How to get anal less painful

live4thebj

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I love love love prostate orgasms. But the problem is I go months at a time doing them for getting the Aneros Vice in my ass is always painful upon entry and take a bit for it to go away.

Any way what is the secret to make it less painful?

And yes I am straight just do solo anal play so guys don’t get the wrong idea.
 
I love love love prostate orgasms. But the problem is I go months at a time doing them for getting the Aneros Vice in my ass is always painful upon entry and take a bit for it to go away.

Any way what is the secret to make it less painful?

And yes I am straight just do solo anal play so guys don’t get the wrong idea.
I'm straight and solo too, but only just started experimenting this week. How long does it take to get to the orgasm and what position? I've had no luck there.
 
I'm straight and solo too, but only just started experimenting this week. How long does it take to get to the orgasm and what position? I've had no luck there.

Laying on my back totally relaxed clear your head and let the toy and vibrations do the work. Be patient and totally relaxed. You will get a ton of micro orgasms before the big O.
 
Is it just this particular device or any dildo which is painful? When I was first starting anal play sometimes it was a little painful if I did not take my time or use enough lube. I also find it is not painful at all if I do it regularly.
 
Is it just this particular device or any dildo which is painful? When I was first starting anal play sometimes it was a little painful if I did not take my time or use enough lube. I also find it is not painful at all if I do it regularly.

Certain ones. Specifically the Aneros Vice. The Helix slides in no problem.
 
Is it just this particular device or any dildo which is painful? When I was first starting anal play sometimes it was a little painful if I did not take my time or use enough lube. I also find it is not painful at all if I do it regularly.

^^^ this ^^^

Definitely taking your time, lots of smaller toys or fingers, more regular...ahem...practice, etc.
 
^^^ this ^^^

Definitely taking your time, lots of smaller toys or fingers, more regular...ahem...practice, etc.

This x 1000000 to infinity and beyond!

Anal Play should NEVER be painful.

Never ever?

NEVER EVER!

This is Rule 1 to 1 Billion.

Pain = Hurting yourself.

You are tearing tissue - FYI you don't want to do that in that area!

Especially in an area that's hard / embarrassing to fix if anything goes wrong.

Seriously.

Start small. Work up.

Pain on any level = STOP!

Anal play = The art of learning to Relax

+ More lube than you think you need...
 
That is the best advice I would give; start with plugs, graduated sized, use a small cone plug and work up to progressively larger plugs.
 
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