How many sex partners
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suckonsimon
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Well I'll step up to getting the base line in here: In forty years, One. My wife. 
... and I know there's plenty Litsters can take us on up from there!
... and I know there's plenty Litsters can take us on up from there!
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If we're only counting real life ... two, including my husband.
Well, sort of two & a half ... the 'half' was fooling around but not what I'd consider really 'sex'.
Well, sort of two & a half ... the 'half' was fooling around but not what I'd consider really 'sex'.
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Five
Around five
Around five
KimGordon67
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If we're only counting real life ... two, including my husband.
Well, sort of two & a half ... the 'half' was fooling around but not what I'd consider really 'sex'.
And one other between getting together and getting married.
That's across a total of 17 years though.
Well, sort of two & a half ... the 'half' was fooling around but not what I'd consider really 'sex'.
And one other between getting together and getting married.
That's across a total of 17 years though.
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That's intriguing -- that extra one must have been quite special?
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I'm a good girl only my husband
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I'm a good girl only my husband
So your husband know you are on Lit
suckonsimon
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I'm a good girl only my husband
Something so damn attractive about a good girl ...
As to being good and being on Lit:
My wife knows that her good boy is a Litster, that he flirts on here, and downloads the occasional classy image for her to enjoy. All good!
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About 35-40. About evenly split between swinging experiences and a regular group of lovers. With three one night stands.
You sound like a kindred spirit. I have always believed that sex was for fun and a nice thing to share with friends and my husband has always understood.
One my wife
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18. And came inside all of them
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more than 50
suckonsimon
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Just a little reminder on behalf of the OP if I may.
It's since you got married.
It's since you got married.
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I've been married twice, and I've had three sex partners since the first marriage.
My first wife, my second and current wife, and one same sex partner. That's it....pretty boring...really.
My first wife, my second and current wife, and one same sex partner. That's it....pretty boring...really.
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Hold it mate ... there's 'boring' for a range of reasons. Just some of the big numbers are because the marriage is 'boring', and some of the small numbers are because the marriage is fucking fantastic! There are a thousand ways we live out fulfillment and joy.
policywank
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Indeed. I am lucky that my husband understands - truth is I have more opportunity and am better able to manage multiple partners than he is. And I make sure his acceptance is richly rewarded.
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About 20, over about a decade, about the same number of partners I had before the marriage. And this was after 20-22 years of fidelity within the marriage. I was caught about 2 1/2 years ago, we reconciled and I have been sexually faithful since then.
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One, the one I married... And I always shake my head at the guys that ask that pointed question of the gals, "Does HE know you're on lit???" WTF. How is that your business exactly?
I never see the gals asking it of the married guys here... or maybe I've just missed it. But I have to say, those double standards really get under my skin.
BTW, though, to anyone who thinks they're sneaking around on a spouse, under a fake name or whatever, please remember this is a public forum. A word to the wise, a long time spouse will easily break your 'code.' Since my handle here is a brand, my hubs can easily search for and see anything I post, and I always post with that in mind. Just something to think about.
I never see the gals asking it of the married guys here... or maybe I've just missed it. But I have to say, those double standards really get under my skin.
BTW, though, to anyone who thinks they're sneaking around on a spouse, under a fake name or whatever, please remember this is a public forum. A word to the wise, a long time spouse will easily break your 'code.' Since my handle here is a brand, my hubs can easily search for and see anything I post, and I always post with that in mind. Just something to think about.
suckonsimon
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One, the one I married... And I always shake my head at the guys that ask that pointed question of the gals, "Does HE know you're on lit???" WTF. How is that your business exactly?
I never see the gals asking it of the married guys here... or maybe I've just missed it. But I have to say, those double standards really get under my skin.
BTW, though, to anyone who thinks they're sneaking around on a spouse, under a fake name or whatever, please remember this is a public forum. A word to the wise, a long time spouse will easily break your 'code.' Since my handle here is a brand, my hubs can easily search for and see anything I post, and I always post with that in mind. Just something to think about.
Let me offer some cross-gender solidarity here, Felicity!
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