last week i when to meet a lady and 20 miles from the meet was told go home never contact me again because you lied to me . should i try or chalk it up to karma ?
If you did lie, I"d send a short note and apologize (it's the polite thing to do), then just leave her be. Otherwise you'll end up with the police at your door with a restraining order or worse.
And, try to learn from any mistakes you may have made and maybe you an avoid a repeat in the future.