How to meet a new lover

[wortchiller]

Just ended an affair with a recently separated women who I met through work. I'm married, 50 and liked the feeling of being with someone else. She decided she would be more comfortable with a single man. I am not interested in changing my marital status but not entirely happy with my sex life with wife.
Here is the problem. I don't get out much by myself. Always with wife or kids. If I just started going out at night by myself it would raise suspicion. Any ideas about where I can meet someone other than hanging out in bars? I flirt with all the pretty ladies I meet in stores, work, etc. but with no luck. Friendship doesn't have to be only about sex. Enjoying lunch or some time on a Saturday afternoon makes me happy too. I enjoy making women smile.
Thanks in advance for the ideas and if anyone is interested I am in the 301/410 area code in Southern Maryland. PM me.

 

[NightL]

I enjoy making women smile.

When was the last time you truly made your wife smile?

 

[wortchiller]

Not that we don't have sex. She just very vanilla. I do go down on her way more than she does on me. I make her very happy when we do. I just like to cheat and want to meet other women for fun. After 24 years of marriage things have gotten boring. We have discussed this but after a few weeks of her trying a little harder she loses interest.

 

[NightL]

Try using the Literotica Personals for your requests http://forum.literotica.com/forumdisplay.php?f=13

 

[wortchiller]

Tried that before. Not sure there are many women on lit down here in So. MD. I'll try again. Hopefully I can write an ad that isn't as cheesy as some I have read there. Thanks!

 

[harry johnson]

Have you tried going door to door asking each woman that answers "hey wanna shag?" While some doors might get slammed in your face, it's worth a try..

 

[CWatson]

Try asking your wife.

1) First off, cheating is kind of a bad thing. But if you have permission to open your marriage, it stops being cheating. And that would be good. And seriously, is it worth risking your marriage just to get some sexual jollies?

2) Second off, she might be able to help you find someone on the side. The women's gossip network is a fair bit more discreet than you going around fishing; men are as subtle as a tiger in a playground when it comes to sex, no matter how hard they try. (It's partially a cultural thing. Men are expected to have trouble controlling their willies, and will get cast in that light whether that's the truth or not.) Additionally, you basically want someone who is like your wife but more kinky, yes? Well, she probably knows some people who are like that. And she might just be relieved to not have to bend herself backwards to serve your sexual needs.

 

[Eilan]

*grabs the popcorn*

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[Emerson40]

*grabs the popcorn*

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As popcorn is buttery delicious nom-noms, and excluded from any silly New Years resolutions, count me in.

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[FlutterFlye]

Seriously??? You sound a real catch

 

[MsQuote]

I just like to cheat and want to meet other women for fun.

At least you're honest about something.