How to present boobs

[temp256]

This is kind of an odd thing to do, but I'm looking for ideas on how to let people know I have breasts.

I'm a T-girl, and have already grown a lovely pair of A cups thanks to hormones. But I've been hiding them neurotically. My family already knows I'm trans and are completely fine with it, but for some reason I've felt compelled to keep my growth hidden with baggy shirts. I know they won't think anything of it, but I sort of feel embarrassed. Anyway, I think it's time they learn.

So, to help my embarrassment, I've decided to have some fun with it. I want to do something, possibly odd or out of character, to let them know. Unfortunately, that's where my motivation ends. I don't have any ideas. Would anyone like to offer suggestions?

 

[Tymeless]

This is kind of an odd thing to do, but I'm looking for ideas on how to let people know I have breasts.

I'm a T-girl, and have already grown a lovely pair of A cups thanks to hormones. But I've been hiding them neurotically. My family already knows I'm trans and are completely fine with it, but for some reason I've felt compelled to keep my growth hidden with baggy shirts. I know they won't think anything of it, but I sort of feel embarrassed. Anyway, I think it's time they learn.

So, to help my embarrassment, I've decided to have some fun with it. I want to do something, possibly odd or out of character, to let them know. Unfortunately, that's where my motivation ends. I don't have any ideas. Would anyone like to offer suggestions?

I don't know but if you come up with a good enough idea please share with me so i can present mine as well I've not exactly hid them but i haven't said hey i have breast now get used to it yet.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Nice pushup bra to emphasize cleavage and a tasteful blouse that has a low neckline.

 

[Tymeless]

mmmm not a bad idea jas.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

As long as it's tasteful with a semi low neckline, you're good to go.

 

[Tymeless]

now to get up the nerve to just do that haha. My family doesn't know as much as Temp's i don't think.

 

[temp256]

That sounds good, but I don't have any bras, and I'm far too nervous to buy one on my own. Besides, my breasts are more suited to perkiness than cleavage.

Everyone is away for a week, so it seems like the perfect time to do this.

 

[emap]

Well generally the best way to get people to notice you have breasts is to wear a bikini or one peice. However since this is so not the weather for that, perhaps a skin tight top? Lighter colors of course being the optimum for showing off A's, a nice off white or sun yellow, being the best, though a light tan or green would work almost as well.

Alternately, if you have not been wearing a dress, go and find a plunging light color dress at the store, think Marylin Monroe style dress here. When your folks get back, show up wearing it, or help them get their luggage back into the house wearing it if you happen to live with them. Bonus points if you can get caught in a draft that swirls your dress around and really draws attention.

 

[Nimbikarana]

good luck temp

 

[temp256]

Well, it's done, sort of.

I chickened out about wearing a tight top, but once again my mother knew something was up. She asked if I wanted to start wearing a bra, then took my measurements, not acting the slightest bit surprised at my growth. We're going shopping in a few days.

As an unrelated matter, I have good news about my transitioning. I talked to my shrink, and we decided I have already begun my year long life test. Come Halloween, I'll be cleared for surgery. The real question remains of whether I dare go through with it. I've been avoiding even thinking about it, less it make me depressed. It's such a huge risk, and leads itself to present all kinds of self doubt. Despite how well things are going, I still question if I made the right choice. It's like I have no way of validating myself.

I'm afraid...

 

[Tymeless]

temp i understand your feelings exactly. I have made friends online that i can share my feelings and fears with and they can do the same with me. Most of them are not transgenders but women or men that have a different point of view then a TG will. Both of the points of views help me understand myself better and make the right decisions for me. I wear shirts around the house all the time that are tight but i don't think they've realized i have breast yet. Oh well their time of denial is getting shorter and shorter by the minute.

Just relax Temp and let things flow naturally when the time is right you'll make the decision that is right for you. You have a supportive family and people online are willing to support you if your willing to accept their help and provide it back.

 

[Svejk]

temp, that story about your mother taking your measurements was really heart warming. Its good that you have such a supportive family.

As for revealing to people the fact the you have breasts, if you mean your friends I would suggest just taking the plunge and doing it, if they are your true friends they'll accept you, busty or not.

Anyway good luck to you

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Temp, just do what you feel is best for you. No one will say anything if you need more time before committing to something like that. Everyone moves at their own pace.

 

[temp256]

Thanks again everyone. My mother bought me a couple bras to try. Now I just need to figure out how to get them adjusted and comfortable. I think I might still be too small for anything but a sports bra.

I try not to worry about things, but it's all I can think about. I've never been able to relax the slightest bit. So much of my life these past few years has been centered on transitioning; it's hard to suddenly think about just living my life.

What always felt right to me was to hurry up and get everything started and set up for full transitioning as soon as possible. Once it was in place, I would finally stop and think carefully if I wanted to go through with surgery without worrying about wasting time. Now that I've reached that point, I feel like I can't think.

I only have one friend, but she knows. I only met her a few months ago, and she knew from the beginning. She's the only one I can really talk to about these things. Not that it helps...

 

[Tymeless]

thats the biggest problem with a lot of trans they allow the focus of transitioning to consume them and they don't think about the other things in life like living it. just relax and have fun and enjoy living and when you least expect it you will make your decision.