How to know is a Lady is interested?

[Normal1_2]

I'm male and live in a SE Asian country, my language here is ok but not great.
I have felt myself gravitating towards the female owner of a coffee shop, that I go most days now.
We are both married as she knows, but I would like to know her more. She smiles at me like she does to all customers.

How to know if she likes me?..without embarrassing her if it turns out she doesn't?

Thank you for your time.

 

[PurplePlunger]

Getting to know you

I'm male and live in a SE Asian country, my language here is ok but not great.
I have felt myself gravitating towards the female owner of a coffee shop, that I go most days now.
We are both married as she knows, but I would like to know her more. She smiles at me like she does to all customers.

How to know if she likes me?..without embarrassing her if it turns out she doesn't?

Thank you for your time.

There are a few questions that you would have to answer first Normal.
Are you Thai?
Is she Thai?
We can move on from there by PM if you like

 

[may_I_please]

She smiles at you like she does to all customers
She's married
You're married

Chances are slim

 

[PurplePlunger]

She smiles at you like she does to all customers
She's married
You're married

Chances are slim

I have a slightly different view
She's female
You're male
There's always hope
It depends how keen you are and how you play your cards.
You could start with sawasdee krap to break the ice (Thai for good day)

 

[Sammael Bard]

So let me get this straight:

You want to know more about her or do you want to have a sexual relationship with her?

First option isn't a problem. All is takes is the balls to walk up to her and say 'hello'. After that it's about talking/sharing mutual interests and stuff like that. If she seems to be dismissive, you'd know she's not interested.

Just a smile means nothing. I get a lot of smiles in the ward, but that doesn't mean interest or anything like that. It can also be just courtesy.

Now if you're looking to get in her pants, I can't help with that. I've no experience in the home-wrecking department.

 

[Dribble]

Do you tip? Then of course she smiles.

 

[dead_niinja]

If this is anywhere in the subcontinent (like India or Pak) then you have a good chance if you press all the right buttons. Women, especially married, are game if you have a good personality. She is a coffee shop owner, independent and smiles. That's a good start.

 

[PurplePlunger]

If this is anywhere in the subcontinent (like India or Pak) then you have a good chance if you press all the right buttons. Women, especially married, are game if you have a good personality. She is a coffee shop owner, independent and smiles. That's a good start.

Pay attention please Ninja
Normal is in Bangkok
You know the place?
Thailand old chap.

 

[dead_niinja]

Pay attention please Ninja
Normal is in Bangkok
You know the place?
Thailand old chap.

I just saw that. I am sorry. Yes, Bangkok should be cool. Single life in Thailand is cracking mate. All you need to do is make a move, right?