How do you women like hair on your men

[DrRamulak]

I'm a pretty hairy guy. I don't think I've ever had a shaven chick (except a minor amount around the bikini area). It doesn't really matter to me if a woman shaves, though I might enjoy it.

But my lady doesn't like getting hair in her mouth. I can understand - when it gets back on your tongue, it's gagworthy. What's a decent guy to do? I'm hairy all over. I've tried shaving - asshole, to be clean - balls, to keep my lady's mouth pristine. Even my cock has hair on it and I have shaved it off the shaft. I trim the pubes. I haven't told her I do this, and she hasn't complained or commented, either. Though our sex life is currently limited for reasons beyond our control, it's also been hotter than it used to be.

What do women think about this. Is it gross? Should I stop? Should I keep doing it for her?

My only points of reference on this are probably Howard Stern talking about shaving his ass for hygiene, and also saying Brad Pitt must be gay if he shaves his balls or something. I'm not a dumb guy by a thousand yards, and it feels weird to have no real information on this. Also I'm not gay or even curious and I do enjoy the feeling of my balls shaved (just more sensitive - I am also circumcised). I have noticed that in some amateur sex vids online the guys are shaving some like me, but again, I was never one to learn my sex info from the schoolyard. It's just now I have no choice.

 

[Ashleey]

I'm a pretty hairy guy. I don't think I've ever had a shaven chick (except a minor amount around the bikini area). It doesn't really matter to me if a woman shaves, though I might enjoy it.

But my lady doesn't like getting hair in her mouth. I can understand - when it gets back on your tongue, it's gagworthy. What's a decent guy to do? I'm hairy all over. I've tried shaving - asshole, to be clean - balls, to keep my lady's mouth pristine. Even my cock has hair on it and I have shaved it off the shaft. I trim the pubes. I haven't told her I do this, and she hasn't complained or commented, either. Though our sex life is currently limited for reasons beyond our control, it's also been hotter than it used to be.

What do women think about this. Is it gross? Should I stop? Should I keep doing it for her?

My only points of reference on this are probably Howard Stern talking about shaving his ass for hygiene, and also saying Brad Pitt must be gay if he shaves his balls or something. I'm not a dumb guy by a thousand yards, and it feels weird to have no real information on this. Also I'm not gay or even curious and I do enjoy the feeling of my balls shaved (just more sensitive - I am also circumcised). I have noticed that in some amateur sex vids online the guys are shaving some like me, but again, I was never one to learn my sex info from the schoolyard. It's just now I have no choice.

I say keep doing exactly what you're doing....trimming and shaving....I love chest and belly hair.....but when it comes to going down on a guy, I love it when he's relatively hair free or at least trimmed....much more pleasant to suck and lick if you're not fighting your way through the forest.

 

[Eilan]

Shaving your balls doesn't make you bi-curious/gay. Being sexually attracted to other men does.

Everybody has preferences. My preference is trimmed, but I'm okay with whatever my hubby decides to do, because I'm completely into him, hair or no hair.

It's just hair, and hair's not a deal-breaker for me, which is why someone who had a major problem with MY pubic hair (or lack thereof, since I'm shaved at the moment) wouldn't be worth my time. Assuming, of course, that I happened to be looking for another partner, which I'm not.

 

[DrRamulak]

funny you mention that...

I say keep doing exactly what you're doing....trimming and shaving....I love chest and belly hair.....but when it comes to going down on a guy, I love it when he's relatively hair free or at least trimmed....much more pleasant to suck and lick if you're not fighting your way through the forest.

funny you mention that. she just noticed my chest seems to have gotten hairier.

 

[DrRamulak]

hmm

Shaving your balls doesn't make you bi-curious/gay. Being sexually attracted to other men does.

Everybody has preferences. My preference is trimmed, but I'm okay with whatever my hubby decides to do, because I'm completely into him, hair or no hair.

It's just hair, and hair's not a deal-breaker for me, which is why someone who had a major problem with MY pubic hair (or lack thereof, since I'm shaved at the moment) wouldn't be worth my time. Assuming, of course, that I happened to be looking for another partner, which I'm not.

yeah, i know what you mean. i'm not looking, either, and i know i'm straight. but this is the only thing that's made me feel, you know, not 'normal' somehow. maybe its because she's relatively conservative, sort of, and, outside of me, sexually inexperienced.