For flak...understand I'm telling you this from my experience not trying to say what it feels like for the girl ...
With oral sex the time frame can be 2 seconds to 40 minutes. Depends on how turned on she is and a number
of other factors. If you whisper in a girl's ear that, later, you're going to suck her until her eyes cross, and
then don't do anything for the next 4 hours chances are she's going to be so wired that when you do start to
nibble on her she'll go boom in seconds just from the anticipation.
Teasing is good too. Spend an hour licking, sucking, biting, nibbling, growling, sniffing her - everywhere. Roll
her over, turn her upside down, move her arms and legs and head around to where you can chew on every
part of her.
Close your eyes and moan like you're about to cum yourself so she KNOWS you are just LOVING every inch
of her bod. Spend a lot of time around her ass, her inner thighs, her nipples, the back of her neck and knees
BUT DON'T TOUCH HER CLIT. Look into her eyes and ask, innocently if she wants to come now. If she doesn't
already have several handfuls of your hair she'll probably indicate in SOME WAY that anytime SOOOOOON
would be a good thing. Guaranteed, at this point, you touch her clit with your tongue...just hold it there and
she won't be able to stop her orgasm. As soon as she starts just start beating the hell out of it with your
tongue and keep doing that until she's either passed out or can't move. You stop the tongue (or fingers) on
her clit in mid cum and chances are
you'll never see her again. Her orgasm STOPS in mid stage and so does your relationship. Always keep going
on her clit when she's cuming. DO NOT *repeat* DO NOT STOP until she begs you to. After a big O her clit is
supersenstive and may be starting to hurt. She'll let you know when to stop. NEVER stop sooner than that.
NEVER.
NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.NEVER.
Well maybe if there's a fire but there better be one DAMN good reason.
If you just go down on her and she's tired and mad at some fool at work and the kids need shoes and she
hasn't told you yet that her mother is coming for a visit...plan on being down there several DAYS! She has to
clench her muscles down there to cum AND do that with the right mental picture / attitude. If she can't
concentrate on that or she worried or too tired she may never cum under those circumstances.
With G-gasms I've found that it'll take about 2 minutes, sometimes a little more, to start the actual build-up to an
O. The thing with the G-gasms is that if you give her time to catch her breath - say a minute or two - you can
start again and this time it takes 30 seconds to initiate an O. You can keep that up until she is pleading for a
break. Be warned though. That kind of orgasm is like heroin to girls. The more you can ring her chimes at will
the more she'll want. It's REALLY addictive for them. The other thing I've noticed with G-gasms is, it doesn't
matter if she's tired (a little longer to get going maybe) but once you're are a roll YOU are in control. She simply
can't relax and NOT cum. The power to do that to a girl is equally addictive. Just be careful that if you get too
rough you can bruise her cervix which will ache like a mother for a few days and ain't the most positive thing
you want her to remember.
i think the key to awesome oral on a girl is finding her g spot. if you don't know where that is, you're in for a long run of clit licking, which can be tedious. to find the g spot, insert a finger or two or three even, depending on how big your fingers are, palm up into her pussy deep and kinda flick them up, like towards yourself. finger her and hit her g spot while licking her clit and she'll cum like a maniac and it probably won't take very long, either. this is what i love and it's what my gf loves me to do to her. she also likes her ass fingered. you don't have to do that though. some girls don't dig that kinda action. another good thing to do is play with other body parts while doing this. remember, you have two hands, use both. if you have one hand occupied with the g spot, reach around and play with her breasts and nipples. this should get her even more excited and wet while you're giving her head. i personally hate having my clit sucked on a lot. it's feels awkward. if you bite a clit, please be somewhat gentle unless the girl likes pain. remember, biting a clit is tantamount to biting a dick. you wouldn't want your dick bit, would you? i just like relentless licking. the stronger the tongue the better. oh yeah, and if you have a long tongue, put it to good use too, lick her all up and down and stick it in her pussy if you can manage. and if you're brave enough, lick her asshole too!