How to delay...

[hard_daddy]

You know what that delay mean...?
I wish not to cum for hours and stay hard during sex, even going solo.. Please share your ideas n views.

 

[thirty]

Can delay a while by stopping before cum, but it's impossible to delay hours.

Not that interesting to do so, my best guess...

 

[Palamino19]

Some things that can help. Guys often hold their breath long before they are that close to orgasm, because it feels good. Don't.

PC muscle rises before point of no return, if you can get it back down and back off a bit, you can keep going.

Really, don't hold your breath is probably the simplest thing you can do. Most guys learn to do it, and when you are actually AT the point of no return, it's probably going to happen, but if you're like most men, you've got the habit of doing it to get to the point of no return faster.

Lastly, lasting longer is not necessarily a solution to anything. If you do learn how to make yourself last longer, don't just do the same thing for longer, your significant other WILL NOT thank you for endlessly doing the same motion forever.

 

[Cumference]

Have you read up on the old classic, the "start stop method"?

Apart from that, listen to your body and be aware of it.
If you enter "mindless monkey/rabbit-mode" at the moment of first stimulation, there is little to do about it.

 

[NightL]

You know what that delay mean...?
I wish not to cum for hours and stay hard during sex, even going solo.. Please share your ideas n views.

Had a flick through your post history - seems to translate to "me me me I want I want" - if you actually have a partner, focus on what works for them - and that may well not be pumping furiously for hours at a time.

Listen, pay attention, be observant, ask them questions and listen again... flirt, tease, watch for body signals - tremors, a twitch, an involuntary gasp of breath, work out what you offered that gifted pleasure to your partner and play on that, push the boundaries then tease with holding it back a little. Make sex as much a mind game rather than focussed on your cock. Learn how to connect with your partner. All this before you penis goes anywhere near their vagina. Keep that play going for long as you can - It really should not be how fast you can bring your partner to an orgasm but how you can help to assist in it being a mind blowing orgasm - and if you get there have a quiet gentle calm down time then gently start as you did before and do it all over again - let your partner guide you when they want your cock - mix it up a little with the touching, connecting, oral. Follow that approach and you just may find you will stay hard for hours and find a pleasure way beyond pumping furiously for hours - just maybe probably far more rewarding for your partner as well.

but if it is just all about you and your cock as some of your posts indicate - well you miss out and will just never know...

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

DON'T
Don't think about large lovely titties
Don't think about perky nipples...don't even say nipple!
Don't think how good it feels pounding that tight hot pussy
Don't think about how she's going to feel when you fill that cunt full of hot semen.
There are many other don'ts but you get the idea.

DO
Do think about work, especially if you have a crappy job you hate.
Think about your boss getting on you about something
Think about your obese ugly mother in law
Think about mowing the lawn and other yard work.
Mostly take your mind of of that great piece of ass you are banging.

No amount of thinking or holding back will last too long.
But it's possible to go on for much longer than you would have with out negative thinking.

This intercourse thing is not just something any animal can do. You have to keep thinking and delaying the final ejaculation by thinking about anything except those tits, nipples, and that super hot, tight pussy.

And even after you ejaculate you can repeat all of the above as long has you have the time and energy.


OOOpps! I just shot a wad.

NightL -Great advice.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Sex is like everything else we do. It helps a lot when we have an appetite for it. We're much less interested in bull shit when the appetite is strong.

Do this, skip sex for a week, and see if delay is still a great idea.

Following a year in Vietnam my ma's meatloaf and mashed potatoes was heaven. She became such a good cook while I was away.

 

[NightL]

Eewe uncle jizzlydrybits - ya fucked your mamas meatloaf!?

 

[NightL]

This intercourse thing is not just something any animal can do. You have to keep thinking and delaying the final ejaculation by thinking about anything except those tits, nipples, and that super hot, tight pussy.

And even after you ejaculate you can repeat all of the above as long has you have the time and energy.

jest aside - I don't like the idea a young man reading this thinking this is the only way to deal the issue. My reply here is no longer to LIVINRFANTASIES.

To mind focus on just anything beyond what they are physically doing is maybe what many - maybe most young men go through in early sexual awakening - some may choose to continue that for holding off orgasm - but that is a shame. What you are trying to do is hold off what is so overwhelmingly impossible if you are that close. So it is actually not about tricking your mind out of an early orgasm, it is about learning to hold onto stages leading up to that moment. Why deny the orgasm moment? Also, why deny each and every moment leading up to that stage. Understand those stages and controlling them will let you be in control.

So my earlier reply was focus on your partner and just let things build slowly and teasingly (yeah quick/spontaneous fucks can be fun too). I'll expand that out a little with: what is that instant spark you feel when you are first in contact? Is that something that hits you with a zap? A sparkle that radiates through your body and your mind Is ALIVE? So my question is - Why would you not want that moment to continue and maintain until the very best has come out of it? Why not, when feeling that electric spark on first touch of fingers, have that feeling repeat? How do you tease that moment out? The first kiss - see what I am saying? Learn each moment and play with them. Eventually orgasm should not be something denied. Learn every moment that are your combined moments with your partner. Cherish each stage and the time for orgasm will arrive at the right time.

If you focus on the end you may well end to soon. Focus on the beginning - together - and enjoy and savour each progression along the way.

Practice, Listen & LEARN from listening to your partner.

Ha - along the way you can savour and think about "large lovely titties, perky nipples, nipple!

how good it feels pounding that tight hot pussy"

'cos that is what you should be celebrating along the journey.