How do you tell another man you want to suck his dick????

[winodot1]

Just wondering. I'm a bi male and not really attracted to men. But I like sucking dick and anal. I guess I'm more of a bottom guy. I like to fuck too. But I prefer to fuck women, a guys ass isn't what does it for me.

 

[winodot1]

I'll be sure to try thatnext time!! Thanks for the support! Should I use an english accent??

 

[downforce]

I confessed to a friend of mine that I thought I might be into guys, and asked if I could give him a blowjob to be sure. He was gay, btw. He said yes, and bingo bango

 

[pcarp]

I can understand your frustration and I have wondered the same thing myself. I was fortunate that an ex-girlfriend introduced me to sucking cock when we had several threesomes with an ex-boyfriend of hers. He never reciprocated but loved to have his cock sucked (something his wife refused to do for him) and she loved to watch him cum on my face. She would lick up what hadn't gone in my mouth and kiss me. After my ex moved away, I found I missed the occasional dick. I sent him a "hi what's up?" email to see if he would even answer. From there we got onto yahoo chat and one day, in the middle of the conversation, he typed "so are you going to ask" and I replied "ask what"? He replied "are you going to ask to suck my cock"? I told him that wasn't but since he mentioned it, I might be willing. He told me that wasn't good enough and that I would need to ask. I replied "so you want me to 'ask' to suck your dick" and he said yes. I said " well ok, would you like to stop by and let me suck your dick"? He told me that he would but only if I swallowed his cum. He said that it was fun to cum on my face so Fran could see but since she wasn't around he wanted someone that would suck all of the cum from his dick and swallow. I agreed and that was over two years ago. It started out as once every month or so, then once or twice a month. Now he stops by almost every Monday. He sent me a text earlier asking if I had plans for tomorrow. I said that I didn't but imagined that he did. He said that he thought that I needed to plan to suck his dick. I told him that I was mistaken and he was right, I did have those plans. He told me to plan to swallow a big load of cum too.
One time he called and told me that during an intoxicated moment, he had let it slip to a cousin and wife about our activities. He brought them with him and while she watched (mostly clothed damn it) I sucked Bart and his cousin (i hope they visit again soon) . Other than a one time thing with my ex I have never sucked another cock other than Bart (and now his cousin). They are the only ones to ever cum in my mouth also. So, for years I have had a steady cock to suck and cum to swallow but someday I may be in your position and I dread the thought.

 

[Wade1986]

How about looking the part?

Women who are sexy can show it very easily - low cut or tight tops, short skirts, tight shorts, thin or no bra to show a little nipple . . . you get the idea.

What about guys? There really is no way to 'dress sexy' like a woman. It's not easy to show a bit of a bulge without being way to obvious.

I always try to wear nice, well fitting clothes. I have a couple pair of slacks that are a bit snug (my wife says they show off my butt nice) but other than that, how can a guy send the message - especially to other guys - that says 'hey, I'm feeling sexy and if you notice, I'll be friendly'.

Such a dilemma!

 

[pcarp]

I wouldn't count on how anyone dresses to be an indicator. Woman dress nicely to impress and also "to attract a man" and guys dress nicely to "attract the women" more often than the reverse. While guys might find you attractive dressed in those snug well fitting clothes, that ring and the woman attached to it will speak for themselves. Now that doesn't necessarily mean you are not interested, but I bet it limits the number of guys that will just walk up and hit on you, especially bi guys that aren't "out" to the world. I would be ostracized by my co-workers if they even suspected that I like to suck dick as much as I like to eat pussy. Like I said in my previous post, I am very lucky to have had a g/f that managed (albeit no intentionally) to set me up with someone who is more than willing to satisfy my craving. The day he changes his mind, I do not see a viable solution to find a replacement other than the meetup websites and I'm not sure that they are truly a 100% safe and long term solution.

 

[alltherage]

carefully one supposes.

 

[photobuff56]

Just wondering. I'm a bi male and not really attracted to men. But I like sucking dick and anal. I guess I'm more of a bottom guy. I like to fuck too. But I prefer to fuck women, a guys ass isn't what does it for me.

im close to you can you open your Pm and we can talk or Email.

 

[dreamingofblowing]

I suppose, if I knew he was openly gay and was a friend (like a few guys I've known), and if this were my very first time, I would wait to get him alone to speak to him privately and then perhaps say something like this.

"Would you mind if I spoke to you about something that has been on my mind as of late? (assume he agrees). Despite being extremely nervous, I'm not going to waste time or beat around the bush (assume he responds in the positive). Recently I have come to acknowledge a growing feeling or desire within me to explore other areas of my sexuality. I am a bit confused, but very curious about my arousal to things of a homo-erotic nature."

"I have thought about it and have come to the conclusion that I would very much like to experience a certain type of close, physical intimacy with a man. Since we are friends and I have come to trust you, I was wondering if you would let me experience it with you."

If he agrees, then simply begin and take it from there - blowing him should not be an issue.

 

[tonycurinmass]

I suppose, if I knew he was openly gay and was a friend (like a few guys I've known), and if this were my very first time, I would wait to get him alone to speak to him privately and then perhaps say something like this.

"Would you mind if I spoke to you about something that has been on my mind as of late? (assume he agrees). Despite being extremely nervous, I'm not going to waste time or beat around the bush (assume he responds in the positive). Recently I have come to acknowledge a growing feeling or desire within me to explore other areas of my sexuality. I am a bit confused, but very curious about my arousal to things of a homo-erotic nature."

"I have thought about it and have come to the conclusion that I would very much like to experience a certain type of close, physical intimacy with a man. Since we are friends and I have come to trust you, I was wondering if you would let me experience it with you."

If he agrees, then simply begin and take it from there - blowing him should not be an issue.

Man I wish I had a gay friend that I could say that to.

 

[bluesky496]

Just wondering. I'm a bi male and not really attracted to men. But I like sucking dick and anal. I guess I'm more of a bottom guy. I like to fuck too. But I prefer to fuck women, a guys ass isn't what does it for me.

i usually just come out and say it ,something like ,mmm, nice cock ,i would love to suck it for you,sometimes i get lucky and they accept my offer.

 

[littlegrizz02]

I suppose, if I knew he was openly gay and was a friend (like a few guys I've known), and if this were my very first time, I would wait to get him alone to speak to him privately and then perhaps say something like this.

"Would you mind if I spoke to you about something that has been on my mind as of late? (assume he agrees). Despite being extremely nervous, I'm not going to waste time or beat around the bush (assume he responds in the positive). Recently I have come to acknowledge a growing feeling or desire within me to explore other areas of my sexuality. I am a bit confused, but very curious about my arousal to things of a homo-erotic nature."

"I have thought about it and have come to the conclusion that I would very much like to experience a certain type of close, physical intimacy with a man. Since we are friends and I have come to trust you, I was wondering if you would let me experience it with you."

If he agrees, then simply begin and take it from there - blowing him should not be an issue.

If I had a gay friend I'd so freaking tell him that. Great idea

 

[DRS_EROS]

If I had a gay friend I'd so freaking tell him that. Great idea

HHmmm, ok, and what do you do after he punches you out, tell him it was all a big joke ???