How Many?

[Comshaw]

How many of you Lit denizens have actually tried a threesome? doesn't manner the configuration; MFM,FMF,MMM,FFF. And if you've tried it, did you enjoy it? If not why not, if so why. I'm just curious, this being the kind of board it is, how many have actually engaged in more then just monogamous sex.
Comshaw

 

[cherrylips_au]

I have had a 3some before and enjoyed it and would do it again.
What I enjoyed most about it was that the 3 of us all clicked well together no one was left out and we all had a lot of fun

 

[lovetoread]

I have never,and will probably never have a threesome.

I'm a selfish lover.

I want his attention on me and only me. Likewise I want to satisfy him and make him happy,which is hard enough on a one on one basis.

 

[CarolineOh]

How many of you Lit denizens have actually tried a threesome? doesn't manner the configuration; MFM,FMF,MMM,FFF. And if you've tried it, did you enjoy it? If not why not, if so why. I'm just curious, this being the kind of board it is, how many have actually engaged in more then just monogamous sex.
Comshaw

My boyfriend and I have twice had threesomes with another woman. The first time was rather awkward at the beginning. I was pretty nervous and self conscious because I'd never been with a woman before. After a while, I got into it and it went fine.The second time was great. He is anxious to do it again, but I want to try a MFM thing, and he's dragging his feet.

 

[lilminx]

I've had FMF and MFM- both were lots of fun- I especially liked the MFM one- being the center of attention was amazing.

In the FMF menage a trois, it was my first time ever fooling around with another woman, and it was kind of strange.

I also didn't like that her boyfriend wanted to get together with me, unbeknownst to her.

 

[Jesus]

Like a Trinity. The concept of three.

Soon the son will rise and break fast with whores and tax collectors.

Getting weary of figs, dates, and olives.

 

[Summery]

I have experienced threesomes both MFM and FMF.
I enjoyed both very much. But my preference would be MFM. As lilminx mentioned it's great to be the center of attention. Nothing better than being devoured by two men!
I liked my FMF experience....but didn't quite get into it as much as the other.

 

[NoRegrets]

I turned down the only offer that came my way and have never regretted it... what a pair!

My S/O has a little bi curious but it would have to be someone we got to know pretty well, not likely.

 

[Desdemona]

I tried a MFM. It was alot of fun until one of the guys became extremely jealous of the other.

 

[Ishmael]

Yep

I engaged in both MFM and FMF back in the '60's. While it was certainly fun (especially the FMF thing) it isn't something that I would engage in agian.

I've come to appreciate the importance of a real relationship and I've seen so many diluted and destroyed over the group sex thing. I understand that some have lasted and even thrived, they are the exception over time, not the rule. The comments in this thread seem to bear that out.

It is something that I wouldn't recommend for commited relationships. Very dangerous emotionally. On the other hand, if you can find the right people it's a truly amazing experience.

Ishmael

 

[christophe]

nope none here....sniff

 

[Rubyfruit]

Hello darling comshaw.

Why yes, I have experienced threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. Personally, I prefer even numbers when it comes to group sex.

 

[SINthysist]

Ishmael, you're beginning to grow on me.

I agree with his points. The worst was with my first wife who had a huge list of do's and dont's. The best was with other couples and in the multiple-partner party format.

 

[Ice Cold]

Nope.... nothing so exoctic for me.... just straight monagamy ....
so far at least .

 

[Ishmael]

Ishmael, you're beginning to grow on me.

Damn, I hope not sin, that would make me a tumor.

Ishmael

 

[SINthysist]

I'm married

so you would be a threemor.

Sorry. Wiskey. Couldn't help myself.

 

[Juspar Emvan]

Wiskey? Bah! Much smoother with an 'h'.

As for threesomes, I look forward to trying them; MFM, FMF, FFM(MMF?). It's all part of a program of corruption and headonistic decadence. Besides, if you don't try, how will you ever know - out with assumtions.

 

[SINthysist]

As in Schotch?

 

[Juspar Emvan]

lol

As in a fine single malt, yes.

 

[freakygirl]

I lived for a year with a man and another woman. It was sometimes all three of us, sometimes just him and I, sometimes them, sometimes her and I. Depended on work schedules and other of life’s "stuff".

They were a married couple. I was single at the time. It was great. I fell in love with someone and went on to live in a monogamous relationship.

Last I heard from them.. they were happily living with another guy.

Sometimes I miss that lifestyle. But the man I'm with now isn't into it.

 

[unclej]

i've been lucky enough to be involved in two....one with two women and one with a friend and his wife...the one with the friend started out fun but i actually over analyzed it while it was going on and i ended up feeling like a dildo...i realized that they had done it many times before and i was just there to help them get off...now the one with the two girls was almost every thing you could fantasize about except they didn't do anything to each other and i was too inexperienced to facilitate it..but getting to be with two very pretty, very sexy gals at once and all of us getting off a few times was great and still a masturbatory memory...

 

[Allexus_TN]

I was involved in a 3sum quite recently. One man fucked me from behind while another fucked my mouth. It was exciting, and I would certainly do it again, with the right partners.

 

[NoRegrets]

Originally posted by freakygurl32
I lived for a year with a man and another woman.
It was sometimes all three of us, sometimes just
him and I, sometimes them, sometimes her and I.
Depended on work schedules and other of life’s "stuff"...

It seems so simple and natural but often turns out
to be very complex and awkward in many cases.

Why can’t we be more like the Bonobo chimps?
It sounds like fun. How did you guys work things out?


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[Ms_Lilith]

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[Wiggles]

I've come very close before, but I haven't tried it. I want to, when I'm not in a monogamous relationship.

This would involve a great deal of trust for me.