How to Ignite Your Partner's Passion

[arenth8]

This topic came up on another thread so I thought I'd post it here as it's own topic.
There seem to be a large number of men, mostly, married to women with little to no sex drive. I for one am in that situation. So the questions are:
1. How do you ignite your partner's passion for sex?
2. How do you get your partner to be more sexually adventurous?
3. When do you give up and seek satisfaction elsewhere?

 

[ukrocker69]

I'm not married but in long term relationship

1. How do you ignite your partner's passion for sex?

Fortunatly she is pasionate but not anywhere near as often as me. Sadly i find myself doing the tipical thinking "if i clean the house, buy flowers" etc... then it may ignite something but doesn't always. She is only horny when she is horny and i'm unable to influance that.

2. How do you get your partner to be more sexually adventurous?

AAgain this is up to her if she is in the mood then we can have fun but lately we have gotten too vanilla for my likeing and I am at a loss as to how to get her out of this rut.

3. When do you give up and seek satisfaction elsewhere?

I haven't yet... Well i part gave up on a couple of occasions and went out with an "I'm not planning on anything but if one thing starts leading to annother i wont stop it" attitude. and even after some flirting from me with women none of them seemed to want anything so im still faithfull.

 

[arenth8]

It sounds all too familiar

WHEN my wife decides we can have sex (usually after about 45 minutes of begging) then it's pretty plain. Only recently has she started to get a bit more adventurous.