how to get my wife into Pegging

[dodgeboy2]

Just wondering hoping I can get a few ideas how I can try to talk my wife into this. I have always loved having my ass played with and especially love being probed. I really would love for her to strap on and peg me but don't know how to broach the subject. She is and has always been pretty straight forward as far as sex is concerned and it took my a while to even get her to let me use a vibrator on her but she lets me do it now, not as often as I would like but she does like it when I do. It's funny she used to be open to so many things in the past but the last 10 or so years of our 37 year marriage she has mostly just wanted missionary sex and that's about it other than letting me use the vibrator on her. She used to love giving me head but not anymore the last time I got that was my birthday 3 years ago and I have tried so many times over the years to bring back that girl that would do oh so many things.

Here's to hoping some of you have advice on loosening her back up again.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Just ask. You've been married 37 years... If your relationship isn't strong enough to weather a lighthearted conversation about your sexual curiosities, I'd be surprised you made it this far. It's not like you're coming out of the closet. Pegging between a man and a woman is still straight sex, and it's pretty well mainstream these days. If she's uncomfortable with it, don't push it. Laugh it off with her and reassure her it's just a curiosity and not a need you have.

 

[klippert]

This is easy yet difficult. If you have an active sex life and she’s into anal play. Like she plays with your ass too, and enjoys her ass fucked. Then it’s just a matter of bringing it up.
If Not;
Then the game becomes; either you just introduce pegging to her or slowly innuendo the subject. I’m telling you; if she is opposed to anything anal. Most likely it won’t happen. If you introduce it slowly and her reaction is such that she mentions anything M/M (gay). You’ll have a uphill battle.
Always remember this. Her reaction should be meet with understanding. You are not a victim of her adverse reaction. If she has one. Asking a wife to strap-on your ass is 99%; not on their radar. I’ll bet, a lot of wives would have been prepared for the 3 sum questions

 

[geronimo_appleby]

throw her the strap-on and tell her you boned her sister.

 

[Shi_One81]

Ask. Let her know it’s something you desire. Ask her if there’s anything she desires or would like to do in the bedroom.

 

[Goldenfinger]

Ask..

 

[Goldenfinger]

Hopefully in your 37 years of marriage you have built a relationship that you can talk to each other. Have you had a talk about sex in the last 3 years or have you just let it dwindle to what it is now.

 

[gary04]

Pegging

I been married for 32 yrs now and my sex life is almost nothing. One day my wife gave me a blowjob and I said rub my ass it will make me cum harder. Well she did and it felt great , then a month later I was lucky again . She gave me another blowwjob and I asked finger my ass slide it in and out. I was surprised and she did it and I told her how great it makes a guy feel. After the blowjob I told her I really would like for her to peg me to see how that feels. She wasn't to great on the idea but one day I asked her again and she agreed so it happen and I told her how fantastic it was. In the last year she has pegged me 3 times with alot of begging. I also kinda black mailed her in a nice way. When I do special honey do projects for her I tell her you owe me something special.

 

[ky81nea]

Just wondering hoping I can get a few ideas how I can try to talk my wife into this. I have always loved having my ass played with and especially love being probed. I really would love for her to strap on and peg me but don't know how to broach the subject. She is and has always been pretty straight forward as far as sex is concerned and it took my a while to even get her to let me use a vibrator on her but she lets me do it now, not as often as I would like but she does like it when I do. It's funny she used to be open to so many things in the past but the last 10 or so years of our 37 year marriage she has mostly just wanted missionary sex and that's about it other than letting me use the vibrator on her. She used to love giving me head but not anymore the last time I got that was my birthday 3 years ago and I have tried so many times over the years to bring back that girl that would do oh so many things.

Here's to hoping some of you have advice on loosening her back up again.

hi 58 yr old female here i pegged my husband he loved it but not my fav, i still do not care for staraping on for my partner, let me start out by saying there are several things you can do 1st being married that long (us 41 yr) that she has prob gone through menopause, with that she has NOOOO desire at all for sex b/c she NO longer has those hormones, there are places that do hormone replacement where they do blood work then insert hormone pellets in your butt cheeks my partner and i do this b/c once she stopped having a period she had NOTHING i am still lucky to get it every other night lol. there are over the counter things to help with that also in pill form.. Now 2 communiction is the key to any good and lasting relationships. so you need to talk about the lack of sex get her fixed to where she has a desire for it and then there you go... NOW for you there are butt plugs you can order (which is cheapest than a store) and get graduated sizes and you can wear them while you are sitting around at home out mowing the yard what ever. once you get her hormones fixed she will want sex again and should feel more like her old self then you can open up even more communication toward the pegging hope this helps you

 

[phil1955]

You can always resort to horse trading but use a little finesse. When I do nice things for my wife, she tends to feel she owes me one. Don't push for a one to one but do a bunch of nice things for her. It can be simple things such as some house cleaning, a nice weekend or just buy her something she really wants. In our case it is pretty easy as she has a couple of male friends and I encourage to spend time with them when she wants.. Also I have had prostate surgery so need to find new ways to enjoy sex so when I asked if she would try pegging, she did not hesitate and it is enjoyable.

 

[anniebaby10]

Just ask. You've been married 37 years... If your relationship isn't strong enough to weather a lighthearted conversation about your sexual curiosities, I'd be surprised you made it this far. It's not like you're coming out of the closet. Pegging between a man and a woman is still straight sex, and it's pretty well mainstream these days. If she's uncomfortable with it, don't push it. Laugh it off with her and reassure her it's just a curiosity and not a need you have.

I agree.... ask her. She may like it.

 

[shrek100]

With me,
Mr said about it once. We both enjoy Anal/play.
Visiting a local sex shop, (well warehouse) and he said to me. Get any toy you want and we will use it tonight. I laughed and said "you get any toy you want and we will use that one tomorrow. He said - You wont use it. Any way i promised i would.
I brought a Hitachi Wand and he brought a strapon.
I have to confess i didn't want to try it but i had promised. When i put it on I felt so powerful and LOOOVVVEEEDDD it.
So just go for it. Make her promise she will at least try it and she will be just fine

 

[Goldenfinger]

ya gotta ask.

 

[samnylons00]

I think you mention that you want to be pegged and tell her you are going to buy a harness and a dildo. You can buy some butt plugs too and show her how u insert them... and the pleasure you get.

 

[krug]

You can always start with the go to source for pegging information, Ruby Ryder https://peggingparadise.com/ and her podcasts.

In particular podcast #112. Per her suggestion, listen to it yourself, then play it for your partner.

Original: https://peggingparadise.com/podcast-112-for-the-ladies/

Recent re-post: https://peggingparadise.com/2022/01/podcast-112-the-introduction/

 

[Rexjohnsoninteracial]

Dodgeboy2, my advice is take your wife for a special treat, shower her with gifts. Give her that very special french kiss then slow luv with multiple sessions till she couldn't cum no more. Next morning take charge by telling her to prepare & bring your breakfast to bed. Let her know that you're the man in the house & demand that as a wife one of her major duties is to satisfy your every sexual fantasies & desires. I guarantee you, you'll see a changed attitude from your dear wife. Women by their true nature are submissives no matter how they pretend on the surface, even for f Dom's. Their natural duty is to give full satisfaction to their men. Try my prescription, dude & let me know the outcome

 

[Crios]

If you buy other toys, especially ones for butt play, you're halfway there. Start with plugs and then prostate massagers. Then have the conversation with her. If the two of you have been open about other things of a sexual nature, this should be a good conversation.