How many women are out there who really seek LOVE?

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Please share your feelings if your really a woman who seeks love? I am young just two weeks shy of being twenty two, St. Patricks day to be exact, and find that woman my own age want these rich old men. Or at least rich compared to me a college student. Or even the older woman who want stud after stud to somehow make them feel younger. Maybe, I'm old-fashioned but it seems to me my way of life is dying. I just want one person to hold and cherish as my equal. I'm I ever to find this person?

Luvs and Hugs
~Romeo~

 

[wildrose70]

Well Romeo since I am an "older" woman I am going to take exception to the fact that we only seek stud after stud as you say....of course it's flattering.....but I am very much the incurable romantic....and of course finding someone to share your life with is something everyone would like to find...

I have had my share of younger "studs" as you call them....but honestly I would trade them all in for one really romantic and caring lover......

Keep looking....it will happen...I havent given up yet...and BTW..it's not me that seeks the younger men>>> the other way around I would have to say......

 

[princess4u]

i am in the "over 40 club" and i have to agree with wildrose - i never seek out younger men - but i seem to attract them for some reason

i think of myself as a playful flirt but that one true love will always be the object of my desire - to find an all-fulfilling love is a rarity these days - actually it has probably always been very elusive

i don't think people are any less "hopelessly romantic" these days - i think they are just more open about not being totally fulfilled by one person

you are still very young and have a lot of searching to do - remember to enjoy the journey - and i wish you luck....and love

 

[Cherry Blossom]

Oh Romeo, you've just had some bad luck. I don't think the situation is that bad. Most women I know (myself included) want and need love. It just takes a while to find someone you can feel that way about and share that kind of connection with.

Don't lose hope!

 

[MissTaken]

I am in the "nearly 40 " club.

I have had mutliple sexual partners, younger and older, but my dream would be to find the one love who would spend his life with me, sharing in all things and loving me as a woman, an individual, a person....not just a great sex toy.


It will come in time for you, as well as for me.


Be well and good luck,

Miss T

 

[wildrose70]

Once again I agree with the ladies.....but I'm wondering if it's the ultimate goal to have just one...since my divorce and lots of lovers..I dont really think just one would satisfy me any longer...

and yes Princess..they are the ones seeking me out too...I dont have to go after anyone I have found that out....so I'm just enjoying life....and loving every minute!!!

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Thank you all....

I am sorry if I stepped on anyone's toes when I made the "stud after stud" comment. I must say that I personally am more attracted to older woman. I don't know why this is. I just got back from a month in Mexico where I had sex for the first time. It sucked! I will never enjoy it without someone I don't trully care about. The girls I care about were all I thought about the entire time, and what I was throwing away that someone might love me for one day. It pains my heart when I even read about other people being lonly.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

Age signifies bueaty in every aspect possible.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: Thank you all....

I am sorry if I stepped on anyone's toes when I made the "stud after stud" comment. I must say that I personally am more attracted to older woman. I don't know why this is. I just got back from a month in Mexico where I had sex for the first time. It sucked! I will never enjoy it without someone I trully care about. The girls I care about were all I thought about the entire time, and what I was throwing away that someone might love me for one day. It pains my heart when I even read about other people being lonly.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

Hun, I've never had many sex partners, of course I've not had very good sex either. But if you feel that way I would suggest waiting till you find someone.

 

[girlincrisis]

cynical girl

i don't even know what love is anymore. the thought of finding 'the one' seems like a fallacy to me. i don't think i could commit to just one person for the rest of my life. definitely not now! i'm still young and want to explore so many things yet.
and besides sex is NOT Love. i am adamant in that belief. you can love someone you have sex with but to see the two as interchangeable is bad news in my opinion.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Lady Sam and others....

I left out a word in my last message. Also, sex is easy, love is difficult and I choose the later any day. I have expirenced intercourse and I don't need it, though; something inside of me seeks love. I have sex ever day sometimes more and it has become more of a release than anything. Plus no matter how much people disagree absolutly no one can do it like I can. Rosy palm and her five sisters are great!

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

 

[CarnalGerund]

girlincrisis, i know what you mean

i think that if you go out looking for "the one," you'll more often than not end up shooting yourself in the foot. but if you just try to enjoy yourself and experience life and have fun, you're not only more likely to stumble upon "the one" or the closest thing you can get to that, but also more likely to be happier.

besides, too young to settle down

 

[freescorfr]

Please share your feelings if your really a woman who seeks love? I am young just two weeks shy of being twenty two, St. Patricks day to be exact, and find that woman my own age want these rich old men. Or at least rich compared to me a college student. Or even the older woman who want stud after stud to somehow make them feel younger. Maybe, I'm old-fashioned but it seems to me my way of life is dying. I just want one person to hold and cherish as my equal. I'm I ever to find this person?

Luvs and Hugs
~Romeo~

Romeo, as a fairly senior citizen here, I can assure you nothing changes, but nothing. How to win a woman's heart is still incomprehesible to me. Old or young, rich or poor, that chemistry of love is just like cupid's arrow - it lodges in your arse and sweeps you off your feet almost before your zip is down.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

freescorfr & other Literoticians

Romeo, as a fairly senior citizen here, I can assure you nothing changes, but nothing. How to win a woman's heart is still incomprehesible to me. Old or young, rich or poor, that chemistry of love is just like cupid's arrow - it lodges in your arse and sweeps you off your feet almost before your zip is down.

I have to admit I had to look-up the British slang you used for our asses. I found it quite humoring. I am frightened that my love well pass me buy and I will be all alone, as an uncle of mine is. I don't think he has ever dated and he wasn't even the gay one. When do you quite depending on the other person to find you and start looking for them? I guess I ask this because I was in a car accident and feel as if nobody wants me. I still retain my good looks, but suffer with other mild problems. I know if I was a girl I would look right past me too.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~http://won2one.com/~easy/Brad/BradS1.jpg

 

[freescorfr]

Bollocks Romeo, Just look at the couples in the street - it's only on the movies that the studs get the best lasses - the horrible weasles all have drop-dead beautiful girls and vice versa. It's the law of inverse narcissism.

Stick to Lit - you'll learn to love people without seeing them and when you see them you'll love them and they'll be beautiful.

It's what I'm banking on.

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Maybe?

Bollocks is more of a mess up, other words would have been more approprait. I do understand what you meant by it and meant no offens by this. It is just how I feel at times plus do you know what it is like to walk down the street, thankful you can walk, looking at others in admiration while they can only stare at your legs because you don't walk like them. Take a bit of reality, people are only nice on Lit cause they only have to see letters. I have no wishes to ever met someone off the net.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

 

[sexyspank]

Please share your feelings if your really a woman who seeks love? I am young just two weeks shy of being twenty two, St. Patricks day to be exact, and find that woman my own age want these rich old men. Or at least rich compared to me a college student. Or even the older woman who want stud after stud to somehow make them feel younger. Maybe, I'm old-fashioned but it seems to me my way of life is dying. I just want one person to hold and cherish as my equal. I'm I ever to find this person?

Luvs and Hugs
~Romeo~

Hey hang in there romeo.There are a lot of women looking for exactly the same thing as you are looking for. When you find that special someone who loves you for who you are then wonderful lovemaking will naturally follow.
Me? I'm still looking for that special somone.Be happy




Wendy

 

[Jewelz]

"O Romeo, Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo?"

.......he found love, you will too!

Act 2 scene 2...
"With love's light wings did I o'er-perch these walls;
For stony limits cannot hold love out,
And what love can do that dares love attempt;
Therefore thy kinsmen are no let to me."

Attempt to give it a chance of finding your Juliet! If I can give any advice it is to seek out your own soul. Take advantage of experience, have fun, gain wisdom. I am married to the one true lover of mine, my heart beats the same beat as his...BUT BUT BUT, there are times that I just cant help but wonder if he IS my true love??? I am not sure I will ever know. I am all he has ever known. He has had no other.

You are beautiful inside and out......love will find you....just believe!

 

[aremid79]

The Existance of Juliet

Romeo-

I had a brilliant response to your email scripted but my computer decided to crash just as I was finishing. So here's the jist of things. I'd love to talk to you further about this...it's been a great topic of debate among my friends. WE are all convinced that guys like YOU don't exist...

Where do we find guys like you? What do we do to attract you? and more importantly how do we hold on to you?

I am so ready to have a relationship that is not based on sex that it makes me ache to simply be held by someone. Is that so impossible?

Anyway, I'm going to go over my character limit here in about two sentences so I must go but I want to continue this discussion. Perhaps another time.

KC

 

[IBLNG2LAW]

Romeo -

I just wanted to say don't give up on finding your one true love... She is out there and when the time is right in both of your lives, you'll meet...
You mentioned being a college student and that most of the younger girls all look for rich, older men... You will be surprised how in a few years these very same girls will be looking for you... Because they will not find true happiness by selling their affections...
Most young people use their early 20's as a time to experiment with themselves and life before looking for the person to spend eternity with... If you don't feel comfortable meeting new people and enjoying new experiences without wanting to form emotional bonds then all I can say is be patient and don't give up... It will happen for you someday and it will be worth the wait... But that is just my opinion...

 

[Known as Romeo on Lit]

Again, thank you all.....

Not a word you have share will go by with out noticed and proper significance. I will not ever give up or give out and want to thank all of you for your kind words. I will continue to write on this board as long as you do.

Luvs & Hugs
~Romeo~

I can post a pick of what I look like now, that was old but is a good shot of my eyes.

 

[CarnalGerund]

Aremid, I know how you feel

I don't think that that feeling is exclusive to one gender either. I'm a 24 year old guy, and it's really tough to get a relationship off the ground these days. Check your Private messages Talk to you soon.