How many of you women wil ask a guy out?

generally i like to stalk them for a while before popping the question. then i just hope they panick and say yes.
 
I'd love to ask a guy out... if my husband would let me. :rolleyes:
 
Kinda of shy so my approach I do is write a letter first...*LoL*
 
I ask because

I have so many female friends that are terrified to approach a guy. I was wondering how common that is.
 
I dont' think it's the fear of the approach. I think it is fear of rejection.


I always ask for what I want. Rejection is part of life. If I never ask, then I might never receive. And I liiiiiiiike to receive.
 
Very common.
I'm one of the shy girls.
I find it very intimidating.
I don't like rejection and I am scared of guys saying no.
 
Umm, Perky you dont count

As though anyone could reject you. I was asking the mortal women.
Ya know, why should guys be the only ones that face the prospect of rejection?
 
Re: Umm, Perky you dont count

Bluesboy2 said:
As though anyone could reject you. I was asking the mortal women.
Ya know, why should guys be the only ones that face the prospect of rejection?

dude, lol, you're amusing. I get rejected a lot. Perfection isn't realistic, although lots of people look for it.

And to finish the question. The approach matches the situation. It can be anything from a suggestive glance and totally ignoring him until he comes up and says hi and I ask a pointedly naughty question, orrrr, it could be a simple "I'd like to get to know you better, want to hang out sometime?"

Companionship has so many different levels. Since I'm in a committed relationship, I get rejected a lot for that. Or the way I look, or my overall crazy quirkiness<I made that word up I think>

You're not supposed to be accepted by everyone. That's not how it works. I'd rather someone say no in the beginning than a month down the line.
 
Mona

Why would it be that bad if a guy said no?
Umm, Perky are you asking guys out on a date after you tell them you are in a relationship? I know that even though you are a goddess I would have to pass on that.
 
I've never had a problem approaching a man and asking them out. I'm a flirt by nature and that usually turns them on anyways!
 
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perky_baby said:
It can be anything from a suggestive glance and totally ignoring him until he comes up and says hi
This works? :eek: Most of us men are so dense that we need to be hit over the head with a sledge hammer before we notice that a woman is truly interested in us and wants us to come on to them. :eek:

So women, I hear True Value Hardware has a sale on sledge hammers! :D
 
I guess, it wouldn't be THAT bad Blue,
It would be "end of the universe" humiliating that's all.

I'd recover I know, but I prefer not to get into that situation where I have to lick my wounds. I have to give guys props for asking gals out. I takes alot of guts.
 
Re: Mona

Bluesboy2 said:
Why would it be that bad if a guy said no?
Umm, Perky are you asking guys out on a date after you tell them you are in a relationship? I know that even though you are a goddess I would have to pass on that.
lol, see:D
 
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Shy Tall Guy said:
This works? :eek: Most of us men are so dense that we need to be hit over the head with a sledge hammer before we notice that a woman is truly interested in us and wants us to come on to them. :eek:

So women, I hear True Value Hardware has a sale on sledge hammers! :D
believe me, STG. One of my glances is like being hit over the head with a sledge hammer.:D
 
Let me ammend that Perky

Its my policy to pass on married. However in your case I might make an exception
 
<smile>

I've always been the exception to the rules. You'll get used to it.
 
Would you care to elaborate on that?

What rules are you the exception to?
 
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