How many

[smoothg103rd]

Whats the limit on past sex partners your spouse could have?

 

[Garnate]

I hope my future husbands says "Anything around 100 but no more".

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

Whats the limit on past sex partners your spouse could have?

The past is the past.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

I hope my future husbands says "Anything around 100 but no more".

You're getting into polyamory?

 

[smoothg103rd]

The past is the past.

That's how I feel too. I don't have a limit, I feel like I'm man enough to satisfy any woman. It's not the hundred she been with before me, its the zero she's going to think about after me.

 

[unregistered]

 

[smoothg103rd]

Well, I married my first serious boyfriend and he and I were both very inexperienced. Single digits in our case.

In other circumstances, I think I'd be a lot less concerned about the number of partners and more concerned with how he treated them and talks about them (respectfully). Also, he'd have to be STD free.

How would you know? What he got to take a test before you lay with him?

 

[unregistered]

 

[smoothg103rd]

Yes.

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I could dig it.

 

[Noor]

I don't care as long as it's in the past.

 

[Garnate]

You're getting into polyamory?

I'm just trying to be realistic.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I would tend to be more concerned about the current ones.

 

[possum123]

I don't worry much about the past. It is the future that could be the problem.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I'm holding out for a virgin.

 

[smoothg103rd]

I'm holding out for a virgin.

You probably are a virgin

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

You probably are a virgin

Do you want to deflower me?

 

[smoothg103rd]

Do you want to deflower me?

I don't like blood, I got my reasons.

 

[dg]

You don't have to do it while she's on her period.

 

[snugglestruggle]

I hope my future husbands says "Anything around 100 but no more".

Is that like 100 between each husband? *smirk*

 

[smoothg103rd]

You don't have to do it while she's on her period.

It was a joke I'm crip. And the only virgin I fucked was bleeding. So I'm not into virgins.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

It was a joke I'm crip. And the only virgin I fucked was bleeding. So I'm not into virgins.

You're crippled? Old war wound?

 

[smoothg103rd]

You're crippled? Old war wound?

Yeah I was a captain in world war 2

 

[Que]

I never minded that my wife had a lot of experience and I had relatively speaking, none.

It does affect things. I was never jealous about it; in a way, for her to shelve her habits and be exclusive for almost twenty years, was high praise.

In the end though, I think it was a factor. It speaks to how much one values exclusivity. The biggest red flag should have been not her count, but the fact that each and every time she had in mind which lily-pad she was going to leapfrog to by that Friday night.

I would actually be less concerned with a persons recreational count than a persons relationship count. How did each one end, and what did they learn from it?

 

[parodyluvr75]

I hope my future husbands says "Anything around 100 but no more".

^^^prudish.

 

[Que]

Regardless of whether you intend to marry, sociological studies of divorced couples show that the number of previous partners the woman has had is one of the best correlated numbers. Why that is, can only be speculated upon.

The number of partners that the man has had...did not correlate.

This means that low count women are better bets, all other things being equal than higher count women.

Who knows why. Maybe lower count women do not feel they have as many options. Maybe they don't wonder what they are missing out on.