How popular are blowjobs, actually?

[WeShallUnclench]

Blowjobs aka sucking dick is often talked about as one of the "pillars" of sex, at least as much if not more so than eating pussy.

But I wonder, how well does that match up with your experiences?

Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?

Those who have dated people with penisses, do you give bjs? Did your partners insist, or did you bring it up? Do you like doing it, hate it, go along with it reuctantly?
In your statistic, do you get the impression that bjs are very important to your target demographic?

 

[BDA73]

Well my wife is anti bj so I couldn't answer

 

[discjockey74]

I love having my cock sucked!!!!

 

[Mrman69]

Well my wife is anti bj so I couldn't answer

So I assume she doesn’t get to feel your tongue on her clit?

 

[BDA73]

So I assume she doesn’t get to feel your tongue on her clit?

No...I always go down on her..I love licking her pussy and get to finger her ass and will rim her as well..she won't kiss me after I eat her pussy though

 

[OneEyedSteve]

My wife loves giving head. She's sucked off way more guys than she's fucked. She used to work door security at nightclubs in her late teens and early 20s, used to pull guys out of the queue, take them in the cloakroom and blow them

 

[Mrman69]

I have never had a woman get turned off by her lady juice on my lips or my cock. ATM yes but not pussy. Sounds like the human body grosses her out. Does she cum when your eating her ?

 

[Mrman69]

No...I always go down on her..I love licking her pussy and get to finger her ass and will rim her as well..she won't kiss me after I eat her pussy though

My ex gave me maybe five bj’s without me asking. Once I decided I wasn’t getting any from her I just stuck it in her face and she took it in and sucked me. Never to orgasm but in the middle of fucking I just pull in out and offer it to her lips and she’d open her mouth. I had to facefuck her though. She’d take it but not do anything but lay there and let me pump her throat. Usually I’d cum on her titties.

 

[BDA73]

My ex gave me maybe five bj’s without me asking. Once I decided I wasn’t getting any from her I just stuck it in her face and she took it in and sucked me. Never to orgasm but in the middle of fucking I just pull in out and offer it to her lips and she’d open her mouth. I had to facefuck her though. She’d take it but not do anything but lay there and let me pump her throat. Usually I’d cum on her titties.

Lately that's my wife..almost just like here's my pussy go for it..

 

[Mrman69]

I ate her asshole for like almost an hour and got no reaction. She smoked while I ate her.

 

[SigmaJay]

My first GF at age 18 had me perform cunnilingus frequently. She didn't show me much attention in return. She blew me once and spit it out. I could tell she didn't like it and it was only marginally enjoyable for me.

I started dating my wife. I was 19 and she was 23. She had never sucked cock and did not blow me while dating / engaged. Granted we were both Christian at the time and she believed sex before marriage was a sin. We did mess around, but she never once sucked my cock. Should would rarely even touch it.

After marriage, it was mostly vaginal sex and cunnilingus. Lots of cunnilingus! (I love it). Life was busy, we raised four kids. My entire marriage (31+ years) she has only swallowed five or six times at my insistence. She doesn't like it. She would gag and have utter disgust on her face every time.

Now the kids have left the nest and I am as horny as ever. I think about oral sex often.

Do I love receiving blowjobs? Honestly I don't know. I have never had a good one from someone who loves giving. I am looking for such a person now, but I will be very picky and may never find anyone. I love reading about it and hearing all of the stories. I am frequently in Lit Chat discussing and fantasizing about it too.

I will add that my wife has many friends (late 50s and up). Most are dead bedroom or nearly so. Only one couple is similar to us and very sexually active (monogamous). Coming to Lit and hearing the vast array of experience was an eye opener for sure.

 

[JudyCD]

I love giving “no strings” blow jobs.

 

[AndyJacker]

My wife loves giving head. She's sucked off way more guys than she's fucked. She used to work door security at nightclubs in her late teens and early 20s, used to pull guys out of the queue, take them in the cloakroom and blow them

I had a GF soon after moving to the Dallas area that was a dick licking and sucking master extroidinaire. I have never had anyone enjoy sucking a cock like her. I have had many a masturbation session thinking of her love for dick.

 

[crem]

Very popular, I'm a man who gives lots of BJ’s and many men have told me they wish they’re spouse can suck like me. Many repeat customers when they see me at the local ABS.

 

[Mrman69]

Very popular, I'm a man who gives lots of BJ’s and many men have told me they wish they’re spouse can suck like me. Many repeat customers when they see me at the local ABS.

Men seem to be better at it. I’m told I’m better than the best woman they’ve had

 

[WeShallUnclench]

No...I always go down on her..I love licking her pussy and get to finger her ass and will rim her as well...

You are doing the Lord's work

 

[crem]

Men seem to be better at it. I’m told I’m better than the best woman they’ve had

If you’re really into sucking dick you give great blow jobs.

 

[Mrman69]

You are doing the Lord's work

That’s fukkin funny!

 

[WeShallUnclench]

My wife loves giving head. She's sucked off way more guys than she's fucked. She used to work door security at nightclubs in her late teens and early 20s, used to pull guys out of the queue, take them in the cloakroom and blow them

Did she ever say why? The feeling, the dynamics of the situation, or just because?

 

[Anononly1992]

I love having my cock sucked. When I first started going out with my now wife, she joked that an ex of hers told her she should put sucking cock on her resumé she was so good at them! And she was, she sucked cock like a pro!

Now it's over two damn years since she has had my cock in her mouth, she's completely gone off them! I on the other hand would forgo food and happily eat her pussy 3 times daily until I died of starvation!

 

[Anononly1992]

I love giving “no strings” blow jobs.

Oh, keep that up and keep on providing....maybe share that with my wife too

 

[WeShallUnclench]

I ate her asshole for like almost an hour and got no reaction. She smoked while I ate her.

Kinda based from her honestly

Probably would look nice as a Renaissance Painting

 

[WeShallUnclench]

I love giving “no strings” blow jobs.

Same question I'd have for the wife of @OneEyedSteve : Anything particular you enjoy about it, or hard (har har) to articulate?

 

[OneEyedSteve]

Same question I'd have for the wife of @OneEyedSteve : Anything particular you enjoy about it, or hard (har har) to articulate?

I wrote a story based on her account of just a few of her experiences. It also includes what she described she enjoyed about them.
https://www.literotica.com/s/angie-on-her-knees

 

[JudyCD]

Same question I'd have for the wife of @OneEyedSteve : Anything particular you enjoy about it, or hard (har har) to articulate?

I like the feel and taste. Also it’s a very friendly thing to do to help someone feel intense pleasure followed by relaxation. Also it makes me feel like a sexy woman which is very erotic.