How to please bf with water sports interest?

[Love2Lust]

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[blue80driver]

My boyfriend has slowly been letting me in on more of his sexual fantasies and fetishes, the newest one is water sports. I'm pretty open for anything, but I don't really have an interest in it. It doesn't turn me on really. The thought doesn't turn me off and I am willing to try for him, but does anyone have tips on how to do it so that we both get pleasure from it?

Start in the bathroom first (preferably the tub) for clean up purposes. Kinda odd doing in on plastic unless you dont mind soaking towels layed out.

Does he want to do it to you or you to him?

 

[Love2Lust]

He wants me to do it to him.

 

[blue80driver]

Make sure you drink plenty of water......If I were you you shoud both be taking a shower or playing in the tub. Gets both in the mood.....get him nice and hard and aroused...then when you have the need to let loose have him lay back in the tub and position yourself like you want him to eat you out and then let it flow. Look back at your flow onto him and you might get aroused.....then start jacking him off.

 

[monkeyman057]

Sometimes we indulge our partner because it makes them happy. If you're not into it then you're just not. But if it makes him happy, and you don't mind doing it - hell, why not?

And you never know - you may find that after doing it a few times you come to enjoy it. It's an aquired taste (no pun intended) for some people.

Without knowing more about YOU, it's hard to say what aspects of it to play on to increase your enjoyment. For ME, anything that turns my wife on tends to do the same for me simply by proxy - her enjoyment leads to mine.

Good Luck, and kudos to you for being open to new things and helping your BF realize a fantasy.

 

[Prince Albert]

As said before in the tub. Try doing it in the shower after sex, just pee on his legs. It is a start, & then go from there. Urine is very sterile & safe.

 

[GrrlFriday]

You could always try reading a few of the water sports stories in the Fetish section of this site, and see if anything there appeals to you... The Literotica story fetish tags section includes a lot of 'piss', 'pee', 'urine', etc. tags which you can use to aid your search.

 

[ldlarry52]

Read Fantasy Stories

I thinking reading water sports stories is a great idea. You'll gain some understanding to the fantasy and you'll get ideas as to how to perform the fantasy. I've written a story that includes this fantasy called "Her Inner Slut". It's a series of 4 stories. The second one has the water sports in it.

 

[rbone04]

Sometimes we indulge our partner because it makes them happy. If you're not into it then you're just not. But if it makes him happy, and you don't mind doing it - hell, why not?

And you never know - you may find that after doing it a few times you come to enjoy it. It's an aquired taste (no pun intended) for some people.

Without knowing more about YOU, it's hard to say what aspects of it to play on to increase your enjoyment. For ME, anything that turns my wife on tends to do the same for me simply by proxy - her enjoyment leads to mine.

Good Luck, and kudos to you for being open to new things and helping your BF realize a fantasy.

Agreed. If you're not completely turned off or opposed to the idea then I'd say go for it! You might just find out it's actually a turn-on. If not, now you know. Whether its a bad or good experience, it's not like you have to announce to everyone you know that you gave watersports a shot--I mean, he is the one (so far) who wants to get pissed on.

As with every couple's venture into new sexual territory, COMMUNICATION IS ALWAYS THE BEST ADVICE for exploring sexuality in a way that that allows the best chance of a pleasurable experience for the both of you...

In this case you'd be doing it to entertain his fantasy so I assume he knows what turns him on. Let him lead the way. BUT... make sure he understands beforehand that if you become the least bit uncomfortable, you expect him to respect that and immediately move back to your comfort level or even stop when you need to. You should obviously reciprocate the same courtesy if it was your fantasy.

I like to avoid new sexual topics altogether before getting intimate, as it ensures there's no awkward feeling of pressure to jump into anything just yet. I've also found these types of conversations are best had WELL BEFORE becoming wrapped up in, or even just anticipating, any sexual activity so that no hard feelings are had if you suddenly need to let him know you're not OK with something in the heat of the moment.

My favorite time to suggest trying new things, especially those that I think might push my partner's boundaries, is right after a passionate sex session while you're lying next to one another completely exhausted. I think this is a time that most of us are more open to the idea of taking things to a new level because it's hard to imagine it being much better than it just was...

It's much easier to come to a mutual understanding of an idea of when you will both be ready while you're still totally turned on but recovering in that state of euphoric bliss. I know my confidence and comfort level for taboo discussion is at its highest when we're both just staring into each others' eyes with that silly uncontrollable grin thinking, "what the fuck just happened?!?!" You know... the kind of sex where, afterwards, there's no doubt that both of your minds were just *ahem* blown, and a high-five is perfectly acceptable.

 

[amofiga]

My boyfriend has slowly been letting me in on more of his sexual fantasies and fetishes, the newest one is water sports. I'm pretty open for anything, but I don't really have an interest in it. It doesn't turn me on really. The thought doesn't turn me off and I am willing to try for him, but does anyone have tips on how to do it so that we both get pleasure from it?

Good for you for wanting to do something to please your boyfriend even though you think you may not be into it yourself. I truly wish I had found some partners that would try some watersports with me beyond just letting me watch them pee. I think the tub/shower idea would be the best way to start. It's what I would have suggested (and did once upon a time with no positive response). That way it seems a tad "cleaner" to start with. Good luck. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy. You may find that the whole "naughty" aspect of it becomes a turn on for you as well once you try.

 

[subwannabe]

Sometimes love and sex is give and take. My wife grew up with the opinion that sex between a man and a woman should always be mutually pleasurable with no exceptions. That means both have orgasms. There can never be a time where she has one and I don't an vice versa. I have really tried working with her on this but it is a very foreign concept to her. She has a very rigid conception of this and that there are no grey areas. All of her ducks always have to be lined up the same way and there are no alternatives to anything. It can be very frustrating to me and really inhibits experimenting or spontanaity. I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you don't mind doing it, it doesn't have to be a mutually fulfilling thing. You can get yours before or afterward or even on a different day. Maybe one day he gets what he likes, the next day you get what you like. Maybe some days he will have an orgasm and you don't and vice versa. Don't be afraid to break the rules and think outside the box. It can actually enlighten your experiences.

 

[GrrlFriday]

You could also try learning how to pee standing - which in some situations, (camping) could be its own reward.

 

[NaturistLouise]

As said before in the tub. Try doing it in the shower after sex, just pee on his legs. It is a start, & then go from there. Urine is very sterile & safe.

This how we started ... go for it and have fun!

 

[SkylarFalling]

I've never done watersports, but we do do a lot of playing with my gspot. A lot of women (including myself) say that stimulating it induces this reeeeeally gorgeous feeling of needing release that is very close to the feeling of needing to pee. Especially good if your bladder is quite full already. I don't biologically understand how pee and your gspot are linked, but the point is that they seem to be for a lot of women.

If they are for you, then maybe be in the bath or shower and have him finger you, and if you get to the gspot feeling of wanting release, just let it go. You'll be horny enough to want to, and you'll be peeing, which I believe is what he is after.

 

[box13]

My boyfriend has slowly been letting me in on more of his sexual fantasies and fetishes, the newest one is water sports. I'm pretty open for anything, but I don't really have an interest in it. It doesn't turn me on really. The thought doesn't turn me off and I am willing to try for him, but does anyone have tips on how to do it so that we both get pleasure from it?

Even if the idea is not all that exciting, you might find that the fact that it's a huge turn-on for him is something that you enjoy. Try to listen to what he's thinking of I guess, maybe it's a "accident" kind of scenario,or maybe it's just (like some suggest) laying in the tub and letting you go on him. My interest has been her sitting on my lap and peeing (the one time was outside, sitting on the porch) and also wetting "accidents" which I think are pretty erotic.

You could also try learning how to pee standing - which in some situations, (camping) could be its own reward.

Whoa! Lot of eye-opening information there! I found something of that site (possibly what she references) years ago, thought it was just as hot as could be.

I've never done watersports, but we do do a lot of playing with my gspot. A lot of women (including myself) say that stimulating it induces this reeeeeally gorgeous feeling of needing release that is very close to the feeling of needing to pee. Especially good if your bladder is quite full already. I don't biologically understand how pee and your gspot are linked, but the point is that they seem to be for a lot of women.

If they are for you, then maybe be in the bath or shower and have him finger you, and if you get to the gspot feeling of wanting release, just let it go. You'll be horny enough to want to, and you'll be peeing, which I believe is what he is after.

This sounds like probably what the OP is referring to, but maybe a little impractical for most situations without a lot of plastic down and some preparation. Still pretty erotic though.

Good luck, and I'm sure he appreciates you even more for at least giving things a shot. If he likes it, try to do that at least once in a while. It'll work wonders for your relationship if he feels (and you feel) that you're listening to each other and meeting each others needs.

 

[Sans Tache]

Try it...you'll like it.
My experience has been that ladies who aren't completely opposed to the idea find it to be a real turn on.

 

[lili_fromtx]

Try riding him in the tube -- then if you're like me you always have to pee after sex.

So instead of running to the potty like usual, drain the tube, lift up off him, and pee all over his cock and balls.

You can make it sensual, like hold his head in your hands, kiss him, then shock him by peeing.

If he digs watersports, that'll probably make him crazy.

Then you can just jump in the shower.