How to finish a hand job

[Hotred911]

I love giving my husband hand jobs....especially when I wake him up in the mornings. I've done much practicing, and even watched him masturbate for me....needless to say, I've gotten better with time. The only thing I can't get done is the finishing moments. Guys....how do you like a woman to finish off a hand job? When should I stop stroking? Should I change the amount of pressure, the rythm? Do I continue to stroke him as he cums? Any tips would help me better myself.....thanks.

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

I once had a woman who kept her grip after she finished the job. She just kinda pulsed her grip, no real movement, more like a heartbeat contraction of the fist. She also blew on the head of my penis. Hadn't thought about that in years but damn that was hot!

edited to add
Forgot to mention that I had a second orgasm shortly after that!

 

[Hotred911]

Hmmm...thank you...I'll be trying that one soon.

 

[cg_allstar]

One of the things I liked about my gf stroking me off, is that she would keep on stroking after I came. I would normally have stopped because of the sensitivity, but because she's not me, she would keep going. So intense! When I couldn't take it anymore, I'd have to push her away. Only wish she wasn't so afraid of the cum.

 

[digdat]

this is an interesting question, one that I think I would like to add an opinion on. I personally think that receiving a handjob from a woman is one of the sexiest things that I could have happen from a woman. To have someone else bring you to orgasm, where you don't have to touch yourself is amazing.

My personal favorite is in the shower. I like to stand under the wayer pouring down and have her standing behind me. She reaches around me and starts playing to say. I like one hand, not two. I like it when she grabs about halfway down my cock, and strokes up, making a small fist (not squeezing, but not too soft, as a vagina would surround it ... ) as she goes over the head. Keep going like this. It is my thought that going above the head of the penis is more important (and feels better) than having her hand meet the base of my penis. Not to say the whole length doesn't feel good, its just been my experience that alot of ladies don't go high enough on the head when doing so.

As for cuming, this is gonna depend on the guy. I personally like to see if i can squirt ... so that means I like to have the girl kinda make that fist thing, just covering the head of my cock when I come, and gently squeeze/massage (like someone said, a heartbeat) ...until its over.

After I come, I like her to massage my penis for maybe a couple minutes and gently play wiht my balls in one hand. Massaging the head during/after cuming will make the head/penis REAL sensitive. For me, the sentastion makes me wanna pee (seriously). So, I like to stop before that sensatine comes about. I have to warn my GF about this consistantly. She just enjoys playing with it too much ...

which reminds me of a story!

An ex-gf was giving head once (i told her about being sensitive and peeing) ... and she didn't stop sucking after I came ... I told her .. ya gotta stop otherwise I'm gonna pee .. and then i did .. in her mouth. Not that i wanted to, cause neither of us are into that, but it was an accident. She listened to me from that day forth ...

Hope this helps.

 

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[Quimmy]

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I personally like to finish off a hand job...............with a blow job!

How subtle...

I like her to continue gently and more importantly, massage the testicles and the part in between the testicles and anus. Since it contracts like crazy while pumping out the juice, it feels very nice.

 

[SilvaTungDevil]

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I personally like to finish off a hand job...............with a blow job!

Well of course!

 

[sirhugs]

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I personally like to finish off a hand job...............with a blow job!

my kinda gal
I agree- catching the cum in your mouth is neat and pleasant. Otherwise, keep stroking, but gently, just coaxing the flow out....

 

[Quimmy]

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my kinda gal
I agree- catching the cum in your mouth is neat and pleasant. Otherwise, keep stroking, but gently, just coaxing the flow out....

Reading "coaxing the flow out" made me twitch, damn you.

 

[sirhugs]

well, once it starts cumming, everything gets really intensely sensitive- you need to just ease the last drops free....

 

[Quimmy]

9 times out of 10 I get cum right in my eyes, especially if I'm laying down. Just like a grapefruit. That doesn't happen with a BJ since the angle is different. It really stings! But it's strangely erotic.

 

[Hotred911]

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I personally like to finish off a hand job...............with a blow job!

Well, I'm not much for swallowing....unless I'm in just the right mood, which happens less often then the hand jobs.

Thanks for all the tips everyone, I'll have to try them out and see what he likes the best.

 

[Quimmy]

There was a string of fake pearl beads mentioned in another thread, in relation to masturbating a guy. Sounded delicious. You might want to try that. There's also hand lotion that makes his skin more sensitive. Or oils that heat up. They all might be ideas for your playing.

 

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[Lust Engine]

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you dont have to swallow his cum, you can always kinda push it back out and let it run down your chin.and neck.

Oh EE, that's just another reason we men folk adore you so much! Not only do you perform admirably you give us the wonderful visuals to follow immediately after! Ooooo.... it's starting to get toasty in here alluva sudden!

 

[Richo01]

Ahh !!!

Interesting topic !!

The few times I have had this done to me, has been fantastic !
The best time would have to bee when she was sitting behind me with her breasts pressing up against my back and her legs wrapped around me, quite erotic letting watching her masterbate me, and it was fun doing the same to her after I came, and we switched positions !!

Richo

 

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[bigjacknyc]

lol, I dont know whtherto apologize for it, or grin!

Just keep doin' it Emeral Eyed...please! And the men will surely be doing enough grinning for everyone.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

You can do nearly anything...

The real secret is to just take the cue from your man. If he looks like he is getting closer ask him if he wants it harder, or slower, etc.

That's easily the best plan of action. Everyone is different.



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[bigjacknyc]

Its a deal

hummenna hummenna! <reaches for glass of water>

 

[re_Mark_s]

Re: You can do nearly anything...

Everyone is different.

after reading this thread boy is that quote true.

Personally , my "head" suddenly gets so super sensitive that stroking after I orgasm is almost painfull.
I'll go with the gripping , squeezing heartbeat-like option. But only when I start to come.

*glancing down*........shaddup you, ......go get the paper

 

[Lithe]

everyone's different

Some of my men have really liked me touching them either behind the scrotum, front of the anus, or touching the pucker, putting the tip of the pinkie there, all while they're shootin the jizm.

Most like the pulsing fist around the upper portion of their member, during the explosion, and right after.

One guy I knew was so sensitive, he just begged me not to touch mr. happy after the fountain of cum.

I just try to ask and please.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

Lithe

That's a nice post there.

honestly, I get pretty sensitive myself. However, it's still sooo good.

As for the finger used around that area, that definitely feels good

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