So true. That's why any intelligent woman takes her man out for a test drive before she should get serious. Maybe he looks good in the showroom but tends to stall out at important intersections, or perhaps he revives his engines but fails to peel off, or maybe he initially handles well but slides in the curves?
If more ladies would test drive their men before investing too much time in a relationship, there would be less buyers' remorse. More women are realizing that sex is a crucial component of a successful relationship thanks to the internet and a more open attitude about sex. I guess men aren't going to be able to hide behind a women's lack of knowledge any longer.
By the way, Mr. Parks is an excellent driver and a pussy savant.
Nervousness or flusteredness in a sexual partner indicates a level of sincerity that I find charming. No one is a perfect lover, but if the chemistry is right it doesn't matter. Attitude is everything. If there is a sense of playfulness and unselfishness, then even ineptitude can be changed by a willingness to experiment and learn new techniques. As someone who once upon a time wanted to "save herself for marriage", I am glad that I gave up that potentially disastrous idea while I was in college (I lost my virginity my senior year in college, so I guess I was a stubborn hold out for all that soul mate nonsense). My older sisters convince me to gain experience, so that I could make an inform choice of partners. I am grateful that I listened to my sisters, and I would urge all women to not discount the sexual side of any potentially serious relationship. By the way, I think it’s refreshing that so many young women are not handicapped with ideas of sexual purity like I was in the ‘80’s and ‘90’s.
Sorry, HP. I didn't mean sound like some hypercritical, hardnosed Teutonic judge at the Olympics.
What men don't understand is that appearing nervous, flustered, or shy is not a turnoff for quite a few women (at least in my experience).
Nervousness or flusteredness in a sexual partner indicates a level of sincerity that I find charming. No one is a perfect lover, but if the chemistry is right it doesn't matter. Attitude is everything. If there is a sense of playfulness and unselfishness, then even ineptitude can be changed by a willingness to experiment and learn new techniques.
By the way, I think it’s refreshing that so many young women are not handicapped with ideas of sexual purity like I was in the ‘80’s and ‘90’s.
Relaxed is always best way to go for the ladies-- gentle and slow with a deft and nimble tongue. For most women, the entire area is really sensitive and becomes more sensitive as we become aroused. If more men would just settle in, relax, and open their mouths like they were French kissing her other mouth, they be surprised at how easy it is really is to please a woman.
