How Has Online Porn Changed Your Sex Life?

[Mr. Briggs]

I've seen a number of documentaries/movies lately that discuss how the availability of so much porn (and the variety of it) for free is really changing the way people view and enjoy sex. Expectations, fantasies, turn ons are all very different now from what they were 10 or 20 years ago.

When I was a teenager the most I could get access to was nude pictures and that did the job every time. Now you can get access to everything from nude pictures, to giant black cocks banging white wives to complete mind control domination videos.

How has online porn changed things for you?

 

[bibethhotwet]

It really has not changed us at all as we were both highly charged sexual people when we met other than providing some ideas we have tried. The real life experience of me being with two men did originate as a result of watching a porn one night. With us we are both honest and open with each other as to what we like. We still watch porn with each other and alone at times. I have heard of situations where porn becomes a substitute for the real partner and that is sad but for us I would say it has been an enhancement.

 

[kathieann]

*****

 

[littlecordelera]

In another thread on here somewhere I said that I don't see much difference between older guys and younger guys when it comes to sex, but having read your question, I was wrong in that response and I am reminded of a suspicion I have had for some time.

It seems to me that younger guys think that a woman's pleasure is tied solely to giving pleasure. I suspect this is so because that is what is consistently depicted in porn. Older guys, being that they were not exposed to online porn in early adulthood, seem to understand that we women like some attention and some good feelings and some orgasms, too.

So how has online porn changed my sex life? If my suspicions are correct, it has caused me to shy away from the younger guys.

 

[DarkBee]

It certainly opened my eyes to all kinds of additional ideas to bring into the bedroom (BDSM, massage, all kinds of positions, didn't get to watersports but she was interested)

 

[XXXHacker]

In another thread on here somewhere I said that I don't see much difference between older guys and younger guys when it comes to sex, but having read your question, I was wrong in that response and I am reminded of a suspicion I have had for some time.

It seems to me that younger guys think that a woman's pleasure is tied solely to giving pleasure. I suspect this is so because that is what is consistently depicted in porn. Older guys, being that they were not exposed to online porn in early adulthood, seem to understand that we women like some attention and some good feelings and some orgasms, too.

So how has online porn changed my sex life? If my suspicions are correct, it has caused me to shy away from the younger guys.

This may be anecdotal, but I would say that, as a younger guy, porn has made my sex life better because that was the only way I learned how to get better at eating pussy.

I also think that it's like everything else, all things in moderation, and garbage in, garbage out. Most of my porn watching is pretty vanilla stuff, Scoreland being my favorite, and only really go for the hard, fuck the shit out of the girl, stuff when I'm having a bad day and need to vent.

 

[HoldYouDown]

The less porn in my life, the better my sex life. Porn is only good for me in tiny doses.

 

[BareBackRider2]

I'd say it's great for ideas.

when I was young I may have looked at a tity magazine and thought "she's hot "

Now that thought hardly enters my mind. Instead I'm thinking "what she's DOING is hot"

 

[MelnMe]

I'd say it's great for ideas.

when I was young I may have looked at a tity magazine and thought "she's hot "

Now that thought hardly enters my mind. Instead I'm thinking "what she's DOING is hot"

Nice, subtle points there.

I definitely agree that it's the ideas that count. I'll watch porn but I pick up on tiny details, nuances. That's what gives me pleasure; when I start to fantasize days later, and try to bring aspects of it into the bedroom. And ultimately that's beneficial to Mel, too...

The two of us have started watching girl on girl lately; I never thought she'd go for it to the extent she has. It's a wonder to behold, the way she comes to life when she watches two young blondes with their tongues in each other.

 

[denicegirl]

I've learned that there is truly something for everyone on the internet and that if you have a desire or interest and are willing to search long enough, you will probably find it.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

It has awakened me to what I have hidden for so long. It has also brought back some of what I once had with my partner. Making me bold and showing her how I feel more. I often kneel in front of her for no reason and raise her dress and kiss and just nuzzle and let her know how I love her. A woman here helped me there and so thanks to her. She will know if she reads this

 

[Mr. Briggs]

This may be anecdotal, but I would say that, as a younger guy, porn has made my sex life better because that was the only way I learned how to get better at eating pussy.

I also think that it's like everything else, all things in moderation, and garbage in, garbage out. Most of my porn watching is pretty vanilla stuff, Scoreland being my favorite, and only really go for the hard, fuck the shit out of the girl, stuff when I'm having a bad day and need to vent.

Always been a scoreland fan

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I've learned that there is truly something for everyone on the internet and that if you have a desire or interest and are willing to search long enough, you will probably find it.

True. Going down the rabbit hole. Is it safe or do you dare to find out what may turn you on

 

[Nudenative]

Has Online Porn Changed Your Sex Life?

- I enjoy watching porn a lot, and I am lucky my significant other enjoys it just as much. I have used it as a marital aide in the past, and my girlfriend and I watch it to spice our love life more. It is quite a turn on in having, for instance, episodes of Chica Boom playing on the flat screen of the living room or my large desktop while she is on top riding me. It has a place in kink and sensuality, I think it is the personality of the person who may watch too much and desensitizing themselves.

 

[Trimjob69]

Jerking off at home can be more enjoyable than at a porn theater

 

[BareBackRider2]

My wife and I have only watched "erotica" together a couple of times.

But the first was a nice soft core scifi flick and we watched it on the projector.

The other memorable occasion was when we went to a hotel for our anniversary. We paid for the adult channel which again was soft core.

It wasn't what happened at night that peaked my interest but the fact that my wife woke the next morning and watched more. Apparently because "well we did have to pay for 24 hours access. I wanted to see if we still had it"

Ok then

 

[fma20fma]

hi

My ex bf has shown me vid slips of sodomy and motivated me to try.Some caning vid clips too.After getting me tipsy on gin, he has always done one or both to me manytimes,not bad at all.

 

[jodylee]

It has helped ours. We both tease each other about what's going on in the movie, and sometimes we incorporate dirty talk and fantasies fueled by what we're watching. He travels a bit now for work, so if I'm feeling horny or naughty, I'll email him a link, with a comment like "God, exquisite nips on the brunette". I also have a flickr stacker app, and I favorite pictures that I like, and show him ones I've added every so often. He likes to watch me touch myself and masturbate while I am watching a video or looking at pictures too.

 

[DarkPleasures]

How has online porn changed your sex life?

It hasn't.

 

[someguy992]

The availability and variety in some ways makes it an ever growing addiction.