How old were you when....?

[kinky_caligirl]

How old were you when you discovered playing(masturbating), when you had your first orgasm, and when or if you lost your virginity?


I was 9 for masturbating, 10 almost 11 for my first orgasm, and I am a virgin.

What about you?

I am 20.

 

[fuzawoni]

i was 12 when i first masturbated and orgasmed and did not lose my virginity until age 18

how old are you caligirl?

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I am 20.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

and I am waiting till I get married. but I have gone as far as oral sex then made a promise not too till I get married.

 

[stu_349]

10 or 11 when I first masturbated....15 or 16 when I
lost my viginity....a long time ago!!

 

[Cattypuss]

11-ish when I first masturbated.
11-ish when I had my first orgasm.
19 when I lost my virginity properly.
40 when I got into BDSM.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

11-ish when I first masturbated.
11-ish when I had my first orgasm.
19 when I lost my virginity properly.
40 when I got into BDSM.

ooh very good add on Cattypuss.
I was 15-ish when I got into BDSM

 

[MisterSir]

Apparently I'm a late starter. I didn't start masturbating until I was about 15, would have had the first orgasm then as well, didn't lose my virginity until 21 (about five weeks ago, give or take) but got into BDSM at 18. For a given value of getting into, of course, I didn't start going out and meeting people until earlier this year.

 

[CuteBrat]

I can't remember ever NOT masturbating...but I guess I probably started around 9ish. First orgasm I remember was 9....I was pretending I was hogtied and put pressure on my pussy.

I have always been sexually submissive, before I knew that wasn't just how people were... first time giving head was 12, lost my virginity on my 15th bday. First "official" BDSM experience was 21.

 

[FloggingMolly]

Hmmmm masturbating was 12, as was orgasm. Oral was 14, lost my virginity 19 days before my 16th birthday, first time being Domme was probably 24, first threesome 25, first time being sub 26.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I can't remember ever NOT masturbating...but I guess I probably started around 9ish. First orgasm I remember was 9....I was pretending I was hogtied and put pressure on my pussy.

I have always been sexually submissive, before I knew that wasn't just how people were... first time giving head was 12, lost my virginity on my 15th bday. First "official" BDSM experience was 21.

my first hand job was 14, first gining of head was 18(male) as was my first "official" BDSM experiance.
but at 13 I was rolling in the hay with girls.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Hmmmm masturbating was 12, as was orgasm. Oral was 14, lost my virginity 19 days before my 16th birthday, first time being Domme was probably 24, first threesome 25, first time being sub 26.

my first being a dom was 13, first foursome was 18, and I have never "truely" been a sub as of yet.

 

[kittyn_]

Lets see...
First masturbating and orgasm at somewhere between 9-11.
First sex with a girl, 13, first sex with a guy, 14
First threesome all girl, a week before my 14th bday ( I love sleepovers ^.~.
First multi-partner with all males, 15, I think
Never been in a 'mixed gender' sex act with 2+ other people.
I started tieing myself before sleep (which I don't recommend, btw) at some point before I started masturbating. So in some way been into the fun stuff for what amounts to 'forever'.

I think that's all my important 'firsts.' Or at least all the ones that matter to me at this exact moment.

 

[Netzach]

I was humping the side of my bed and deriving benefit from it from maybe 3? I'm sure they were proto orgasms of some kind. I was clearly on to something awesome.

And I didn't bother with the rest of it until I was 19.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I started tieing myself before sleep (which I don't recommend, btw).[\QUOTE]

why did you do that? and what was the outcome?

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I was humping the side of my bed and deriving benefit from it from maybe 3? I'm sure they were proto orgasms of some kind. I was clearly on to something awesome.

And I didn't bother with the rest of it until I was 19.

giggle.. very nice.
what does your picture show? I have not been able to blow it up so I can read it.

 

[Netzach]

giggle.. very nice.
what does your picture show? I have not been able to blow it up so I can read it.

It shows a ham on sale for Chanukah. If you're more strict in your Judaism than I am in mine, you don't eat ham. Fail.

 

[SirLeo]

Masterbation - 9
Orgasm - 9
Orgasm w semen - 11 or 12
First BJ - 14
Cunnilingus - 14
Virginity - 14
BDSM - 16
Anal (doing the inserting) - 18

 

[kinky_caligirl]

It shows a ham on sale for Chanukah. If you're more strict in your Judaism than I am in mine, you don't eat ham. Fail.

lol nice.

 

[kittyn_]

why did you do that? and what was the outcome?

Honestly, I don't really know why I did it before sleep. Probably something I'd read or seen somewhere that made me go 'huh...'. Continuing to do it as long as I did was more just because it felt good/right/secure.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Honestly, I don't really know why I did it before sleep. Probably something I'd read or seen somewhere that made me go 'huh...'. Continuing to do it as long as I did was more just because it felt good/right/secure.

and why don't you recommend it?

 

[kittyn_]

Tieing yourself, especially if theres a chance you'll be sleeping while tied, is a bad idea. No one to check circulation or get you back out if you do it a bit to well.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I remember having the memory, if you see what I mean, of running away from my birthday party to masturbate. Two, or three years old, by way of the house I remember this happening in.

I started having bondage and masochistic fantasies by at least five. I remember not going in from the playground in kindergarten because I was pretending I was tied to the swing.

My first time with a girl was I fourteen, she was fifteen and scary-- she was badly abused, although I only figured that our later. Not that she hurt me, but she was suicidal and talked about it a lot. i ducked and ran.

First time with a boy was sixteen and a half. Boys weren't suicidal, in my experience.
First time as a gay boy-- honorary-- and first bondage experiences-- was seventeen. Good times!
Second try with a girl was right after that, and I figured out that I was a top. That was the girl my mother told me to take the collar off of!

I relied on fantasies during ostensibly vanilla sex for about a decade after that... but the BDSM dynamic was always, always there, one way or another. I found what our little friend calls the 'casual BDSM community' in 92 and I know most people here will understand me when I say I felt a sense of profound relief at that time...

 

[infinity706]

Apparently, I was way behind the learning curve, because I don't remember even masturbating until I was somewhere around 15. I didn't have sex with anyone until college. I think I've made up for lost time well, though.

 

[the captians wench]

Apparently, I was way behind the learning curve, because I don't remember even masturbating until I was somewhere around 15. I didn't have sex with anyone until college. I think I've made up for lost time well, though.

I was late to join the party too, but then I was abused a great part of my childhood, so my numbers are fuzzy.