay. I'm not sure how any guy past the age of about 14 feels so insecure about their own sexuality that they are terrified by their lover exploring what simply feels like that wonderful PRE-orgasmic rush we get .... only with this technique that "rush" can be made to last for 10, 20, 30 minutes or more AND still give you the main event too.

If your partner in bed has NO penis then you are not being "gay" by letting her play with your butt, OK?
 
Prejudiced much?,

From most of the feedback in that forum it works for almost ALL guys. The only ones who say they don't enjoy it or would not enjoy it are guys who think a finger or two up their butt means they are gay. I'm not sure how any guy past the age of about 14 feels so insecure about their own sexuality that they are terrified by their lover exploring what simply feels like that wonderful PRE-orgasmic rush we get .... only with this technique that "rush" can be made to last for 10, 20, 30 minutes or more AND still give you the main event too.

If your partner in bed has NO penis then you are not being "gay" by letting her play with your butt, OK?

I resent your tone and your judgemental attitude. You know absolutely nothing about me and are therefore in no position to draw any conclusions from my post.

Anyone who knows me also knows that I'm the last person to have hangups such as those you insinuate.

Various partners have attempted this for me and it has inevitably resulted in an extremely painful and unpleasant experience. Incidentally, medical prostate examinations are just as painful for me; I am told by my quack (that's colloquial for medical practitioner) that this is due to a somewhat askew positioning of my prostate gland. Somewhat uncommon but certainly not unique; there are any number of other men of any sexual orientation in the same position. Just because it works for you, does not mean anyone who has a different opinion, view or experience is homophobic or wrong.
 
Thanks for everyone's feedback and comments. I had already read the link on milking. It didn't contain what I was looking for, hence the questions and the post.

TBH I'm still not sure I have the info I was looking for. But that's ok.
 
Thanks for everyone's feedback and comments. I had already read the link on milking. It didn't contain what I was looking for, hence the questions and the post.

TBH I'm still not sure I have the info I was looking for. But that's ok.

If we have missed what you wanted....
Could you be more specific? If you can narrow it down maybe we can fill in any blanks?
 
I think what I want to know could boil down to: Aside from his (hopefully positive) reaction, how do I know when I've found it? Can anyone who has actual been on the giving end of this give me some information about that?
 
I think what I want to know could boil down to: Aside from his (hopefully positive) reaction, how do I know when I've found it? Can anyone who has actual been on the giving end of this give me some information about that?

Ok...

Only he can tell you when you hit it...

Its not like the g-spot that is obvious. You *MAY* be able to feel a pea sized nub if you put your finger in... But AFAIK thats rare... I can't feel anything on mine.
 
I had this done for me a couple of time. Once I was with someone that had a collection of phallic shaped toys. I was looking at them and she asked if I wanted to try one. I grabbed one and she commented "that one is big even for me." I thought let's go big or go home.

I laid on my back in the exact face-to-face position as described in the link that was attached. She applied lots of lube to the toy and the opening of my anus. She pllied lube to my penis and started to masturbate me while holding the toy against the opening of my anus. She applied little to no pressure and rubbed the toy against my anus opening for awhile (kind of like when a man will uses his cock on a woman's clit prior to intercourse). Next, she started to apply direct pressure to the toy and let my anus take the toy. This was a very slow process and she was very patient. All the while she continued to masturbate my penis. It was 5 to 10 minutes before I felt my anus "accept the toy." When this happened she encouraged me by saying "Come on baby. You can take it." Next, the toy sunk deep inside my ass. As I felt the toy slide into me I was overcome by one of the greatest sensations ever. I came buckets almost immediately as the toy slid in me.

After I was drained she milked my cock until I was spent. After a pause, she started to remove the toy. This sensation was also very nice. I got hard again and immediately fucked her.

Visit our blog for more info on Prostate massage and devices. Especially Aneros devices. Good luck ! :cool:
 
P Massage

" It is the most incredible thing I have ever experienced! "
 
I resent your tone and your judgemental attitude. You know absolutely nothing about me and are therefore in no position to draw any conclusions from my post.

Anyone who knows me

I was GENERALIZING.

"Anyone who knows me..."

NOBODY knows you in here. We know a few writing styles and often agree with like minded posters but "know me.."

Seriously?

You're exhibiting some scary paranoid tendencies when you assume every post in a thread like this is directed AT you. I could really care less what you feel about the topic or how it affects YOU. Like I said, FROM FEEDBACK means I base my posts on what I have felt and what the majority of feedback/posts say.
 
@basic desires and Mr G...

Could you guys please take your argument/disagreement to PM land? I'd rather my learning thread wasn't overtaken.

Thank you xx
 
Those guys that think they aren't into this or the results of this Don't know !
She loves seeing me in ecstasy and helping me get there. We are both enjoying this experience and she has been there every step of the way.:rolleyes:
 
Just an update... In theory he was keen, in reality this was something I wanted to do more than he did.
I've backed away from it.

Thanks for the advice though :)

xx HB
 
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