How to begin a mmw threesome?

[NiceyJane123]

I'm trying to write another chapter in my Alex & Megan series where they settle their marriage by her having sex with both her husband and the young man she had a fling with. I don't want the two men involved with each other, just her. Since I have never had a threesome, I have no idea how one starts up in a normal (not a drunken party) setting. It seems to me that if the two guys don't know each other and aren't interested in having sex with each other, it would be pretty awkward to start. Especially if one has had a threesome with another man involved that he did not enjoy. Any suggestions?

 

[Etaski]

Maybe think about who's taking the lead socially.

In some cases, a couple talks about the possibility of including a (particular) third in private between them, and then later one of them is more the "mouthpiece" to bring up the subject and break the ice (normally the more socially adept/comfortable one).

The big part is just someone bringing it up, planting the thought or presenting the possibility. Then the conversation can flow with all parties putting in their thoughts.

It goes from there based on the people themselves and their natural reactions. Without knowing the personalities of the characters, I couldn't suggest how that might go.

EDIT: Oh, and just to avoid any misunderstandings, describe this as "MFM" not "MMF". MMF explicitly says the men touch each other, and you said that's not what you wanted to write about.

 

[MadeYaLook]

I'm trying to write another chapter in my Alex & Megan series where they settle their marriage by her having sex with both her husband and the young man she had a fling with. I don't want the two men involved with each other, just her. Since I have never had a threesome, I have no idea how one starts up in a normal (not a drunken party) setting. It seems to me that if the two guys don't know each other and aren't interested in having sex with each other, it would be pretty awkward to start. Especially if one has had a threesome with another man involved that he did not enjoy. Any suggestions?

I think the person that has to make it "happen" is the girl. Step zero obviously is that the couple (considering a regular girl-boy couple) agrees to do this. Essentially, all you have to manage is to get a man horny enough, to get things started, and then most of them won't back out once they realise what's happening.

My proposal: invite the "victim" to dinner for instance, at home preferably, and have the girl flirt with him unambiguous while the boyfriend is present. People don't have to end up wasted (this takes the fun out of sex imho), but a glass of wine or two (or three) certainly helps. If the victim sees that the boyfriend doesn't seem to mind. The victim will think that this is a bit odd, but he probably won't protest - this is the first base.

In a next step, let the boyfriend leave and give the girl and the victim some privacy. Preferably, the victim at this point is pretty horny (maybe the girl had touched him somehow during dinner, perhaps had her feet on his or something), and she can engage him into something physical - at least touching, maybe even kissing. It would also be a good point to share that her boyfriend is okay with this (not necessarily that he plans to join up later, but the victim can probably add one plus one by now). Essentially, the girl now has to seduce the victim to the point where he'd screw her.

Depending how "decent" your victim is, he will put up more or less of a fight - again, it's the girl's job to crush his resistance, and this time, all she can do is throwing her sexuality into the fight. she can go for his cock once she knows he's not going to chase out of the room, maybe start sucking him...

... at which point, boyfriend should reappear. our victim is getting his cock sucked, so the situation is as obvious as it can get - he'll be surprised, but it feels to good to get up and run. If the boyfriend stays there with a smile, enjoying the show for a bit, the victim will settle back into it.

eventually, the boyfriend starts engaging the girl from the other end - keep a save physical distance between the two men at first. I'd let the boyfriend lick the girl first, then fuck her for a bit. A little later, the girl can "turn around", and at that point, you've definitely sealed the deal. The men are too horny now to care. I wouldn't go further than "regular" double-penetration in the first round though, maybe you add that after they all had their first round of orgasms. Double-vag or -anal might be a bit much for the first night altogether - depending how kinky your characters and your story are.

 

[NiceyJane123]

EDIT: Oh, and just to avoid any misunderstandings, describe this as "MFM" not "MMF". MMF explicitly says the men touch each other, and you said that's not what you wanted to write about.

Thanks for that! I'm still new to all this

Good ideas, though. This story is kind of hard to get started so I really appreciate the input.

 

[sunandshadow]

EDIT: Oh, and just to avoid any misunderstandings, describe this as "MFM" not "MMF". MMF explicitly says the men touch each other, and you said that's not what you wanted to write about.

Yes please, lol. From the thread title I was all prepared to post, "Well I usually prefer to get the two males together as a couple first, then bring the female in, but a male/female couple where the woman has known from the beginning that the man is bi could intentionally decide to look for a male third..."

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Put them in a hot tub, the woman in the middle. The woman may have a jet conveniently aimed at a strategic part of her anatomy. Hands wander beneath the foam, everybody gets a little worked up, soon she has a dick in each hand, and voila! Threesome.

 

[HeatherVivant]

A great question. She's been with both, so how to stoke the fires with both of them?

Somewhere along the way both she and her husband have to accept the other man in the mix. Either it occurs beforehand (and goes the route of the participatory cuckold) or during (she's overcome with her man and they invite the guest to join in) or she's caught by her husband (and accepted).

I guess the other possibility is that it is by mutual agreement among all three, which in many ways is the most interesting scenario (although one with the least amount of conflict). This might arise out of some mutual activity that brings them all together. The hot tub idea is one approach (although what motivates them all to get together?)

I think you need to first figure out who's in control. I've faced this in my "March Madness" story and it was really the woman in the MFM sandwich who instigated it, and put the men at ease. I'm not saying I nailed the motivation, but it is one angle you might follow.

 

[NikkiBastion]

Could you provide a little more background on the 3 people involved? The guys don't know each other? The girl has or hasn't had both?

The hot tub suggestion is pretty good, and doesn't have to be a drunken bar thing (not that it happens after we get drunk in bars). A good setting that does help mood is nice, warm summer day spent at the beach, on the lake, sailing, somewhere with 1. sun 2. water 3. heat 4. half dressed 5. sun tan oil (def coconut). People tend to get insanely horny after a day at the beach/lake/on boat provided they don't get too sunburned. They could have a work outing with others, Girl A and Guy A are there and casually socializing with Guy B and others...Guy B and Girl A catch each other's attention.

Neither guy is receptive, two guys need coaxing/convincing
One guy is receptive, other guy needs coaxing/convincing
Both guys receptive, just need green light

Which one of these are you going for?

If neither is receptive, that usually requires some serious paying attention, planting the verbal cues, showing receptivity, and several other things that take time to develop. If it's too challenging, remember you're god so don't make them both resistant. Make them both curious, give them some back history where they had some kind of homo experience that kinda happened, mostly didn't so they've always had a little secret kink. Guy A slips up and mentions it to Girl A at the party he thinks Guy B might be bi. Girl asks how he can tell. Guy A gives her XYZ reason and she further weasels out of him he's had some experience. She's got 1 on the line. Now for Guy B - she can work him or Guy A can, or they both can...or...they talk and flirt and drop innuendos awhile then invite Guy B to their condo for a few drinks in the hot tub.

If you do this, make sure you know that by that stage, even if nobody mentioned sex whatsoever, unless the characters are brain dead, all three are gonna be crystal clear things are evolving into something sexual about to go down. Anyone who is lucid would see that coming a mile away - make sure yours do!

 

[NiceyJane123]

Thanks Heather and Nikki!

Heather: What I'm thinking is that they enter into this by mutual agreement. The young man (who she's already slept with, but doesn't want to tell her husband about) was completely fascinated with her and would love to get her in the sack again, and her husband just wants to come back home after he cheated on his wife. I want the wife to propose this as a way for her to move past his infidelity (and allow her to release her own guilt over sleeping with the young man).

Nikki: Both men will be receptive, but the husband more reluctantly. He has had a threesome in the past (two poles, one hole) and isn't thrilled about the idea of another MWM sandwich, but he'll do anything for his wife.

This will eventually lead to a MWW threesome because the husband will eventually find out the truth about the young man and will demand reciprocation. They'll come to an agreement that if they are interested in someone, they can have them as long as the other is present. I would like this story to take place on vacation with the wife's assistant.

 

[NiceyJane123]

And yes, I'm drawing some of this from experience, but without the cheating and threesomes. We haven't been that adventurous yet

 

[StrayKat]

I'm trying to write another chapter in my Alex & Megan series where they settle their marriage by her having sex with both her husband and the young man she had a fling with. I don't want the two men involved with each other, just her. Since I have never had a threesome, I have no idea how one starts up in a normal (not a drunken party) setting. It seems to me that if the two guys don't know each other and aren't interested in having sex with each other, it would be pretty awkward to start. Especially if one has had a threesome with another man involved that he did not enjoy. Any suggestions?

If you want some of my real life experience, we have been swingers for years. That includes threesomes as well.
Unlike popular belief, my husband picks the candidates, then asks me if I agree with his choice. He is direct and social person and has enough patience to go through the same questions each time. He makes friends easily, both with men and women.

If there was a situation I met someone and wanted to have sex with them, I would just come to my husband and tell him so. He would not question much.
Our "settings" are always "normal", we talk and plan and organize such things, I dont even drink

 

[junk_yard]

I'm trying to write another chapter in my Alex & Megan series where they settle their marriage by her having sex with both her husband and the young man she had a fling with. I don't want the two men involved with each other, just her. Since I have never had a threesome, I have no idea how one starts up in a normal (not a drunken party) setting. It seems to me that if the two guys don't know each other and aren't interested in having sex with each other, it would be pretty awkward to start. Especially if one has had a threesome with another man involved that he did not enjoy. Any suggestions?

I did have a MMW threesome many years ago. It was a husband/wife... total strangers just a few hours before I fucked her. God she was hot! I gave them a ride home from a party after their car wouldn't start. They invited me in, we smoked a little grass, he disappeared, she and I began making out and she invited me into their bed. I had NEVER been in that type of situation before. It was a little awkward at first... but a VERY memorable night. Little to no contact with him, it was ALL HER! He was in the bed for most of the night. We NEVER went to sleep, next thing I knew it was daylight.
Never saw them again if you're wonderin'

 

[StrayKat]

it was ALL HER!

My favorite position

 

[Fatemaster]

I would love to read this story!

 

[jomar]

NJ, when in doubt make it up.

Seriously, write it as it might work for you and turn you on. Fumble through the emotional starts and stops in your writing and I bet your story will ring true.

 

[NiceyJane123]

NJ, when in doubt make it up.

Seriously, write it as it might work for you and turn you on. Fumble through the emotional starts and stops in your writing and I bet your story will ring true.

Thanks! That's a good point.