How long until you cum? (statistically speaking)

[Caliber]

A few weeks ago someone started a thread asking guys how long it took before they blew their load.

The answers came down pretty much split evenly. Half of the guys said they lasted 10 ~ 20 minutes, while the other half said they lasted 40 ~ 60 minutes.

What I'm curious is the guy behind these figures. His age, his circumscision status, how long hes been having sex, and techniques he uses, and I guess anything anyone else would want to add in.

To get this all rolling heres me.

I last about 10 minutes average. I'm 20, but only recently started having sex (I started maybe 2 years ago)

I'm circumscised and masterbate rather frequently (2 to 3 times a day on average)

My time has increased as I've had more sex, and I've figured out that shifting positions, proper breath control, and emptying my bladder before hand all help keep me going to.

So anyone else want to share?

 

[CommunistNinja]

I'm 18, just recently started having sex, circumsized, masturbate quite a lot, and it takes me a bloody long time. Anywhere from 45 minutes to two hours or more when i'm with someone.

 

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[jeff_is_smiling]

43 here...

and it depends...I seem to cum quicker when in a womans ass...and tend to last alot longer when in a pussy or getting a blowjob....

I last about 45 minutes orally or from streaight fucking...and about 15-30 minutes with anal....

 

[Lady Tango]

I'm in my mid-thirties and it usually takes me 15-20 minutes to reach orgasm when my husband and I make love.

 

[James G 5]

33 y/o male, circumcized, fairly experienced
Depending on foreplay and how turned on I am, 5-10 minutes without a condom, 15-20 with one IF I am not TRYING to hold back
Trying to hold back (kegels, using the "grip" method, pulling out, etc) will keep me going for over an hour

 

[WynEternal]

Hmmm... I can hold it off almost indefinately, but being a woman who can do multiples, why would I want to?

 

[SexyChele]

I'm 42, female, single, and not circumcized. I masturbate daily, except when very ill or the first day of my period.

By myself, I can come within 5 - 15 minutes, either by using my fingers or a vibrator. With a man? It's anybody's guess. I've only been with one man who could bring me to orgasm, and that was only through oral. I never actually timed it, but I would say anywhere between 30 - 45 minutes. And yes, I am multi-orgasmic, but getting to that first one is a major bitch.

 

[James G 5]

I'm 42, female, single, and not circumcized. I masturbate daily, except when very ill or the first day of my period.

By myself, I can come within 5 - 15 minutes, either by using my fingers or a vibrator. With a man? It's anybody's guess. I've only been with one man who could bring me to orgasm, and that was only through oral. I never actually timed it, but I would say anywhere between 30 - 45 minutes. And yes, I am multi-orgasmic, but getting to that first one is a major bitch.

Yanno, from what I've read, if you layed off the vibe & fingers for a few weeks before you got with a guy he might have an easier time
Vibes can actually desensitize you
And men or women who masturbate too much can lose the ability to cum with a partner, sicne they (the masturbaters) know exactly what speed/pressure/sensations to give to get themselves off, it can become impossible for a partner to match the sensations

 

[ozraven]

Any bloke who tells you he averages 40 to 60 minutes is full of shit, or not counting fair.

ie, including foreplay, or stopping during etc......

Full on non stop intercourse, with the sole aim of cumming, (meaning Akasha already has) I will usually last about 2 to 5 minutes.....

Sometimes I will lie on top of her and tell her the filthiest stories that come to mind, soft and low in her ear, my movements are timed to match the story, those sessions often last well over 30 minutes.

Including foreplay we have on occasion, made love for more than 8 hours in a day, over 3 or 4 sessions......

But full-on butt jarring fucking....... even 20 minutes is fantasy.....and I am sure the ladies here will affirm the fiction...

Not surprising really though, how many men anser with complete honesty when asked how big their cock is??? .

 

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[ozraven]

Ive seen men last a good 2 ours, but thats extremely drunk...
The same guy sober. 10 minutes tops

LMAO, yes I forgot about pissed......

I actually got told to give up once, that was about 2 hours worth.....but I was very very very drunk!

 

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[ozraven]

lol, I now refuse to have sex with a drunk man. I dont they realize they smell funny...

all smell sweet and nasty breathed or something

Id rather go 2-3 times with a blow job in between to get it up again, then one long drunk fuck

It works both ways you know, my lady will get extremely horny when pissed, but she can't cum....... fun trying though.

 

[SexyChele]

Yanno, from what I've read, if you layed off the vibe & fingers for a few weeks before you got with a guy he might have an easier time
Vibes can actually desensitize you
And men or women who masturbate too much can lose the ability to cum with a partner, sicne they (the masturbaters) know exactly what speed/pressure/sensations to give to get themselves off, it can become impossible for a partner to match the sensations

James, I appreciate your comments, as always, but this is a case where I simply know what is me. The first time a man brought me to orgasm surprised me even more than it did him! Because it takes me such a long time orgasm (even when I'm on my own and with a vibe and if it's been a few days, doesn't matter), I became an expert at the fine art of faking an orgasm so some poor guy wouldn't keep going at it for hours until I was cranky mess and just wanting to be left alone. I finally met a man who truly, truly loved oral sex. (yeah, I know. ALL men on Lit love oral, right? Well, that is not always a true statement) One afternoon, he insisted on just continuing oral sex, and I was tired of going through my "faking routine". I just laid there, hoping he would have enough and finally quit. The thing was, due to the amount of time, the way he was doing it, and my own relaxation I actually had an orgasm. Since my real orgasms are far more intense than anything I can fake, he didn't know what had happened, and I was shocked that it had finally happened. Of course, then I had to come clean about faking orgasms for the previous year - that was no fun.

But, that was the last (and only) man who showed that much interest or enjoyment in giving oral sex over an extended period of time - and that was over 11 years ago. Since then, I get my partner off, then masturbate. It doesn't always work for them, but I'm okay with it. Besides, for most men, the idea of giving a woman oral for 45 minutes or more so that she might orgasm is just not appealing. Why put them through that?

Anyway, rambled enough....

 

[James G 5]

They can not!
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its proven....


It can make you sexually lazy... giving up with a partner because the vibe is quicker, but it does NOT desensitize you.

If that was the case, the vibe wouldnt work either.

Desensitize was a poor word choice on my part
It can render you so accustomed to a level of sensation a human partner can't duplicate that it becomes difficult to compete with

 

[James G 5]

Besides, for most men, the idea of giving a woman oral for 45 minutes or more so that she might orgasm is just not appealing. Why put them through that?

You've seen my comments in other threads about finding a woman who can endure more than 3 hours running of oral from me, right?

 

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[sugardaddy]

I am mid twenties. Okay, late twenties. I am a little longer than average length and girth. I last any where from 20 to 50 minutes. Depending on whom I am with and if we are roleplaying at all. I try ot masturebate as much as possible too! Lol. And I am circumsized.

 

[creamyheather69]

Sugardaddy,
Always great to see a guy stroke his ego while talking about a nice cock.

Creamy

 

[HarlemBlade]

I'm 22, circumcised, and quite fit after losing tons of weight. I have been having sex for about 3 years or so. If I have a condom on, I can go a real long time...sometimes around an hour. If I do not have a condom on...about 20 min or so max. If I'm piss drunk, it can be almost impossible to cum, which isn't entirely a bad thing.

Strangely, I cum in just a few minutes when I masturbate.

 

[want_this]

me

i am 20 years old, not circumcised and of average length. have been having sex for about four years and i still cant give you an approximate of how long i will be, whether it be using a condom or not, sometimes its a brief few minutes, sometimes its 20, sometimes its over an hour. i try not to masturbate that often as i feel stopping myself from doing so everynight gives me a greater control of myslef and im not driven only by sexual urges. though some nights you just have to jack off a couple of times. sometimes masturbating helps me sleep if im restless. i can say though that my perfect sex time would be 30-45 mins, not to puffed, good work out, nobodys too sore when where done so we can do it again if we wish. the only problem is that my gf is over seas and i wont see her till july when i go over there. so im testing to see how long i can go with out masturbaing. last night i broke a week long stretch. it felt good to abstain, but man it felt great to finally come, now im just talking shit.

 

[StevenWill]

time it

As a psychologist I can tell you that people are notoriously bad at estimating time. So.....next time you have sex in a place with a clock, check the time before and after. You will be surprised at how short the time is. Or, watch a porno video scene. You will be totally bored before the 10 minute mark.

I am talking intercourse here, not the entire delicious event. Ten minutes is actually quite a long time for our species to have intercourse. Collect some data and see what you find.

Dr. Steve

 

[just a thing]

A list of sexual averages:

How long it takes the average man and woman to cum is at the bottom of the page.


http://www.sexualrecords.com/WSRaverages.html