How to do anal tips?

[lonlyflwer]

Hello, not sure if this is the right place but... I am curious about anal sex. Is there anything I should know prior? During? or After? Thank you.

 

[FL30]

Hello, not sure if this is the right place but... I am curious about anal sex. Is there anything I should know prior? During? or After? Thank you.

be clean and you can never use enough lube and to enter slowly

so be clean and lube, lube, lube, lube..

 

[Escierto]

be clean and you can never use enough lube and to enter slowly

so be clean and lube, lube, lube, lube..

That’s pretty much it. You can practice with a dildo before you do it. You can get a bulb syringe to clean yourself out.

 

[asaxon]

That’s pretty much it. You can practice with a dildo before you do it. You can get a bulb syringe to clean yourself out.

Dildo is a great way to start.

 

[SlutAddicted]

A butt plug will help you adapt to the feeling of being full because it is designed to stay in. So rather than simply fucking yourself with a dildo (also helpful) it helps you adapt to the feeling over an extended period (i.e. you could wear it all day if you like). It also has the bulbous part in the middle which is a little extra uncomfortable going in so it gets you used to that entry.

Chances are that you will find that first entry a bit uncomfortable. Just keep in mind that the discomfort mainly just exists at the sphincter. It is tempting to think that if the first inch hurt that more will hurt a lot more. The opposite is true. It is that first prying open of the sphincter that can hurt a bit. Once it is opened that quickly subsidies and as a plug or dildo goes further in it is only touching pleasure spots.

Even the bit of discomfort you may feel on entry is just due to the fact that your body is sub-consciously fighting it. Not to sound gross but it presumably doesn't hurt when you poop because your mind automatically lets the sphincter relax. You just have to condition yourself to let that happen when opening it form the other direction.

Start small, work it gently with lots of lube and get past that entry to find the pleasure zones. Repetition, practice and finding the pleasure zones will teach your brain to let it happen. You will soon be craving it and able to receive a dick at will with nothing but smooth exhilaration.

 

[alabasterbreasts]

A butt plug will help you adapt to the feeling of being full because it is designed to stay in. So rather than simply fucking yourself with a dildo (also helpful) it helps you adapt to the feeling over an extended period (i.e. you could wear it all day if you like). It also has the bulbous part in the middle which is a little extra uncomfortable going in so it gets you used to that entry.

Chances are that you will find that first entry a bit uncomfortable. Just keep in mind that the discomfort mainly just exists at the sphincter. It is tempting to think that if the first inch hurt that more will hurt a lot more. The opposite is true. It is that first prying open of the sphincter that can hurt a bit. Once it is opened that quickly subsidies and as a plug or dildo goes further in it is only touching pleasure spots.

Even the bit of discomfort you may feel on entry is just due to the fact that your body is sub-consciously fighting it. Not to sound gross but it presumably doesn't hurt when you poop because your mind automatically lets the sphincter relax. You just have to condition yourself to let that happen when opening it form the other direction.

Start small, work it gently with lots of lube and get past that entry to find the pleasure zones. Repetition, practice and finding the pleasure zones will teach your brain to let it happen. You will soon be craving it and able to receive a dick at will with nothing but smooth exhilaration.

Good tips here.

I would also say experimenting with toys solo (there are anal trainer kits where you can go small and skinny and work your way up) and masturbation is a good way to try at your own pace, see if you like the sensations. Don't pressure yourself.

 

[Escierto]

A butt plug will help you adapt to the feeling of being full because it is designed to stay in. So rather than simply fucking yourself with a dildo (also helpful) it helps you adapt to the feeling over an extended period (i.e. you could wear it all day if you like). It also has the bulbous part in the middle which is a little extra uncomfortable going in so it gets you used to that entry.

Chances are that you will find that first entry a bit uncomfortable. Just keep in mind that the discomfort mainly just exists at the sphincter. It is tempting to think that if the first inch hurt that more will hurt a lot more. The opposite is true. It is that first prying open of the sphincter that can hurt a bit. Once it is opened that quickly subsidies and as a plug or dildo goes further in it is only touching pleasure spots.

Even the bit of discomfort you may feel on entry is just due to the fact that your body is sub-consciously fighting it. Not to sound gross but it presumably doesn't hurt when you poop because your mind automatically lets the sphincter relax. You just have to condition yourself to let that happen when opening it form the other direction.

Start small, work it gently with lots of lube and get past that entry to find the pleasure zones. Repetition, practice and finding the pleasure zones will teach your brain to let it happen. You will soon be craving it and able to receive a dick at will with nothing but smooth exhilaration.

These statements are definitely true. When I first started playing with my dildo I would have the same feeling like I needed to poop and I wondered if I would ever get past that. However when the first woman fucked me with her small cock, I didn’t have that feeling at all and it was wonderful. Later I graduated to my girlfriend’s big cock and that was even better. Being fucked by her is a dream cum true.

 

[policywank]

A butt plug will help you adapt to the feeling of being full because it is designed to stay in. So rather than simply fucking yourself with a dildo (also helpful) it helps you adapt to the feeling over an extended period (i.e. you could wear it all day if you like). It also has the bulbous part in the middle which is a little extra uncomfortable going in so it gets you used to that entry.

Chances are that you will find that first entry a bit uncomfortable. Just keep in mind that the discomfort mainly just exists at the sphincter. It is tempting to think that if the first inch hurt that more will hurt a lot more. The opposite is true. It is that first prying open of the sphincter that can hurt a bit. Once it is opened that quickly subsidies and as a plug or dildo goes further in it is only touching pleasure spots.

Even the bit of discomfort you may feel on entry is just due to the fact that your body is sub-consciously fighting it. Not to sound gross but it presumably doesn't hurt when you poop because your mind automatically lets the sphincter relax. You just have to condition yourself to let that happen when opening it form the other direction.

Start small, work it gently with lots of lube and get past that entry to find the pleasure zones. Repetition, practice and finding the pleasure zones will teach your brain to let it happen. You will soon be craving it and able to receive a dick at will with nothing but smooth exhilaration.

Good advice. To add one more thing for the "size queens" there is another resistance point at the sigmoid colon (some refer to it as the 2nd sphincter but that is actually close to the 1st sphincter which is your butthole). It think that it is actually the start of the curvature of the colon. If you use a long dildo or are getting fucked by a big dick you will bump up against this. For me if a guy is 7 1/2" or more he will run up against it and I like big dicks so I run up against it a lot. Relaxing enough and providing enough lubricant to get past it is similar to what you describe for the main sphincter.

 

[brittanyssize9s]

All of this is true! Another thing that sounds counterintuitive but actually works well is to push out slightly as it's entering you. When we have bowel movements we're used to pushing slightly to open ourselves up, and so that slight push can help you relax upon entry.

 

[Scaterbrained]

Anal

I am up to a Perrier bottle and want to try a fist BUTT no one near Millinocket Maine to enjoy this with?

 

[kissedcherry]

Not a big fan... butt...

I really don't get off from anal as a stand-alone event. I let guys do it if they really want it and some do.

My approach is to ALWAYS in insist that the guy wears a condom. Even if it is someone with whom I have regular bareback sex. It is not just about STD it is about avoiding infection from anal bacteria transferring from my butt to his cock and then eventually back into my vagina.

Lube is always a good idea.

I don't want the guy to be humping me during anal sex. He has to agree to just dock with me and keep it pressed in as deep as he can. Then I put a vibrating dildo into my vagina and that gives both of us what we need to get off. Or better yet if you and your guy are into MFM and DP have the guy in your pussy do the humping while the guy in your ass just keeps it firmly in you without humping. Again, the action in our vagina will be more than enough to get everyone off.

After any sex I not only shower but I also take a bath. I like to just soak and relax after sex anyway.

Hope that helps.

 

[Carnevil9]

How to do anal tips?

Don't just do the tip. Put the whole thing in!!