How to...Not be a loser

[Sherman Mann]

OK, I've had many years experience at being a loser, so I know what girls do not like. In other words, girls like men who aren't me.

So if you want to make the mack-daddy scene, don't be like me. What am I like? Well, I might as well tell you so you don't fall into the same pratfalls as I did.

Dedicate yourself to the development of your body; your mind does not count.

Do; do not dream. Dreamers are the stuff of fantasies. Any dreamer is obviously a player who is on the losing end. Or me.

Ambition; if you haven't reached your potential by 22, you're not worth most ladies time. At least, that has been my experience. I would love for a real woman to treat me wrong.

Intelligence; you're not here to fuck. OK, so this one is an ambition of mine. While I like intelligence, the same can't be said for the fairer sex. And they can afford to be more selective. So while a guy like me has nothing to gain, a straight man with low intelligence can be everything to someone if he looks good; so work on developing your body, not your mind. Mental abilities, in my experience, gets you nowhere.

From Sacramento? OK, so this isn't good for most women, but for most of the women in my selection, this is rather helpful. Anyway, any woman who is local is good. Am I right?

So am I way off base, or should I rewrite this thread? You be the judge. I think I'm right on, but you ultimately decide. So what say you, board posters?

 

[Willing and Unsure]

ummm.... what planet have you come from? personally, i dont care what a person looks like to have an interest in them. it is all personality for me. the more intelligence the better. i like to be able to learn from others and have them learn from me. but that isnt the most important thing. and for the women you seem to be describing, it sounds like you've found the shallow ones. try taking a look in the background (or the shadows as some call it), you'll probably find a lot of nice women there.

 

[cactiphile]

Looking in the wrong places?

As Willing and unsure said, it sounds like your looking at the wrong women. What women want varies so much, that if you look long enough and in the right places you might
find some who will like/love you for your mind not ur nerdish body A sense of humour helps better than both though, and your post says you may have one buried in there somewhere.

I'd start hanging out in libraries and Museums rather
than at motor shows, discos and beaches. (Not that women
on beaches/discos may not be intelligent, its just the ratios of intelligence may be higher in the aformentioned places).

Good luck anyway.

Cactiphile

 

[StarBound]

women dont like low self confidence either. Just a hint

 

[MidwestParidise]

Dude, snap out of it. Take it from someone whose been there and suffered through the lonelyness and heartache you're living with. First, Sherman stop the whining. Believe me, women do not think it enfearing, For christ sakes, anyone listening to you is as big a loser as you are. The just feel sorry enough for you to take a little break from wallowing in their the their own self pit. Snap out of it. Think for a minute. There are more monen than men right here right now. So where are they? How come there alway seems tp be more men where ever I go. Women congregate and are doing things all the time. Get it. Go out and live a little bit. (I hate to mention it, but try a church. If the boy king can fool half a nation into believing he's a born again christian, you can at least meet some people and build up confidence and self esteme. It's easy They like to talk. I'm Unitarion, I was born to talk. But be carefull. The closer you get to baptist the talk shifts coverting.) Remeber women are patient. They know enough of you will snap out of it to at least guarentee our species survival. Sherman. you created this goddess image, with some strong nudging from the advertising guys, that does not exist for guys like us. You can't be something you're not no matter how hard you work. They know it. The mack-daddyies and all the other classification all get back to onething, cool. You can't work at cool. It's natural. Today's cool does not nor will it ever apply to you. This is their time. Let them have it. Yours will come later. We all have a period of cool. You will suddenly be cool and you didn't have to lift a finger. It just came