How long before Loving a Literotican ?

[moofv]

How long did you wait before having sex with someone you met on Lit.
or what is proper these days. Did you Pm a lot, then Phone a lot, meet several times first ? Did you have only safe sex for a period of time till you felt you could trust enough to enjoy each other totally ?

I have been out of circulation so long and at a bit of a loss as to what is " OK " or acceptable any more. Any thoughts or comments would be very welcome to help me get some idea where the consensus lies.

 

[rydia57]

How long did you wait before having sex with someone you met on Lit.
or what is proper these days. Did you Pm a lot, then Phone a lot, meet several times first ? Did you have only safe sex for a period of time till you felt you could trust enough to enjoy each other totally ?

I have been out of circulation so long and at a bit of a loss as to what is " OK " or acceptable any more. Any thoughts or comments would be very welcome to help me get some idea where the consensus lies.

I've just met my first person off Lit, not for sex but just to meet them. I usually treat it like I do on the dating sites tho. I net date, if I meet someone I mentally reach with, I usually talk to them for a week or two, then if they wanna meet, meet. May not go any further, Maybe meet them twice before any sex happens. It rarely gets to that point. Wish you luck, and welcome to Lit .

 

[SecretLove69]

How long did you wait before having sex with someone you met on Lit.
or what is proper these days. Did you Pm a lot, then Phone a lot, meet several times first ? Did you have only safe sex for a period of time till you felt you could trust enough to enjoy each other totally ?

I have been out of circulation so long and at a bit of a loss as to what is " OK " or acceptable any more. Any thoughts or comments would be very welcome to help me get some idea where the consensus lies.

Hi Moofv.
I've only met one person off of Lit. He was a real sweetheart - we clicked mentally first on here and then did the phone thing for a while. When we finally got to meet face to face it was, as are most first meetings, a little awkward but we talked a lot and got to know each other better. No, we didn't get 'completely' intimate with each other - just some attempts to knock walls down and get over the first time jitters.
I hope to meet him again as I consider him a very good friend, valuable confidante and if all other things mesh together well - perhaps vivacious lovers.
Time will tell.

Good luck.

 

[moofv]

Ok that was worded poorly, I would not meet with someone from Lit that I had not already made a connection with on several levels. I'm not interested in having sex at all until some other connections have been made. I have never had sex on a first date or a had a one night stand but I would not want to appear shy or coy if the lines of intimancy have been moved from when Last I was out on the field.

Thanks for the Welcome & your reply.

 

[SecretLove69]

Ok that was worded poorly, I would not meet with someone from Lit that I had not already made a connection with on several levels. I'm not interested in having sex at all until some other connections have been made. I have never had sex on a first date or a had a one night stand but I would not want to appear shy or coy if the lines of intimancy have been moved from when Last I was out on the field.

Thanks for the Welcome & your reply.

Well, Moofv sometimes you have to follow your heart and just let things take a natural course.

Not knowing how long you've been out of action it is difficult to say where the lines of demarcation are now. But, I still think you would be well served to just relax and let things just go where they will go. Pushing doesn't work and a show of resistance might get you a lonely night alone in your bed. Just take things easy and, I can't stress this enough, RELAX.

Hey, here's a thought - take a cue from Casablanca -
"You know you don't have to act with me Steve. You don't have to say anything and you don't have to do anything. Not a thing. Oh, maybe just whistle. You know how to whistle don't you Steve? You just put your lips together and blow"

Take it lightly friend.

 

[JohnGalt1871]

Well, Moofv sometimes you have to follow your heart and just let things take a natural course.

Not knowing how long you've been out of action it is difficult to say where the lines of demarcation are now. But, I still think you would be well served to just relax and let things just go where they will go. Pushing doesn't work and a show of resistance might get you a lonely night alone in your bed. Just take things easy and, I can't stress this enough, RELAX.

Hey, here's a thought - take a cue from Casablanca -
"You know you don't have to act with me Steve. You don't have to say anything and you don't have to do anything. Not a thing. Oh, maybe just whistle. You know how to whistle don't you Steve? You just put your lips together and blow"

Take it lightly friend.

Hate to nit pick, but the Bogart lover in me can't resist. You meant To Have and Have Not, not Casablanca. Good luck with finding the advice you need, friend

 

[moofv]

line

Please forgive SL69 John, " She's not herself "

Now show your stuff and tell me the next line after that in

" To Have and Have Not "

Your Loyal, " Was you ever bit by a dead bee " moof

 

[JohnGalt1871]

Please forgive SL69 John, " She's not herself "

Now show your stuff and tell me the next line after that in

" To Have and Have Not "

Your Loyal, " Was you ever bit by a dead bee " moof

Who is she?

 

[moofv]

" Impressive "

A truely underated film. Considering it was basically made as a bet, it is just a fantastic work of art. One of the most Quoted films next to Casablanca & usually people don't even know they are quoting it.

There are a bunch of behind the scenes stories about " To Have and Have Not " and I'm not sure how many of them were ever filmed, but if you could collect the clips into a second DVD for a two disk set it would be fantastic. For one they really wanted Frank Sinatra to play the part that went to Hoagy Carmichael.

 

[SecretLove69]

Hate to nit pick, but the Bogart lover in me can't resist. You meant To Have and Have Not, not Casablanca. Good luck with finding the advice you need, friend

Not that I feel the need to make excuses for myself but, I was tired and trying to be nice not a movie aficionado. Take it in the spirit intended and if you really want to pick nits go to the monkey cage at the zoo.

Also, I don't recall seeking advice - I didn't start this thread.

I think I'll skip off to the playground now - less harassment. Besides, if the Play Grounders catch me fooling around with you fellas my goose will be cooked. Probably lose my boat too. I ain't that interested. I think I have to go buy a new hat anyway.

 

[SecretLove69]

Please forgive SL69 John, " She's not herself "

Your Loyal, " Was you ever bit by a dead bee " moof

And you know who I am?? I don't need forgiveness from John nor do I seek it. To ask forgiveness is only necessary if one feels a wrong has been committed. I'll get my forgiveness from the only one worthy of giving it out and I'm pretty sure John was just an apostle - no matter how high and mighty he may consider himself.

You don’t know me. You don’t give a ‘whoop’ what I do and you just took one look and you made up your mind what you wanted to think about me. I’m the one who feels cheap now.

And as far as the dead bee is concerned..... Why don't you bite him back or don't you have a stinger?

Don’t vacillate in your vivisection of me – I’m ready.

 

[moofv]

" What we have here is a failure to communicate "

LOL, SL69 you are quite moof.
Sorry not to bring you up to speed sooner but as I suspect you know, the "forgive" line is also from " To Have & Have Not " I would Love to watch it with you sometime, after Casablanca of course. You should add you comments about " V For Vendetta " to my thread about it here at Lit. You seemed like you thought it was a ten.

I wonder if there are enough "Great Movie" fans here at Lit. to start a book club Litogether type thing where we meet and watch a great movie and talk about it afterwards.

 

[JohnGalt1871]

Not that I feel the need to make excuses for myself but, I was tired and trying to be nice not a movie aficionado. Take it in the spirit intended and if you really want to pick nits go to the monkey cage at the zoo.

Also, I don't recall seeking advice - I didn't start this thread.

I think I'll skip off to the playground now - less harassment. Besides, if the Play Grounders catch me fooling around with you fellas my goose will be cooked. Probably lose my boat too. I ain't that interested. I think I have to go buy a new hat anyway.

I'm very sorry you took what I said the way you did. I meant it more as poking fun, very playful, not accusitory. And the advice portion I meant for moof, but didn't specify like I should have. I'm very sorry if I offended you.

 

[SecretLove69]

I'm very sorry you took what I said the way you did. I meant it more as poking fun, very playful, not accusitory. And the advice portion I meant for moof, but didn't specify like I should have. I'm very sorry if I offended you.

Thank you John . I may have been just a wee bit fiesty (morning coffee hadn't affected me yet).
Let's clean the slate and start over.

 

[JohnGalt1871]

Thank you John . I may have been just a wee bit fiesty (morning coffee hadn't affected me yet).
Let's clean the slate and start over.

I'd love to

 

[JennyLee84]

I haven't had sex with a Lit.

 

[SecretLove69]

" What we have here is a failure to communicate "

LOL, SL69 you are quite moof.
Sorry not to bring you up to speed sooner but as I suspect you know, the "forgive" line is also from " To Have & Have Not " I would Love to watch it with you sometime, after Casablanca of course. You should add you comments about " V For Vendetta " to my thread about it here at Lit. You seemed like you thought it was a ten.

I wonder if there are enough "Great Movie" fans here at Lit. to start a book club Litogether type thing where we meet and watch a great movie and talk about it afterwards.

Like I told John - you catch me before my morning coffee and I'm liable to tear you a new one. But, all is better now. A momentary loss of composure.

Never been accused of being vindictive – voracious maybe but you know how us died in the wool Passionistas tend to get.

 

[SecretLove69]

I'd love to

So is it all the way back to the top or can we start somewhere in the middle and work our way from there?

(Read as much innuendo into that as you desire)

 

[SecretLove69]

SecretLove69 attacks
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and then offers a hug for new friends - friends with potential
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[JohnGalt1871]

SecretLove69 attacks
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and then offers a hug for new friends - friends with potential
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Potential works

 

[SecretLove69]

Well, John - considering your way with words I think the likelihood of us becoming friends - very good friends - is highly probable. That is, if I can pull you and Moofv away from talking about movies long enough. Or, hmmmm a thought has just struck my mind - three writers can often times be more creative than just two.