How important are certain body parts?

[artistgonewyld]

I am curious (guys and gals) whether or not you can get excited by someone if there breasts or cock or whatever doesn't fit your criteria or personal likes?

Some people like big breasts and some like small.

I personally have trouble retaining attraction with someone who doesn't possess nice sized breasts. It is a quirk of mine and I don't always like it, but it is there nevertheless. I have dated a few small breasted girls but find myself unable, usually, to remain sexually attracted unless I really like their breasts.

I know there are people who are just the opposite and prefer small breasts.

The eternal question about whether a girl can like someone with a small cock is also relevant. Many women say they want at least 7 inches. Is it any different than me preferring a girl with larger breasts (c-cup or above)?

My question is this: Can you remain physically attracted to someone if they do not possess a certain personally desired physical aspect (breasts or cock or whatever)?

 

[Lurnk]

I am curious (guys and gals) whether or not you can get excited by someone if there breasts or cock or whatever doesn't fit your criteria or personal likes?

Some people like big breasts and some like small.

I personally have trouble retaining attraction with someone who doesn't possess nice sized breasts. It is a quirk of mine and I don't always like it, but it is there nevertheless. I have dated a few small breasted girls but find myself unable, usually, to remain sexually attracted unless I really like their breasts.

I know there are people who are just the opposite and prefer small breasts.

The eternal question about whether a girl can like someone with a small cock is also relevant. Many women say they want at least 7 inches. Is it any different than me preferring a girl with larger breasts (c-cup or above)?

My question is this: Can you remain physically attracted to someone if they do not possess a certain personally desired physical aspect (breasts or cock or whatever)?

To answer your question: Yes, I can remain attracted to a guy who isn't swinging a seven-inch cock. It usually has something to do with his personality or intelligence, but that's my troublesome quirk.

However, you seemingly answer your own question as you realize individuality in taste: You say you like chicks with big tits. Why not leave it at that?

Apparently, neither personality nor intelligence is a factor in your attraction equation, otherwise I doubt you'd have this issue. (Or maybe it's just been your bad luck to stumble upon the dumb, small-chested girls.) Still, you've posed this question, implying a deep desire to discover what you've missed while focusing on the size of the woman cushions.

Nah, probably not. Most likely that's projection oozing from my fingers, but I'll ask my question nonetheless: Perhaps your large-meloned mamas lack a treasure those little-tittied ladies willingly to supply and you're longing to reveal that long hidden loot?

Even if that's not the case, I'm thankful that I had the opportunity to write that. Alliteration rocks.

Obviously, I would advise that you notice the other characteristics women possess. You see, we have this tendency--as nutty as it sounds--to have more going for us than boobs. Indeed, I would advise this, but I'd wonder if you'd listen.



Lurnk.

 

[moofv]

I'm thankful that I had the opportunity to write that. Alliteration rocks.

I think it's so sexy when a woman says/types "Alliteration rocks."

But I fancy myself a cunning linguist so I may be a majority of one.

To answer the orginal question now that Lurnk has made it worth the effort,

personally I have no interest in someone sexually till I get to know their mind,
If the attic's empty I have no desire to play in any of the other rooms no matter how they are decorated. On the other hand if the brain connects for me I could care less what the other rooms look like I 'am going to want to play games with my new friend " irregardless ".

Yes I know "irregardless" is not a word, I just like to see how many others notice.

 

[shy slave]

I have had sex with men whose 'attic was empty'

I only wanted sex, not a discussion on world politics or contempory art.

However, I only want a relationship with someone who possesses alot more than a decent cock length.

I guess the answer for me is it depends why I want the man, for his brains and his cock, or just as a fuck piece for a few minutes at the end of a night.

I have met some men who were fucking awful people, but have yet to meet a cock I didn't like.

Does that help? lol

 

[Damariscotta]

This will probably sound stupid, but my favorite body part on a person is their eyes.

 

[angelkitty7888]

What attracts me to a person isn't chest or ass or cock (mostly lesbian but straight curious lol) i love people's eyes, shoulders, and neck... my current girlfriend has the most gorgeous chocolate-brown eyes, beautifully curved shoulders, and a neck that just makes me want to kiss/nip it... (not to mention a nice chest and ass along with that!)

she also is a very sharp person she loves who-dun-it shows (and almost always figures out the culprit before they do) and reads a lot of books (and not romance/chicky books either, that's usually me ) we have many debates about politics and such

but i do agree with the other Litsters, i have to be able to hold a conversation with a person if i will ever even consider them as a playmate! a good mind is more important than a good body... that's actually why i go for eyes, i'm good at reading people's eyes and can usually tell if there is a brain behind them

and in my opinion if i'm looking for a meaningful relationship i'm not going to chase them for days just for a single date, they have to show an intrest in getting to know me as well

 

[Lurnk]

I think it's so sexy when a woman says/types "Alliteration rocks."

Alliteration rocks.

 

[moofv]

Alliteration rocks.

Aaaaaaahhhhhh, it is even better when you tease me with it.

Have you seen " V For Vendetta " ? There is a soliloquy in one of the opening scenes where the majority of the words start with the letter " v ". I would Love to hear your thoughts about it.

Also, what are your feelings about onomatopoeia ?

Your more than moderately modeled after a motley mobius strip moof

 

[txnstud21]

Aaaaaaahhhhhh, it is even better when you tease me with it.

Have you seen " V For Vendetta " ? There is a soliloquy in one of the opening scenes where the majority of the words start with the letter " v ". I would Love to hear your thoughts about it.

Also, what are your feelings about onomatopoeia ?

Your more than moderately modeled after a motley mobius strip moof

that was one of my favorite scenes in the movie. very well written alliteration there.

 

[Lurnk]

Aaaaaaahhhhhh, it is even better when you tease me with it.

Have you seen " V For Vendetta " ? There is a soliloquy in one of the opening scenes where the majority of the words start with the letter " v ". I would Love to hear your thoughts about it.

Also, what are your feelings about onomatopoeia ?

Your more than moderately modeled after a motley mobius strip moof

I've kinda sorta seen it--I was multi-tasking at the time, but I do remember that part. It was startling to hear at first, but then I laughed and nodded my head once I realized what was going on.

Onomatopoeia? Effective only when it's light-hearted and natural, when it gurgles and delicately fizz fizzes onto the stage rather than thudding and clacking its way through the crowd. The type I find in children's stories is fun.

Learning, looming, lurking, and lollygagging on Lit,

Lurnk.

 

[likesmbig]

My nickname here refers to my strong preference for women with large breasts. But it is just a preference, not an insistence. I've enjoyed making love to women with small breasts and did not lose interest in them because of that.

 

[elizabeth22673]

For me it has nothing to do with 'body parts' and everything to do with how I feel about the person emotionally and how he treats me...

But if I HAD to pick something....
I would say kissable lips

 

[likesmbig]

For me it has nothing to do with 'body parts' and everything to do with how I feel about the person emotionally and how he treats me...

But if I HAD to pick something....
I would say kissable lips

Sooo sexy in so many ways....besides having an incredibly beautiful body.

 

[omegac]

Angelkitty kindly referred me to this thread, and so far, mine is the only post to chose underarms......something very sexy about a sooooo smooth underarm on a lady.

I wont go into more detail, mindful of the feint at heart

 

[C.S.]

This is possibly a bit of an odd one, but the only thing (body parts wise) that would turn me off someone I otherwise found attractive would be if I didn't like their hands.

 

[MsTexas]

For me its the hands and mouth ....

His hands will tell me the way he feels about me when he touches me

His mouth will show me his passion if only a whisper

 

[FLDan40]

I love eyes...especially blue or green. OK, a nice ass works for me too but the eyes will win for sure!!

 

[bluebell]

Some people just feel like home

Must admit my guy admiration is arms.
They don't have to be stacked or ripped, just...nice...there, and if I can even dare to dream, wanting to wrap me up in them.
*shivery*

Someone get the bucket of ice

 

[artistgonewyld]

Apparently, neither personality nor intelligence is a factor in your attraction equation, otherwise I doubt you'd have this issue. (Or maybe it's just been your bad luck to stumble upon the dumb, small-chested girls.) Still, you've posed this question, implying a deep desire to discover what you've missed while focusing on the size of the woman cushions.

Obviously, I would advise that you notice the other characteristics women possess. You see, we have this tendency--as nutty as it sounds--to have more going for us than boobs. Indeed, I would advise this, but I'd wonder if you'd listen.


Lurnk.

Actually, personality and intelligence are extremely important to me. The issue that I've heard many discuss and have dealt with personally is this: Despite great mental and spiritual attraction, does there still not need to be a physical spark of some kind. Many people find that spark in many forms; however, I personally prefer larger sized breasts. (I mean a C-cup or larger by that) I consider myself extremely intelligent and would love to discuss or debate most any topic. Babbling and conversing are my favorite hobbies, or at least close. I have dated quite a few women and over the years I've learned that for me to build off of an original physical attraction, there almost needs to be a physical spark added. Now, this by no means implies that large breasts are the be all and and all. They are simply a piece of the relationship puzzle that bare importance, even if on a small level.

I love women and people in general, but like everyone else on the planet, I have personality traits (like and dislikes). Anyway, I just thought I'd add this info..

 

[Lurnk]

Actually, personality and intelligence are extremely important to me. The issue that I've heard many discuss and have dealt with personally is this: Despite great mental and spiritual attraction, does there still not need to be a physical spark of some kind. Many people find that spark in many forms; however, I personally prefer larger sized breasts. (I mean a C-cup or larger by that) I consider myself extremely intelligent and would love to discuss or debate most any topic. Babbling and conversing are my favorite hobbies, or at least close. I have dated quite a few women and over the years I've learned that for me to build off of an original physical attraction, there almost needs to be a physical spark added. Now, this by no means implies that large breasts are the be all and and all. They are simply a piece of the relationship puzzle that bare importance, even if on a small level.

I love women and people in general, but like everyone else on the planet, I have personality traits (like and dislikes). Anyway, I just thought I'd add this info..

I wouldn't knock anyone for having physical preferences--well, there is one so-called preference that burns my britches, but that's for another thread. Everyone has likes and dislikes. Take me, for example: I don't like men with fingernails that are bitten off to the quick--gives me the heebie jeebies. However, if I go to the trouble of dating one of these de-nailed dudes and then go still further--enough to discover his bubble phobia and love for T.S. Eliot and pineapple milkshakes and somehow come out the other end jonesing for his company, I can't very well use my dislike of bitten-off fingernails as the bullet in the brain of our mating dance.

Well, I could, but I would hate myself in the morning.



Lurnk.

 

[moofv]

--enough to discover his bubble phobia and love for T.S. Eliot and pineapple milkshakes and somehow come out the other end jonesing for his company,
Lurnk.

Looking up from my pineapple milkshake, I think,
" Isn't pineapple juice almost always a good thing "

 

[alwaysAmber]

I am curious (guys and gals) whether or not you can get excited by someone if there breasts or cock or whatever doesn't fit your criteria or personal likes?

Some people like big breasts and some like small.

I personally have trouble retaining attraction with someone who doesn't possess nice sized breasts. It is a quirk of mine and I don't always like it, but it is there nevertheless. I have dated a few small breasted girls but find myself unable, usually, to remain sexually attracted unless I really like their breasts.

I know there are people who are just the opposite and prefer small breasts.

The eternal question about whether a girl can like someone with a small cock is also relevant. Many women say they want at least 7 inches. Is it any different than me preferring a girl with larger breasts (c-cup or above)?

My question is this: Can you remain physically attracted to someone if they do not possess a certain personally desired physical aspect (breasts or cock or whatever)?

I find it hard to remain physically attracted to someone who DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO USE WHATEVER SIZED COCK HE'S BEEN GIVEN. that means for me that he can have a small cock, if he knows how to use it or makes up for it in other areas.

since size is not the determining factor for me, I will say that smell is very important to me. maybe it's weird, but if a guy smells funky, I won't talk to him. literally.

I once dated this guy who was nothing special (nice, but not my type) and I wound up giving him head cause... well, it seemed appropriate at the time. I sucked him off and almost gagged - his scent was just not okay with me. I'm a trooper, so I finished, but I literally swallowed and told him "hey, don't call me for a few days. I need space." broke it to him when he called two days later that I wasn't down. moral of THAT story is, he smelled funky and I couldn't deal. wasn't mature enough to tell him to do something about it, and frankly didn't care. but scent is very important. I like cologne, but not overbearing cologne. and I like that musky man scent that maybe is more sex than man that comes during and after sex. the smell of tobacco and ozone. is this weird?!

I also like lighter eyes. dark eyes are great, and love is love whatever eye color it comes in, but there's something about a man with light eyes that makes me feel like he can look deep inside - and that's appealing. especially bright eyes - bright blues or greens, or grays even.

thing is, the funky scented man was most definitely a deal breaker. but if his scent didn't seem to come from his very insides, it might not have been so big a deal. and if I happen to find a man with an amazing personality and brown eyes, I'll give him a go.

I'm not saying my personal preferences aren't important, but I don't think that I would remain physically unattracted to someone if I felt emotionally connected.

okay quite enough rambling outta me.

 

[faithchick]

I just prefer a man to be really good looking....everything else can be worked on.....but if your a butter face....forget it!

 

[cadman7777]

Well the thread says body parts....I would go with the face as well...mainly eyes and lips.....but to me it's all about the attitude with which a woman brings everything together..

 

[Pinktacokitty]

If you are not physically fit you can not keep my attention. I spend a lot of time on the stair master to keep my body in shape. Also you have to be considered hot by me.