How to Grope a Man

[DaddyJustin]

Okay this may be a really stupid question....but I want to grope this guy and he wants me to grope him..but I don't know how to grope. I want to make it feel good for him but I want to know if anyone knows how to do that?

Any info would be really appreaciated
Justin

 

[Revel_Less]

This probably goes without saying, but incase you are like me and occassionally are a space cadet. I think you should make sure you do it in the right place. And I don't mean on his body.

The best and worst groping (if that is the right term for it) that I recieved was when I was over at a friend's dorm room. We were watching a movie. I was sitting on a bean bag chair, and she was sitting in front of me (it wasn't either of our dorm room). And before I knew it, she was rubbing up against me. I swear, it was like her spine had grown fingers.

Now it was great because it felt soo good.

But it was terrible because there were 3 other people in the room (the two girls that lived there, and another guy).

So yeah, make sure that there is no company around or at least none of the "wrong" company (people who think petting and such in public is inappropriate).

As to technique. I think a good groping is more than just hand-to-genitia contact. Maybe a combination of cupping and pressing your body against his or hers.

 

[bisexplicit]

If I understand you correctly, you're looking for techniques on how to give a handjob?

 

[Nightbird]

Ya this confused me too Bi..

 

[bisexplicit]

Ya this confused me too Bi..

I think people need to learn how to type better one-handed, personally. hehehe.

Okay, stupid joke, but its 1:30am...

 

[Nightbird]

Actually that was kinda funny. Made me laugh..

 

[bisexplicit]

Actually that was kinda funny. Made me laugh..

Well, yay...it made me laugh too, and then I was like wait thats stupid...but okay, I'll laugh again, hehe.

 

[Nightbird]

So I think we can safely hijack this Thread Bi..

Hows it going?

 

[bisexplicit]

So I think we can safely hijack this Thread Bi..

Hows it going?

Yay. I love thread hijacking.
And I'm doing good...I should be going to sleep soon, but I had too crazy of a night to go to sleep just yet.

 

[Nightbird]

You had a crazy night? Ohhh do tell! Share and leave out no details!!

Yay. I love thread hijacking.
And I'm doing good...I should be going to sleep soon, but I had too crazy of a night to go to sleep just yet.

 

[bisexplicit]

You had a crazy night? Ohhh do tell! Share and leave out no details!!

Well...https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=12867206#post12867206

(Or if you're too lazy to go read the post I made about it...)

So, having described the wonders of kegel muscles to my friends, they were fairly shocked that I could have orgasms without even touching myself. And, the discussion had been fairly sexual up until that point...and my friends are fairly open (two of them who were there have fooled around together)...they wanted to see how I could do it without touching myself. So, I orgasmed. hehe, I've never done anything that crazy before...
I'm sure my story is quite innocent in comparison to most, but for me it was quite scandalous.


Yeah, so I'm still on a "oh my god, what did I do?" buzz, hehe.

 

[Nightbird]

I can so relate to that... And good for you to be open and brave enough to do it.

Well...https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?p=12867206#post12867206

(Or if you're too lazy to go read the post I made about it...)

how I could do it without touching myself. So, I orgasmed. hehe, I've never done anything that crazy before...
I'm sure my story is quite innocent in comparison to most, but for me it was quite scandalous.


Yeah, so I'm still on a "oh my god, what did I do?" buzz, hehe.

 

[bisexplicit]

I can so relate to that... And good for you to be open and brave enough to do it.

Thanks.
Now, theres the whole making sure my boyfriend doesn't flip out part to deal with, hehe.

 

[Nightbird]

Ohh thats easy.. Just don't tell him..

 

[bisexplicit]

Ohh thats easy.. Just don't tell him..

*rolls eyes* And what a good relationship that would be, hehe.

 

[Nightbird]

Hay now... Be nice, no judging allowed.

I take it, he's a little more Vanilla?

 

[bisexplicit]

Hay now... Be nice, no judging allowed.

I take it, he's a little more Vanilla?

Slightly. Not excessively...he just doesn't like to be left out. And can be too jealous sometimes, in my opinion.

 

[Nightbird]

Ahhhhh... You know jealousy has it's roots in, insecurity..

Now this brings up a good topic.. Does he know your Bi? I've never dated a Bi person before but it does add a whole new dimension doesn't it?

 

[bisexplicit]

Yeah, he does know that I'm bi. And, partially it turns him on, but partially it worries him...like, he won't be enough for me or something. Which isn't true.

 

[Nightbird]

Thats exactly what I was thinking.. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering.. "Will she find a woman who makes her happier?" etc.. etc..

Guys don't truly comprehend love, and add a dash of insecurity to it and you get a guy wondering / worrying that he's good enough for you.

Yeah, he does know that I'm bi. And, partially it turns him on, but partially it worries him...like, he won't be enough for me or something. Which isn't true.

 

[bisexplicit]

Thats exactly what I was thinking.. In the back of his mind he's probably wondering.. "Will she find a woman who makes her happier?" etc.. etc..

Guys don't truly comprehend love, and add a dash of insecurity to it and you get a guy wondering / worrying that he's good enough for you.

Yeah, he constantly is saying that I'm too good for him, that he doesn't deserve a girl like me, etc. Which, in a way, is kindof flattering - but I wish he had a bit more confidence and realized that he /does/ deserve me, you know.

 

[Revel_Less]

I'm sure if you orgasm for him a few times without touching that he will get over it.

But to get back to the thread.

If you (DJ) are indeed asking how to give a handjob. Then just remember, touching a guy pretty much anywhere is going to feel good. You could run your hand through his hair (assuming he isn't bald and he doesn't have tangles) and it might not turn him on, but it would not feel bad.

The only thing you need to worry about is maybe squeezing too hard or scratching.

 

[bisexplicit]

I'm sure if you orgasm for him a few times without touching that he will get over it.

But to get back to the thread.

If you (DJ) are indeed asking how to give a handjob. Then just remember, touching a guy pretty much anywhere is going to feel good. You could run your hand through his hair (assuming he isn't bald and he doesn't have tangles) and it might not turn him on, but it would not feel bad.

The only thing you need to worry about is maybe squeezing too hard or scratching.

hehe, look at you and your staying-on-topic-ness, how silly.
And as for handjob advice...well, if you jerk yourself off, I think you know how to give a handjob, hehe.

 

[Râleclins]

Okay this may be a really stupid question....but I want to grope this guy and he wants me to grope him..but I don't know how to grope. I want to make it feel good for him but I want to know if anyone knows how to do that?

Any info would be really appreaciated
Justin

Errr... From your post history and your nickname, I get it you're a guy, aren't you ?

My own opinion about groping is pretty much the same as with etiquette in general : when in doubt, do what the other person likes to do to you. That probably works even better if you both are boys. If he likes to grope your arse, for instance, then it probably means he'd like you to grope his.
If you like stories, there's the story of my first ex ever, who was saying she was totally immune to tickles. I tried to tickle her belly, and it didn't work. But I felt it was weird when she tried to tickle my knees, which aren't really sensitive to tickles. I had actually never thought of knees as a place to tickle. But it allowed me to find out that it was her only weak point...

So the moral is, be attentive to the other. A guy who always tries to lick a girl's breasts would probably like to have his own nipples touched.

The other way to know where to touch him is to ask him. Politely.

 

[Quoll]

Yay. I love thread hijacking.
And I'm doing good...I should be going to sleep soon, but I had too crazy of a night to go to sleep just yet.

Well Bi, I think you have done it often enough, we can now call it BiJacking.

I now officially declare this thread [BiJacked]