How does it feel for a woman to use a strapon on a man?

[Erochic]

There seems to be a number of threads from the guys point of view, but not a lot of information about how it feels for the woman wearing the strap on.

I am curious about trying it. It's not really my lovers fetish, but he is open to trying it if that's what I want.
He likes anal play with me, and I used to be pretty squeamish but I've tried anal play with him - and have used my finger while playing with him or sucking him.
He liked that and said it felt really good, but he doesn't like the finger very much without the dick stimulation as well.

I guess for me it's like wondering what it's like to be a man for a day and to know what it's like to be the one doing the fucking. I also do have a fairly strong dominant streak so that's probably part of it too, although I don't have any desire to hurt or humiliate my partner.

I'm wondering if it would be arousing to use a strapon on someone, whether I am likely to get any pleasure out of it.

I guess it's an unknown as to how arousing I would actually find it until I do it, but I'm wondering if there would be any stimulation from the pressure of the strap on from my end.... does it feel good against your clit or pelvic bone perhaps?

I saw things about feeldoes - but I gather they are really for lesbian sex and for anal sex you really need a harness.

Also I haven't bought one yet - any suggestions or things to avoid?

 

[Erochic]

I really do want to know about this.

I hope someone can give me some insight. Maybe another woman herself, or a you guys can share what your wives/partners have said about it.

To be honest, if it was my partners fantasy I would do it and not worry to much about whether it felt good for me, but this is my curiosity so I'd like it to be worth it.

 

[FunKinkguy]

I have had several ladies use strapons on me. My first time I had one used on me was when I had an girlfriend I was dating several years ago use one on me after I asked her to. She enjoyed the feeling of power and that it turned me on. We got a feeldoe and she would cum from using it on me.

My current girlfriend uses either a feeldoe with a harness or a regular type strapon. Either way she will cum because it turns her on so much. Like the other girlfriend she likes the feeling of power and that it turns me on. Many times she will cum right as she enters me because she loves how the dildo stretches me out.

 

[mrtomthumb]

I have had a recent situation with my wife that may be of interest to you. Although she does not use a strapon on me we both enjoy anal play as a regular part of our sex life. so with me laying flat face down on the bed (naked)...she will rub baby oil all over my ass and her pussy and then mount me and begin to grind herself into me from behind...as if she was fucking me. I will whisper telling her 'what a good assfucker she is...in like 2 minutes she will have an orgasm. every time we do it this way she cums hard and quickly. I think it is a combination of the mental and physical for her. I have tried to ask her what about the whole thing works for her so well but she is not much for talking about things.

i like that she has such a nice orgasm from it.

I have never really seen much about this and wonder if other women would evperience pleasure this way.

hope this helps. on a sidenote if you think you might enjoy doing your man with a strapon and he is good with it ..give it a try

 

[Belle_Nuit]

This was something I had fantasised about quite a bit, but reality didn't measure up. I found I didn't know how to use the thing! I was clumsy with it the first few tries. It was appealing psychologically, but that grew old quick as its a lot of work (and you don't feel much of anything!). It would work better if you could somehow incorporate a vibrator in for yourself.

 

[RawHumor]

This was something I had fantasised about quite a bit, but reality didn't measure up. I found I didn't know how to use the thing! I was clumsy with it the first few tries. It was appealing psychologically, but that grew old quick as its a lot of work (and you don't feel much of anything!). It would work better if you could somehow incorporate a vibrator in for yourself.

Of a feeldoe.

 

[Erochic]

Thank you so much for your answers.

That was some great insight, thank you so much.

I haven't bought a strap on yet. I'm still thinking about it all.

 

[Curiouscouple8]

Thank you so much for your answers.

That was some great insight, thank you so much.

I haven't bought a strap on yet. I'm still thinking about it all.

Might want to start with a smaller insert.

 

[yorker85]

The one woman that does it for me gets a huge psychological thrill from taking me. She is also the kind of woman that can have orgasms by squeezing her legs tightly so she cums as well. She enjoys the role reversal and knowing she is giving me pleasure.

 

[AutumnMiyuki]

Depends on the kind you wear.

 

[irishblade]

This was something I had fantasised about quite a bit, but reality didn't measure up. I found I didn't know how to use the thing! I was clumsy with it the first few tries. It was appealing psychologically, but that grew old quick as its a lot of work (and you don't feel much of anything!). It would work better if you could somehow incorporate a vibrator in for yourself.

That's the best part of learning! Its all awkward haha. Awesome experiences, I hope erochic is gleaning some amazing insight.

 

[naomirubybaby]

I love to do it. Hold him down and fuck him hard!

 

[irishblade]

I love to do it. Hold him down and fuck him hard!

That's what I'm talking about!

 

[vegasflasher]

I used to be fucked by

I think it's a nice turn on and felt pretty good to when the ex used to fuck me with one of her many toys. Why should the ladies have all the fun. Right guys??

 

[Capt_Morgan]

Maybe try a dildo for two and a harness to hold it in place.

Dildos
(Share, Feeldoe, Nexus)

Harness
a) Spare Parts Harness
or sexier
b) Velvet Nest

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I love to do it. Hold him down and fuck him hard!

That sounds amazing!

 

[ObviouslyDaddy7]

Receiving

I guess I can't be the pot calling the kettle black so if my wife wanted to fuck my ass I would have to accept. As I fuck my wife in the ass she should then be able to do that same to my virgin ass. Plus the anal "g spot" is supposed to give a man a GREAT orgasm.

It is a dominant and submissive position most men would find odd. I would appreciate smaller at first with lots of lube. If you roleplay with hubby then hopefully he can take a receiving role.

I have had several female lovers in the past obsessed with penises and dildos so i know they(woman) would love to slam in deep. The position of being in control like that is truly amazing even if there is less physical stimulation the mental stimulation of dominance can make a woman cum quickly.

In my opinion: Any man who has a sexual wife wanting to fuck his ass should welcome that. It only means you two have a very close bond and open ability to satisfy each other's fantasies and sexual needs.

how to bring up this topic..... that is a different subject all together.

 

[nowisthetime]

Where do you find these guys that want to do this? No guy I dated wanted anything rammed up his ass.

 

[Seductive_Wolftress]

I have recently fucked my partner with a vibe not a strap on. That would have given me more control with strap. I have to say it was the first time Ive used one on a man and it was quite erotic! I got behind him and made sure to use enough lube. This particular vibe I call Tyrone. It REALLY turned him on! The more he moaned and said " I love the way you fuck me"! The more aroused I became. I layed behind him with my knee working the vibe so I could breath on his neck and nibble it and his ear. I can still hear him "Oh you bitch, fuck ya, Oh yeah!"

 

[Seductive_Wolftress]

More out there than I ever knew. The men I had been with said that was a exit zone only lol

 

[albertaboy]

This was something I had fantasised about quite a bit, but reality didn't measure up. I found I didn't know how to use the thing! I was clumsy with it the first few tries. It was appealing psychologically, but that grew old quick as its a lot of work (and you don't feel much of anything!). It would work better if you could somehow incorporate a vibrator in for yourself.

My wife was a bit surprised how much work being the fucker rather than the fuckee was.

We did it a number of times, although not recently. She enjoyed it, I suspect because I did.

 

[gman2691]

My wife & I have always had awesome sex. Watched a video one night with a couple using a strap on. It really turned her on so I did a lot of research on the subject. 1st few times was so- so for me but she loved it. So we mixed it in found the best gear & now I enjoy it a lot. She has climaxed doing me more than once & that's a big turn on for me. Highly recommend it done right very intense orgasms. We have always been close but this has brought us even closer.

 

[BBJangler]

Love to try it

I have fantasized about it. My GF has used a vibrator on me and I loved it. I would really like to try taking it from a strap on.

 

[MumSisterTgirlLover]

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[Trimjob69]

This guy loved it and I think the woman enjoyed it too.