How far would you take it.

[Guest]

 

[Cheyenne]

Hey, Indy. Have you been reading my email again?

 

[Ambrosious]

You left out some important details...

Does she swallow?

 

[Dr. B Evil]

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[KillerMuffin]

If it weren't for the niggling fact of the StudMuffin, sure, I would jump in the sack with a married man, but he'd better not expect me to hide it from his wife. Some women don't like to share. If she doesn't want to share, then I'm not the chick to do the dirty with, because she will find out.

Right now, I just jump in the sack with my fingers. The stud is there, but it's not like he's actually paying any attention.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

hey Indy darling ....

well for myself ... i would "romp" with him as in a 3-some with my b/f ... with the men not touching btw ..

or as a 4-some with both couples ...

that is the only way i would consider it ...

 

[niceguy145]

Even if only the two of you know it happened, the friendship is going to change. You might find you like it, like it a lot, what then? Oh, the webs we weave..........

 

[Guest]

Interesting Isabella

 

[Countess DeWinter]

1. Is he being married a "NO WAY, EVER, EVER, EVER deal."
If 1 was a yes skip the rest.
I'd like to say yes it is, but I know a married man whom I have THOSE kinds of thoughts for...so I have to confess it wouldn't matter in this instance.

2. Does the situation make a difference. If there was absolutely no way that anybody would ever ever find out does THAT make a difference.
3. If you KNEW it was just a friendly romp with no adverse feelings for either of you, no mess up the friendship thing would THAT make the difference?
4. If there was no way anyone would find out AND no mess up of the friendship would THAT make the difference?
All thses would just serve to make it easier for me to do it without guilt, because there is the little snag of ME being married too.

5. What would it take for you to jump in the hay with a married man?
Simple...the right man.

Now....Indy dear ...when will you be here? *kiss*

 

[brazenblaze]

Seems like someone snuck a look at my past life..hehe.

Exact same situation happened to me 7 years ago. Chose it take the risk and go for it. Hell, we were far away from home and family and no one would ever know. We both agreed that it was just physical, that it wouldn't change anything and when we returned to the states it would be over. Perfect, right?

9 months later he was divorced, 2 months after that we were married, 11 months later we had a daughter, and now 7 years later we are still going strong.

Yes, I'd have to say it does change things. LMAO.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

If you KNEW it was just a friendly romp with no adverse feelings for either of you, no mess up the friendship thing would THAT make the difference?

ahhhh ok ... if i was single ...

well my opinion is that for a woman there is no such thing as a "friendly one-on-one romp" with no feelings being involved ... (even though i think it is easier for a man to do)

cause i feel that even though a one-time fling might be ok ... geez if I were to sleep with the guy more than one time ... or i was to continue to correspond with him in any way ...

.... well i could easily fall for him ... and he would be married? oh man ... yikes ...

sooooo i have to say ..... that in order for me to jump in the hay with a married man it would take .... hmmmm being deserted with him on a desert island ... with no chance of rescue ...

.... or ummmm maybe if i was really, really, really horny ... lol

 

[Patryn]

Hard to say, personally. There's been times when it's been the right thing to do and no one got hurt, and there's times when it didn't work out so great for me. So I would say, yes, the situation makes all the difference. At least for me. I'd like to say, no, don't do it, that would be wrong, but everything in the world isn't black and white, yes and no.

 

[willywanker]

I'm working on my third marriage, the first two broke up when my ex's slept with someone else and couldn't handle the guilt. I always said that sleeping with someone else was a line I would never cross, but lately,,,,,, well, lets just leave it at never say never.

 

[Ree]

Obviously the answer to question 1 is No since I have decided to continue this test.....

As long as it is understood from the beginning that there are NO strings attached: no one is leaving their spouse, no one is telling their spouse, no I love you's, no complications. I went for it. We have discussed including our spouses. Actually spouses have suggested it when we have all been out together. (I will write a story about the whole saga if that occurs! ) I have another friend that I would like to have sex with and would do it with him too as long as the ground rules were understood before hand. I suppose that does make me a slut but we already knew that from the Slut Test thread.

 

[Thumper]

Me...,mememememem...me!

sooooo i have to say ..... that in order for me to jump in the hay with a married man it would take .... hmmmm being deserted with him on a desert island ... with no chance of rescue ...

.... or ummmm maybe if i was really, really, really horny ... lol

Then I guess that would be 24/7 you vixen! LOL

Turn it around...I have been there done that...

I have fixed a couple of marriages...fixed meaning they eventually worked things out among themselves and for the better...leaving me....well Que sera sera..

 

[BlondGirl]

My response would be the Never ever ever. I don't do the quickie-one shot deal anymore. {Working in healthcare really changes things--Clymidia (sp???) is not the worst thing--imagine sharing scabies--aaaaaaaaakkkkkkk!!!!!!! Makes my wrists itch to think about it!--if you have never experienced it--generally, by the time it is diagnosed, you have shared it with everybody!!!!!}

Once upon a time I did not see any wrong (at 16) --now, I see it as completely inexcusable.
And besides, there are way too many single guys for me to even want to fuck one with a big "sold" marker on him.

 

[Thumper]

A cream puff..seldom driven!

I am not sold!

I may be used...

But I am good for a test drive or two..all the thrills, no payments.

 

[Bs]

Its not the years but the milage..........

Indy, I'm confused are you M or F?? It doesn't say in your profile but for some reason I got the idea you were a guy?!...

that does'nt mean that you can't want a married guy....

I'm a flirt big time.... and since I did my time in California.... knowing the difference can really be a big help..... I don't like to lead anybody on.(period!) Male or Female....

And for some reason guys really come on to me..... I attract them like flies to shit.... my wife says that its because i dont wear a wedding ring.... and damn I hate to let anyone down..... but I'm married with children....

AnyWho.... before marrige I had a rule I would only sleep with married ladies.... I knew what they wanted.. and how to push the right bottons... So,, again back to my story, The last married gal I was with, insisted it was alright with her spouse... I found out from HIM that she had broke my rule... NEVER KISS AND TELL!! He thought it was great, I would have sex with her...his only problem with our having sex was he wanted to be there everytime... Not to join in just watch.... well we did one time, with hubby watching,,, that was the last time and since then I have only slept with my wife.....

So I can say this about that....GROUND RULES, GROUND RULES, GROUND RULES!!! Talk about it before not after, or you find out that your not on the same page and then you have insect sex and oh what a tangled web you will weave....

all this is .....

 

[Guest]

Interesting diversity

 

[Cheyenne]

Hey,Blue. I'm moving this one up to the first page becasue it died too soon and I'm still interested in seeing what people answer! Yes, it is important to be on page 1!

 

[fgarvb1]

I plead the fifth and if she likes blended whiskey so much the better.!

At the right time or place anyone may do anything, married or not.

The hard part is getting her in the right place at the right time.!

People make up and then break their own rules about this sort of thing and than think it's allright because they did it.