How to find someone for a threesome

[jdolan69]

Hello

My girlfriend and I have tried for months to try to find the right woman for a threesome, but as easy as it seemed at first; it is not.
Neither of us are models but neither of us are anywhere near ugly either.
I am a college student and she is 18 and goes to clubs and we have come close several times with her friends but things never panned out in the end.
Can someone please give us some tips on how they went about doing finding someone or at least what they would do.

JD

 

[goddess_euphoria]

A little advice, in my oppinion, it's better if you don't get anyone either of you know involved. It can cause problems, and in the end makes the whole experience not worth it.

 

[Juliet]

My husband and I received so much advice on this subject when we first began our quest for our "other"...Some said stay away from friends....some said friends are best...Well I'll say that we have had the opportunity for both and I can't imagine things working out any better than they have with two very special friends. Even though we all know it is just simply sex and exploring fantasies we have also created a bond that is undescribable. So my advice is go with your instinct. Every one has an opinion on this subject and only the two of you will really know what works best for you. My other advice is...don't rush things and try not to become too frustrated from the search for the right person. It is difficult but once you do find that right person you will both be greatful for the time it took to be a selective and make the experience enjoyable for both of you.

 

[jdolan69]

Thanks for the help.
But what i really need is ways to meet people.
We know the ups and downs of it we just want some good ideas on how to go about it.

 

[Scott Montgomery]

same here

My wife and I have also been on the "quest" for a girl to join in...I've have gotten advice from my one friend, but he lives in Los Angeles and I'm out in friggn PA! It's really, really hard to find a bi girl here who is willing!

 

[Closet Desire]

Go with your instinct....

...mentioned earlier, but if you're in a bind...get a bi escort. You might not get the right one first time around...but trying can be...er...interesting.

 

[jdolan69]

Sorry
no prostitues escorts what ever you want to call them.
I stay with people you dont have to pay for.
Anyone else got anything.

 

[Closet Desire]

Like I said...

...go with your instinct, but there's almost always a price to pay. The question is whether you want it up front or later down the line.