How to get some head!

[Lewisdb]

Probably not the usual sort of how to but I am looking for some advice!

I have just come out of a long term relationship with a girl who quite frankly didn't like giving head. So my question is, how do I find a nice girl that loves to give head? It's been sooooo long and I need to feel a hot pair of lips around me...

Any advice gratefully received. Any willing ladies in the uk even more gratefully received I guarantee you will never find a more grateful chap and I promise to return the favour with interest!

 

[HeyItsDani]

Hire a professional?

 

[boredVAwife]

Pour it too fast out of the tap? - On a serious note, I think most of us are more than willing to do what makes our partner feel good as long as we are getting what we are giving. If you are taking the time and making the effort to please the woman you are with there should not be a problem getting her to do that for you. If you are not in a relationship, believe it or not some of us still enjoy doing that for a guy if we feel like it's something we want to do and not forced on us.

 

[Lewisdb]

Hire a professional?

Hey and thanks for the reply. Not really sure thats the route I want to go down. I want to find someone that wants to please me because it makes them feel horney as hell!

Unless that is a speciality whore does that kind of things for kicks as well as the remuneration??

I love the quote btw

 

[Lewisdb]

Pour it too fast out of the tap? -

Show me the tap

If you are not in a relationship, believe it or not some of us still enjoy doing that for a guy if we feel like it's something we want to do and not forced on us.

Where have you been all my life??

 

[HeyItsDani]

Unless that is a speciality whore does that kind of things for kicks as well as the remuneration??

I love the quote btw

Hahaha.

And thanks.

 

[sweepthefloor]

Maybe just tell her to suck it. I don't know.

 

[CWatson]

So my question is, how do I find a nice girl that loves to give head?

The answer everyone else has been dancing around is this: You don't.

I'm not sure what the statistics are nowadays; evidently, it's seen as distasteful by a lot of modern women, so there is probably a sizeable percentage of women-who-give-head who would be unwilling to admit it to a public survey. But the simple fact is that there are no indicators or something that you can see when you're walking past someone on the street. Unless their shirt says, "I love to give blowjobs" or something.

What you'll have to do instead is, well, form a relationship with the woman first. You'll have to get to know her, until the two of you feel comfortable talking about things like oral sex. Tell her that you really want to receive it and see what she says. If it's a dealbreaker, it's a dealbreaker; these things happen.

Alternative: use OKCupid. I can't find them, but I know for a fact that there's Match questions concerning willingness to both give and receive oral sex. Or use Adultfriendfinder.

That's all I got.

 

[boredVAwife]

Show me the tap
Where have you been all my life??

Looking for my ms right.

 

[subwannabe]

CWatson is right. First, you've got to decide if you want to just fuck someone (or more precisely get head) or if you are after a real total relationship.

 

[Biker_Type]

The answer everyone else has been dancing around is this: You don't.

I'm not sure what the statistics are nowadays; evidently, it's seen as distasteful by a lot of modern women, so there is probably a sizeable percentage of women-who-give-head who would be unwilling to admit it to a public survey. But the simple fact is that there are no indicators or something that you can see when you're walking past someone on the street. Unless their shirt says, "I love to give blowjobs" or something.

What you'll have to do instead is, well, form a relationship with the woman first. You'll have to get to know her, until the two of you feel comfortable talking about things like oral sex. Tell her that you really want to receive it and see what she says. If it's a dealbreaker, it's a dealbreaker; these things happen.

Alternative: use OKCupid. I can't find them, but I know for a fact that there's Match questions concerning willingness to both give and receive oral sex. Or use Adultfriendfinder.

That's all I got.

this may be a perfect answer. i was married & with a woman for 20 years who just didn't like to give head. i'm not talking once a month or once a year but never.

 

[Elaya]

IMHO...

This obviously doesn't apply across the board.. but watch for subtle clues that a woman has a slight oral fixation.
Does she..
.. chew gum all the time (though could be for bad breath, or stave of eating/cravings)
... like suckers?
...Bite/lick her lips often?
...put the tip of a finger or nuckle to her lips much?

And again.. not at all and indicator, but without staring and seeming creepy.. notice how a woman eats an ice cream cone. Introductory phrase could be.. s'cuse me.. where did you find the ice cream?

Some of these habits can be subconscious, people don't even realize they are doing them.

 

[subwannabe]

I'm not sure I agree with the previous post (but I'm not saying that I don't either) but, I am saying how very hot it is to watch a woman sexily eat a banana, ice cream cone, etc. Sorry, just had to say it. Excuse me for a few minutes. I'll be right back.

 

[Tmmldr]

IMHO...

This obviously doesn't apply across the board.. but watch for subtle clues that a woman has a slight oral fixation.
Does she..
.. chew gum all the time (though could be for bad breath, or stave of eating/cravings)
... like suckers?
...Bite/lick her lips often?
...put the tip of a finger or nuckle to her lips much?

And again.. not at all and indicator, but without staring and seeming creepy.. notice how a woman eats an ice cream cone. Introductory phrase could be.. s'cuse me.. where did you find the ice cream?

Some of these habits can be subconscious, people don't even realize they are doing them.

Clues that a woman loved to give head would be priceless.

I'm talking here about really, really, loving to suck it.

 

[Virgil_Mayhap]

The most obvious answer to most sexual questions is the following:

Make a woman feel sexy, and she'll do anything for you.

Doing the above is pretty easy. Simply dive in and focus on your partner. Show her that you're in it for mutual pleasure. Show her that her body is electrifying. Show her that you know how to please her. Show her that you're confident and capable.

As the comfort levels increase she will want to reciprocate in her own way.

--

The above doesn't apply if you just want to walk into a bar and get your cock sucked in the parking lot. To get that to happen you have to be lucky enough to meet the right girl on the right night. Sure it happens, but it isn't the norm.

 

[CatBrown]

IMHO...

This obviously doesn't apply across the board.. but watch for subtle clues that a woman has a slight oral fixation.
Does she..
.. chew gum all the time (though could be for bad breath, or stave of eating/cravings)
... like suckers?
...Bite/lick her lips often?
...put the tip of a finger or nuckle to her lips much?

And again.. not at all and indicator, but without staring and seeming creepy.. notice how a woman eats an ice cream cone. Introductory phrase could be.. s'cuse me.. where did you find the ice cream?

Some of these habits can be subconscious, people don't even realize they are doing them.

I was sitting here thinking how silly the quoted post was, since I don't have an oral fixation but I really enjoy giving head, when I realized my finger was tapping my lip as I read!
Maybe they're right after all.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I think you're on a "hit" and "miss" hunt, if that is all your looking for. Good luck.

I know I enjoyed doing it for a long time, until I was told "I'm not really into eating pussy" - then it became more of a chore - and then I said, "screw this" and stopped unless I was in the mood. Eventually he realized I was calling the shots and the tables were turned, now we're definitely more of a 50/50 couple than we ever were and he has often told me how stupid he was for not willing to participate in the good ol' 69 method.