i've had guys cum in their pants just dancing with them honey, how does that figure in your suvey
i've had guys last less than 30 seconds with it up me... and i had a lovely big black guy years back who was on me for three quarters on an hour winding it gently about in my ever sloppier hole before he shot his lot for the first time... he only stopped long enough to change condoms and was away again for seconds... he made me as sore and bruised as a bloody gangbang with 6 short lived guys would have done
i think it all depends on a guys mood and physical state, i don't know for sure though being a tart.