How to ask out a stripper...

mikea79

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So I've been visiting this stripper for awhile and we get along great!!! She's a blast to talk to and we're always laughing and joking around and stuff. One night we sat and talked the whole time and I only watched her dance when she was on stage. So I'm getting quite the crush on this hot chick and I was wondering if there is any good way to ask out a stripper???? And no I don't think she has a "boyfriend" per say... and she's always talking about how she doesn't think there is just one person for everyone.

And for some of you.. no I'm not looking to marry this chick just have some fun outside of the club... and maybe some you know!! :p

Any ideas? And I don't really want to hear how this is a bad idea
 
Did you ever consider that it's usually a good idea in her line of work to be friendly to the customers?

I'm not trying to be a jackass here, but keep that in mind. Give it careful consideration and make sure she's not just acting in her own best interests. If you guess wrong, she gets creeped out by yet another over-zealous fan, and you get escorted out.

Good luck with it though.

Edit: A good indication would be observing how she treats the other regulars. If you're getting unusual attention, you may have a chance. Otherwise, you're about to overstep the line of 'valued regular' to 'unwanted stalker.'
 
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Sorry I cannot resist this, it is too easy

Nice shoes, wanna fuck? LOL


Like i said sorry. Just ask her out dude. She will not bite, well if you are lucky she will.
 
Here's my experience. I dated a stripper for almost 2 years back when I lived in Hawaii. I never really went to strip clubs much but anyways......saw her and was like "damn, wish I could hook up with her". Anyways, something you got to realize is most strippers get offered to be taken out 100's of times a night bro. I didn't ask her out while at the club or while she was in the parking lot walking to her car (not that I stayed there all night waiting). Nope.....I actually saw her at IHOP with a few other "stripper friends" eating breakfast at like 3am. So I went from there. Said hi....used the ole " Hi, anyone got a lighter I can borrow" line....what can i say I wasn't too original but it broke the ice. I never mentioned "oh by the way...i saw you naked on stage" shit. I kept it to normal conversation. They joined me for a smoke and we just talked. My two buddies talked to the others so I directed most of my stuff to her. I treated her like a real person and not some "stripper" i wanted to bang. yada yada yada.......we exchanged numbers......and would you believe it...she called me later that day. I remember her telling me other than being cute, she liked not being judged and being treated like a woman.

So that is my advice to you. If you happen to see her away from the strip club scene....great. First and foremost treat her like a lady and not some woman that if she rejects you...you can pay $1 to see that ass anyways.
 
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