How Many Soul Mates have you had?

I have had wonderful lovers, avid sex partners and dear friends. But only once have I felt like I was with a soul mate. Unfortunately, soul mate or not, it ended in heart break - for me.

So what is a soul mate? Have you had one? How did you know? Are you with your soul mate? How important is sex with a soul mate?

Tits?
 
I've had one. He wasn't meant to be my partner for life....just for long enough to teach me about the side of myself I didn't want to confront.
I will always have a special place in my heart for him, and I often say a quiet 'Thankyou for having been part of my learning.'
 
I've only had one lover I felt that strongly about--and she did a number on me. Kind of been living like a monk ever since.
 
I've only had one lover I felt that strongly about--and she did a number on me. Kind of been living like a monk ever since.

Yeah. That's the thing...can a person have a soul mate but not be a soulmate? I'm living like a nun.
 
I've had one. He wasn't meant to be my partner for life....just for long enough to teach me about the side of myself I didn't want to confront.
I will always have a special place in my heart for him, and I often say a quiet 'Thankyou for having been part of my learning.'
So why wasn't he meant to be your partner for life? What happened?
 
Cheesy souls

Now I have that horrid band in my head. Their only redeeming quality was the double bass.
 
One and only one. For forty years now. She is my other half. My best friend who'd stick with me through thick and thin and I her.
 
So why wasn't he meant to be your partner for life? What happened?

We were not supposed to be married. We were great friends before, but I brought issues to our marriage that I needed to resolve, and although he helped me do that, by that time we were drained :(
We are much deeper friends since we mutually agreed to divorce.
 
I refer to my wife as my soul mate and twin flame, but she prefers soul mate. When I bought her an engagement ring I had one custom made based on some crappy Avon ring she had that she liked, but real of course.

I had it inscribed "To my soulmate blah blah...

Except when I got it-they sent it fed ex because the place was in Boston and I was in RI and wanted to get it without her knowing, I opened it up and it said "To my sole mate"

I was rip shit because I already had the night planned to propose so had to give it to her anyway, then told her I was going to go in and have it fixed, she said no, she thought it was cute and appropriate because I have a foot fetish so she liked the pun the incorrect spelling made.
 
I suppose it depends on what a soul mate means to you. To me, it's someone that I become deeply connected to in some way, and it could be a lover or a friend. So, I have more than one, and each has a little piece of me that no one else does or ever will.
 
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