How is Anal sex?

[LoveYou2111]

Hello, my boyfriend has asked me many times to have anal sex with him but I won't do it. I hear it hurts like hell but then again some say there is alot of pleasure after the pain. I just want to know if you people think it is all that good, and if I should try it or not.

 

[danno99]

Hello, my boyfriend has asked me many times to have anal sex with him but I won't do it. I hear it hurts like hell but then again some say there is alot of pleasure after the pain. I just want to know if you people think it is all that good, and if I should try it or not.

maybe you can lead up to it using your own or his fingers, a toy, etc?

 

[LoveYou2111]

thanks Danno99 is there anyone else who wants to help out?

 

[sweetrapturedlight]

hi

Well I love anal sex...sometimes more than regular. Try using a lubricant, if you want to try and tell him not to force himself in, to be gentle and glide...the key is to relax, don't tense up, that will make it hurt. Take your time...try fingers first. Get the feel for it...then when you think you want to try, DO...hopefully your boyfriend will be patient and not try to hurry it in and you'll have a wonderful experience...I think with some women, their partners rushed into the anal play and their experiences were bad, don't be afraid to voice...let him know...nothing wrong with experimenting, just take it slow...


Chelle

 

[LoveYou2111]

Thanks Chelle.

 

[LoveYou2111]

Thanks Chelle.

 

[LoveYou2111]

Thanks Chelle.

 

[skme]

Thanks Chelle!!!!!!!!

 

[sweetrapturedlight]

You're most welcome guys!!!!

Just saying what's true for me...it can be a great experience if done right and one that might want the woman wanting more as in my case...I love it and I enjoy it and I'm not afraid to admit to it....


Chelle

 

[Experienced Teacher]

Listen to Chelle!!!

She's right on the money. The key is to be as relaxed as possible and don't rush things. And remember.......when you're first starting, there is no such thing as too much lubricant!!

 

[Atlas31]

I've also found that playing with the clit, or having her play with her clit, helps distract any pain she might feel. Some whispering words of encouragement and telling her how hot or beautiful she is will keep the juices flowing.

 

[sweetrapturedlight]

mmmmmmm

Now I'm wanting anal really bad...LOL

chelle

 

[rimmy]

Re: mmmmmmm

Now I'm wanting anal really bad...LOL

chelle

I'm ready when you are Chelle

 

[sweetrapturedlight]

Ok but where are you? LOL


Chelle

 

[fishon1969]

wow chelle

I just wanted to say how much i like your pic, and I love hearing about how much you like anal. I would agree with your instructions too I can never go to slow at the begining, until she has totally relaxed.

 

[MasterZee]

let her control the speed

i have to agree with all the great advice from the others. in addition, if you can allow her to control the speed, and depth of penetration, it will help. have her push back onto you, rather than you push into her (unless she asks you to). also make sure she continues to breath, holding ones breath is bad.

good luck!

 

[Saintfool]

another idea...

my wife was really nervous at the thought too. she liked being touched there plenty but thought i was way too big for anal intercourse. we compromised by having her on top, lowering herself onto me. she had much more control over the action (not a bad thing in my book) which soothed her plenty. i get the added benefit of seeing/watching while she has me in there. i do recommend the clit play, as it seems to make it all the more sensory overload friendly. she has incredibly intense orgasms that way, even to the point of almost passing out. i love it this way...

 

[Roxanne_Smith69]

It's awesome ...

I love anal. I resisted it for a long time but then curiosity got the better of me. The orgasms I get are SO amazing -- I especially like anal fucking with a vibrator on my clit. OMG -- the orgasms blow your head off.

As others have said, take it slow, use lube and relax. It's really intense but really worth it.

Roxanne

 

[Toyman]

I have to agree chelle listening to you talk about anal with that sexy stare readheaded av is killing me ; ).

Slow is the key, lot's of warm up and foreplay. The easiest time was when I was only a little erect and still fairly soft. I put the tip up against her and we just talked and moved, I nibbled her neck and thought about what awaited me, as this all took place I slowely filled and just kinda grew inside of her. I actually entered much narrower than if rock hard. She moaned and breathed the whole time and when i started to pulse as I came, she let out little gasp/cries as it swelled with each pulse of cum.

 

[sweetrapturedlight]

anal positions

I like being on all fours for anal...I love being rammed...omg...that's getting deep but it's true...I like being on top sometimes also, the face to face is awesome...being on the side is good too but still like being on all fours the best and yeah the orgasms are out of this world...ok taking a shower now


chelle

 

[Toyman]

Yeah the orgasms are fantastic. I specifically remember an anal orgasm I had with my college GF she had been an Anal virgin yet took to it like a demon. One night she came just second before me and as the waves swept her her ass would clench tighter then relax tighter then relax. I started to cum and was exactly opposite I wanted to swell and shoot into her each time she would clench and her ass won. Basically she would clench soooooo tight she would choke off each shot and my eyeballs would shoot out of my head. I have never to this day felt sensation that intense.

 

[jak_jism]

My wife loves anal and is the person who turned me onto it. She only complained one time when I got a little ahead of things and she wasn't quite lubricated enough.

Once we're into it, she'll take it anyway I'm willing to have at it; slow and easy, hard, fast and deep. And if I can reach her clit I'm sure to finger it. She fuckin' loves it.

When I'm up her ass and cumming I like to push hard and deep and then hold there while I short thrust with each ejaculation.

I love the tight and smooth of it, not to mention the taboo of it.

 

[nyit]

I think u should start from small object like your fingers and move one don start with something big

I don really like it