How old is older?

[im4u]

I'd like to know the age of the oldest member of the opposite sex that you've had sex with. I'd like to hear from both men and women and am curious as to how old do you consider, "old".

I'm 52 so I might be ancient to some, a pup to others. Have you had fun with "much" olders? Let's hear about it.

 

[wildrose69]

WELL SINCE I'M A SEXY OLDER WOMAN OF 70 AND HAVE HAD 28 YR OLD LOVERS....DO I QUALIFY?? BELIEVE ME IT ONLY GETS BETTER AND BETTER

 

[im4u]

Qualified indeed..

No doubt this thing works both ways. I've seen your pics and have given some thought to them if you know what I mean.

28, eh? Geez, I might be too old for you... ; )

 

[lovebbwoman69]

I was 22 and screwing a 44 year old lady. I believe teh older teh better. Just ask my current lady she is 47 and I am 32.

 

[Jellybeangirl]

How much older is older...?

Age has no significance as long as you connect on some level- having that connection is the most important part. I've found that in general, older is better from an experience point of view. Youthfulness doesn't always equal vitality.

 

[lovetoread]

Gee the only real experience I have had with an older man was wonderful......

I think age just makes it better.

*Oops if we are supposed to add ages I havent reached thirty yet.*

 

[wildrose69]

wel Im4u..since I have no idea how old you are...how can I tell?? Age is not a big issue..it's the connection!!!

 

[TigerClaw]

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[princess4u]

maybe older is better

i have had two separate experiences with guys who were both about 15 years younger than i - while the sex was very intense, they never pleasured me as much as when i was with a guy who was much older than i (i was 29 and he was 59) - age doesnt really matter to me - its more how you relate to each other ~

 

[Dragonette]

My best

When I was 46, I had a young lover of 26, he was the best!

 

[JGuy]

Let's see...when I was 18 I was with a 38 year old. When I was 20 I was with a 40 year old. When I was 27 I was with a 40 year old. And recently I was with another 40 year old. Older women can usually tell better stories about their experiences...

 

[Spanktress]

When I was 16 I had a 38 y.o lover & it was a bit too intense for me now I look back at it. Being inexperienced & probably not mentally/emotionally able to register it all.

I'm now 28 & my last 3 lovers have been 40+, the oldest being 54. As I'm not ready to be in a monogamous/committed relationship I do find the more mature aged lovers more suited to me. I'm able to be with them in mind body & soul yet it not be a threat to me or them that its a committment ,or a sign of, if that makes sense!

*~* Spanks *~*

 

[charlien]

I'm 58 years old. Three years ago I had a fling with a 27 year old, a lady whom I'd known for years. Lasted 6 months, and we still remain friends today. One thing she said still stands out, "Good men, like good wine only improve with age."

 

[lovetoread]

"Good men, like good wine only improve with age."

I like that statement. Good to know you remained friends.

 

[scrump]

lover of older women

When I was in high school, at 17, I had a wonderfull relationship with a 47 yr. old woman. She took my virginity in more ways than one. She taught me so much about sex and relationships. Now that i'm 37, my present girlfriend is 51. And I love it.

 

[Dragonette]

Still friends

Yes, I am still friends with my young one, we talk about our memories of 6 months of fantasy.

I gave him confidence and he gave me belief, so I have a soft spot for young ones!

Not babies though! at least 30+ now!
He had a bad breakup, so lacking confidence, scared of being hurt again.

Now I need someone who will stay for a while, I am not looking for a live in or marriage, but a serious partner!

To cuddle, talk and explore, someone to be with!

So I continue to look, he must be out there somewhere!

 

[Guest]

Age isn't everything

I'm currently in a relationship with a very beautiful, sexy woman 20 years younger than myself. We are both married but bored with our mates and have found exceptional sexual satisfaction in each other. While we have no desire to change our marital status, we do find opportunities to explore a relationship that has bloomed into far more than either of us anticipated.

I remember our first meeting. The day was cold and rainy. We met in a remote location and the sparks were instantaneous. Our first kiss was soft, sweet and gentle and the feeling of our tongues mingling was highly stimulating. I remember very well that we couldn't find a motel nearby, so we improvised in the front seat of my car. Let's just say that the experience left us both weak and wanting more!

Yes, I agree that age is not terribly important. In fact, as we age we become more aware of our partner's needs and how to fulfill them. It's really a shame that so much testosterone is waisted on the very young!

 

[Guest]

Serial age differences

My first experience of an older woman was a slow dance and a kiss in a nightclub. I was 14 but already 5ft 10" and the beginnings of a stubble and the Polish girl was 22 - If only she knew I was only 14!!

Since then my relationships with older women have been

Me (her)
19 (23) - just sex
21 (26) - 2 years
23 (32) - 2 years
26 (34) - 1.5 years
27 (28) - 6 months
27 (30) - just sex
27 (55) - just sex
28 (38) - 4 months to date

I totally adore older women. I am a very educated guy and the director of two companies and I find older women more secure in themselves, not afraid to say what they mean or what they want and not pre-occupied with materialism... and as for the sex... it just gets better !!

As well as being older these women have also been very successful in their right i.e. my current lover is a television producer... and I think as a result I get more comfort from the fact that I can dedicate my energies appealing to their sensual and emotional sides as opposed to having to impress them in other ways.

 

[jamesgowin311]

how old is to old?????

a woman regardless of age is never "too old"


james in costa mesa california

 

[FRENCHIE44T]

Re: how old is to old?????

a woman regardless of age is never "too old"


james in costa mesa california

Never too old, Never Never Never. Ladies with respect, only get better

 

[Fink96]

experience is the key

I am 57. I am finding out that it is not the size - well, that helps a little - but the hands, the fingers, the tongue place at the right place on the body - and not between the legs makes a woman nearly go to places she has never been before.

Yet, I can understand a woman not wanting a pot-bellied, sloppy man with them looking for only what they want.


I can understand why some women turn to other women for pleasure. Just having get his load off and roll over is not what a woman wants when they have a close relationship with a man.


When I look for a relationship I look for what I can 'give' a woman.

Too bad most women like men are takers.

DJ Fink