How do you live with your fetish

[Goldenfinger]

How is your fetish intertwined in your life?

Is it a secret?

Who knows?

Are you scared to be found out?

Is the possibility of being found out a source of excitement for you?

Have you been found out and what was the outcome?

 

[Goldenfinger]

How is your fetish intertwined in your life?

Is it a secret?

Who knows?

Are you scared to be found out?

Is the possibility of being found out a source of excitement for you?

Have you been found out and what was the outcome?

I’m in a FLR. We have explored many fetishes. Pegging, sounding, strap on sucking, cum eating, electric shock, cock cage, humiliation to name some.

If you spend any time around us you would know that she’s in charge. As to our sexual exploits, I’d say a fair number of people know. She likes to take video clips and has shown a few people and of course they tell others.

I’m not scared to found out. Why should I give a fuck what someone else thinks.

I do wonder who knows. Sometimes I catch some of her friends looking at me. It could all be in my head, but it excites me.

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[Easyvirtue]

I crossdress. Had a few women in the past and one man who I shared it with. My wife am I had a time where she allowed it and it was a wonderful time. She’s since fell out of the practice of playing with me and hates it. I do it alone now but it’s fine, I can be as slutty and taboo as I want.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I crossdress. Had a few women in the past and one man who I shared it with. My wife am I had a time where she allowed it and it was a wonderful time. She’s since fell out of the practice of playing with me and hates it. I do it alone now but it’s fine, I can be as slutty and taboo as I want.

It’s too bad she’s not more supportive. You to could have lots of fun.

 

[NakedMike2]

Several years ago I discovered how much I enjoyed wearing panties. After that discovery I had a work assignment that sent me away from home for about 2 months and I wore panties exclusively and enjoyed it immensely. Alas, the assignment ended and I went back home. Since I knew my wife was not going to be into it at all (I never let on when I fist discovered my fetish for wearing panties knowing it wouldn't go over well) I realized that it would be the end of my panty wearing.

Well, I recently started thinking about life and such and said, fuck it. I'm going to wear panties again. That happened just last week. I ordered my panties from Amazon and keep them in a secret drawer. I decided to start out slow and got a pack of cotton bikinis and one lacy silk bikini with a bow in front - very feminine.

I am somewhat strategic on how to go about getting them and putting them on (and also getting them to the wash), luckily our work schedules help since I get dressed at a time when she is still sleeping. I expect I'll eventually get caught but I'm somewhat fatalistic about it, but I'm at the point where it won't matter.

I also plan on spending a lot more time naked around the house (not really a fetish) once it warms up, and that's something that I won't be trying to hide

 

[Jcam1980s]

I have several and pregnant women are one. Never had kids and met my wife when her daughter was young so never had a relationship where pregnant sex was part. So i have to make do with porn! Huge turn on for me though I'd have loved to experienced it

 

[PaxNurgle]

I think if you are in a relationship with a partner who is supportive and indulges your fetishes, it is a wonderful thing and it is somewhat easier to be open about it. You may not necessarily want your friends and neighbors to know all the intimate details about your sexual activities or fetishes, but at least you can explore them with another person.

When you are not in a relationship, then you will likely feel compelled to keep things in the closet. Or even, try to train your mind to let go of kinky thoughts, and banish them from your mind, lest it interfere with your ability to find a partner that you can relate to in an intimate way. It's like, For example: If you are single and trying to enter the dating game, you obviously don't WANT your partner to find out you are into strap- on play, spanking, or cross-dressing; nine times out of ten you will simply freak her out, and your relationship will be over before it even started.

 

[WordsAreErotic]

For the most part, my fetishes and kinks are secret. While I wish I could talk about them with my wife, I also admit that the “dirty secret” is part of the turn on for me. It’s so hot when you find someone who shares the secret and new experiences begin.

 

[KinoKe]

As I recently read somewhere, one person’s fetish is another person’s peanut butter sandwich.

I still remember a day, many years ago, when a friend told me that his strait-laced pillar-of-society wife was ‘a huge fan of non-violent porn videos’. A few months later, the chap also admitted to me that he sometimes enjoyed ‘a duvet day’ with another apparently strait-laced (married) businesswomen who was heavily into anal.

In my experience, there’s someone out there for pretty much every kink. It’s just a matter of finding the one who wants to share.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I think if you are in a relationship with a partner who is supportive and indulges your fetishes, it is a wonderful thing and it is somewhat easier to be open about it. You may not necessarily want your friends and neighbors to know all the intimate details about your sexual activities or fetishes, but at least you can explore them with another person.

When you are not in a relationship, then you will likely feel compelled to keep things in the closet. Or even, try to train your mind to let go of kinky thoughts, and banish them from your mind, lest it interfere with your ability to find a partner that you can relate to in an intimate way. It's like, For example: If you are single and trying to enter the dating game, you obviously don't WANT your partner to find out you are into strap- on play, spanking, or cross-dressing; nine times out of ten you will simply freak her out, and your relationship will be over before it even started.

Yes, but something need to be said early on to find out where she stand on certain sexual activity. If not then you settle for what you have, not what you want. I have found that quite a few women either enjoy or would be interested in trying kink.

 

[SissySalina]

Am a Cross Dresser, have been for many moons. She allowed this cross dresser to dress when ever it was desired. Several years ago decided to retire and asked Her if could full time dress as female. She offered a counter proposal, allow it if became Her sissy and it was agreed to. So live with fetish as a cross dresser by being Her sissy, since New Years Day 2000.
It is a wonderful life.

 

[Dotarsojat1696]

I have a very difficult time being bi and closeted, my wife is not crazy about the fact and I seldom get the chance to play. I will continue to be closeted, It's just not acceptable in my world. I would love to find someone IRL to talk to about my particular kinks and I figure sooner or later I will.

 

[Bighammerfucker]

I enjoy it in the small ways I can and try not to think too hard on it.

 

[devilish_desires_couple]

One of my fetishes is showing off my wife. That's going pretty well.

 

[ChefMario77]

My wife is so vanilla it's not even funny.

She thinks wanting sex more than 1x per month makes anpercert and a sex addict. So I have never shared even my light fetishes.

Fortunately, my "daughter" understands and helps Daddy out from time to time... Although even that is not enough.

 

[Crownvic]

Daughters do help a lot..when daddy’s are in need...

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

yeah, I been meaning to pick up one those 'thang's' but every time I'm out the door the ONLY thing I can think about is sex.

 

[Crownvic]

One of my fetishes is showing off my wife. That's going pretty well.

Loved those uniformed honeys...had a fetish..for catholic girls when I was a teen...some great memories....

 

[interestingwoman]

Living with my fetish........I'm here, aren't I!!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Living with my fetish........I'm here, aren't I!!

Love this response.

 

[Crownvic]

Living with my fetish........I'm here, aren't I!!

I love my fetishes...always have...

 

[newhere2learn]

How is your fetish intertwined in your life?

Is it a secret?

Who knows?

Are you scared to be found out?

Is the possibility of being found out a source of excitement for you?

Have you been found out and what was the outcome?

Fetish/life; no link, none.

Secret; yes kinky stuff is, yes. Couple of FWB have had an idea that I'm not totally vanilla

Found out; when married, yes. As the consequences were severe. She became celibate quickly, so to find out that I road her dildos on Skype for dominant women while cumming into her lingerie... Could've been interesting.

Now single, as long as it doesn't affect work or family - I don't care.

Found out; yes twice. On/off GF opened a drawer, found butt plug, rope, lube. Assumed it was for use with her... Blushed. No idea it was all well used.

Also, while single my retired parents decided to be helpful and help me move house. While I was at work. A discrete collection of cage, panties, dildo etc was in a box in my wardrobe. I know they saw it, as the box was moved. Never said a word. Especially not about the monster 12" suction cup dildo.

Ex wife also suspected that I was submissive in the bedroom, as she was always in charge, I only ever got to be dominant about 6x in 10 years.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

One of my fetishes is showing off my wife. That's going pretty well.

Your wife is very sexy. Thank you for sharing

 

[Nudeslave83]

I have to say mostly unhappily seeing as I can't find anyone who shares my fetishes who lives nearby. That combined with the fact that I don't feel at peace with my own gender and sexuality has led to 37 years of sexual torment in hell without relief or peace of mind. I have written books about my interests but I have never gotten to experience them first hand and I probably never will. Sometimes they are all-consuming to the point where I can barely think or concentrate on anything else and I feel so large degree they have ruined my life.

 

[devilish_desires_couple]

Your wife is very sexy. Thank you for sharing

Thanks so much!