How nice it is!

[Dearelliot]

For me, there is a big difference between sex and BDSM sex. My "normal" sex life is fun, nice, okay...but my BDSM sex life is often unquestionably most exciting!
So I wonder if those who enjoy BDSM might be achieving higher highs than the people who practice the same old in and out.?
Maybe like driving the New Jersey turnpike or the Grand Prix in Monaco.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

For me, there is a big difference between sex and BDSM sex. My "normal" sex life is fun, nice, okay...but my BDSM sex life is often unquestionably most exciting!
So I wonder if those who enjoy BDSM might be achieving higher highs than the people who practice the same old in and out.?
Maybe like driving the New Jersey turnpike or the Grand Prix in Monaco.

Maybe, but people like the heights they reach, even if they're not as high as yours.

There's nothing wrong with 'the same old in and out'... I don't know if you think there is or not, but it kind of sounds like it.

 

[Dearelliot]

no sorry didnt mean to sound so judgemental...anything anyone enjoys between consenting adults is great and if it gives them pleasure fine..Im pointing out for me there is a difference...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Ah, fair enough.

I wouldn't know then... for me, PE sex *is* my normal sex life...