How do you like to give/receive blowjobs?

[berk12345]

My wife and I have started watching porn together the last few months. It is more a bonding experience that leads to sex than a get us all hot and bothered. Usually we laugh all the way through. She makes the funniest faces during the anal scenes...that is so not her thing. We also don't get the way blowjobs are given in porn. First, the girls always spit all over the cock to "get it wet." is that really necessary? I find it gross and my wife's mouth is always plenty wet. The other part is how the girls seem to always just go up and down fat or the guy pounds her face with his cock. Does that feel good to people? I've only gotten blown by two people...an ex and wife. Ex did the up and down and it was horrible. She was never able to get me off that way. Wife is a completely different story. The way she works my cock you know that she is making love to it. She takes her time. Works slowly up, down, around, everything. It is so good that she could get me off in a minute if she wanted to. Do you guys/gals like to give or get blowjobs like they give in pornos or are you more like my wife and I? Though to a certain extent...as long as there is a mouth on my cock, I don't care what she does. Wait. Flashed back to my ex. I do care what she does because ex was that bad at it.

 

[amofiga]

My wife and I have started watching porn together the last few months. It is more a bonding experience that leads to sex than a get us all hot and bothered. Usually we laugh all the way through. She makes the funniest faces during the anal scenes...that is so not her thing. We also don't get the way blowjobs are given in porn. First, the girls always spit all over the cock to "get it wet." is that really necessary? I find it gross and my wife's mouth is always plenty wet. The other part is how the girls seem to always just go up and down fat or the guy pounds her face with his cock. Does that feel good to people? I've only gotten blown by two people...an ex and wife. Ex did the up and down and it was horrible. She was never able to get me off that way. Wife is a completely different story. The way she works my cock you know that she is making love to it. She takes her time. Works slowly up, down, around, everything. It is so good that she could get me off in a minute if she wanted to. Do you guys/gals like to give or get blowjobs like they give in pornos or are you more like my wife and I? Though to a certain extent...as long as there is a mouth on my cock, I don't care what she does. Wait. Flashed back to my ex. I do care what she does because ex was that bad at it.

I personally happen to like the "up and down" mouth fucking approach and this is most effective in getting me off. I also like slow licking of the underside of my cock or having my cock in her mouth while she swirls her tongue around the sensitive spot under the head.

I like sitting in a chair with her on her knees so I can watch the action and prefer cumming in the mouth with her swallowing, although there are times I love to shoot it on her face or into her open mouth. Special is shooting it into her mouth and before swallowing, giving her long deep tongue kisses to taste my juice before she makes eye contact while swallowing. Sometimes I like to cum on her closed mouth, have her open her cum-covered lips and I lick it into her mouth.

Also important, is that she love getting her pussy eaten just as much as I love being sucked and has no inhibition about squatting on my face and using my face as a love toy to cum. I'm also a great fan of 69, especially lying on our sides so that it's nice and relaxed and can last a long time.

 

[markuslovesit69]

My wife and I have started watching porn together the last few months. It is more a bonding experience that leads to sex than a get us all hot and bothered. Usually we laugh all the way through. She makes the funniest faces during the anal scenes...that is so not her thing. We also don't get the way blowjobs are given in porn. First, the girls always spit all over the cock to "get it wet." is that really necessary? I find it gross and my wife's mouth is always plenty wet. The other part is how the girls seem to always just go up and down fat or the guy pounds her face with his cock. Does that feel good to people? I've only gotten blown by two people...an ex and wife. Ex did the up and down and it was horrible. She was never able to get me off that way. Wife is a completely different story. The way she works my cock you know that she is making love to it. She takes her time. Works slowly up, down, around, everything. It is so good that she could get me off in a minute if she wanted to. Do you guys/gals like to give or get blowjobs like they give in pornos or are you more like my wife and I? Though to a certain extent...as long as there is a mouth on my cock, I don't care what she does. Wait. Flashed back to my ex. I do care what she does because ex was that bad at it.

great post. For me, either is great as long as the women on the other end of my cock is into it. That's the biggest turn on for me. That said, I've only been blown by one woman who really knew how to do the up/ down thing so well.

Usually when my wife sucks me off, even though we've had plenty of talks about what I like and what she likes, it's usually performed as a way to get me hard so I can fuck her, not because she wants to do it. I would like your wife to tell my wife what's up...

 

[berk12345]

great post. For me, either is great as long as the women on the other end of my cock is into it. That's the biggest turn on for me. That said, I've only been blown by one woman who really knew how to do the up/ down thing so well.

Usually when my wife sucks me off, even though we've had plenty of talks about what I like and what she likes, it's usually performed as a way to get me hard so I can fuck her, not because she wants to do it. I would like your wife to tell my wife what's up...

Well as great as my wife is, it is not a regular thing for her, maybe 1 or 2 times a month if I'm lucky. Shell just get in a mood every once in awhile (alcohol induced usually) where she wants my dick in her mouth. Lucky for me she loves to deep throat and swallow it all when she blows me...no sticky mess for her.

 

[berk12345]

I personally happen to like the "up and down" mouth fucking approach and this is most effective in getting me off. I also like slow licking of the underside of my cock or having my cock in her mouth while she swirls her tongue around the sensitive spot under the head.

I like sitting in a chair with her on her knees so I can watch the action and prefer cumming in the mouth with her swallowing, although there are times I love to shoot it on her face or into her open mouth. Special is shooting it into her mouth and before swallowing, giving her long deep tongue kisses to taste my juice before she makes eye contact while swallowing. Sometimes I like to cum on her closed mouth, have her open her cum-covered lips and I lick it into her mouth.

Also important, is that she love getting her pussy eaten just as much as I love being sucked and has no inhibition about squatting on my face and using my face as a love toy to cum. I'm also a great fan of 69, especially lying on our sides so that it's nice and relaxed and can last a long time.

It is interesting to hear that people actually like it the other way...to each his own. I agree about the woman having to be into it for it to be good. I've had a few pity blowjobs through the years and they are nothing like what a skilled cock sucker can do when they are eager to please you.

 

[MrRetro]

I agree totally, the way a woman sucks off a man in pornography is terrible...

I need a certain amount of sensuality and desire devoted to a woman who pleasures me... My preference is for me sitting in a chair or on the couch, her on her knees... I don't find the whole 'In and Out' mouth fucking routine to be highly stimulating, I prefer to experience her soft lips gently 'making love' with just the head of my cock, whilst massaging my balls and looking me in the eyes... This always has me climaxing in exceptionally heavy proportions...

I've always enjoyed a woman that swallowed, though if she doesn't desire it then neither do I... There's nothing worse than watching a woman's face as she struggles to swallow with disgust... I am more than appreciative for the orgasm, so I'll climax wherever she feels comfortable...

 

[klippert]

how would I like to receive

daily....

 

[Cookie123]

I like to take my time when I give..enjoying every inch and surrounding areas. Sometimes I think I like it as much as he does.

 

[UhlBWett]

So lovely to hear

I like to take my time when I give..enjoying every inch and surrounding areas. Sometimes I think I like it as much as he does.

I enjoy a woman who takes as much time and pride in pleasuring me orally as I do pleasuring her. I love watching a woman suck who truly enjoys every nuance that unbridled oral sex has to offer. One who isn't afraid to slobber, or ashamed to gag, or has to have the lights off to perform Getting head for a guy is as much fun for us to watch as it is to feel. And those guys who won't kiss their lover, yes even deeply, after she has given her all to pleasure him and taken all he has to give her when she does, need to grow a pair and "man up"................ I am curious since I am totally shaven (cock and balls), how many women prefer sucking a smoothie like me versus a grizzly bear?

 

[Artemis19]

I sucked my first cock when I was underage and I love it! I do prefer a man to be trimmed but I'll take it anyway I can get. It's nice to hear you boys describe it like that. I like to start slow and work my way up to taking the whole cock. I play with his balls and taint too, men love that! I'm always very wet when he comes, sucking cock is SUCH a turn on.

 

[markuslovesit69]

I sucked my first cock when I was underage and I love it! I do prefer a man to be trimmed but I'll take it anyway I can get. It's nice to hear you boys describe it like that. I like to start slow and work my way up to taking the whole cock. I play with his balls and taint too, men love that! I'm always very wet when he comes, sucking cock is SUCH a turn on.

thanks, I enjoyed hearing about your style! Very hot. I'd like to hear about your first time sucking.

 

[Edensgarden]

I think the most important thing about giving a good blowjob is that you have to really LOVE doing it. I am one of those girls that absolutely loves it. I would happily give one or more every day if I could. Just making him feel so much pleasure is a complete turn on.

I don't necessarily think I give a bj like in a porno and it doesn't sound like it's quite how your wife does it either. We all have our own ways I guess. I like starting out with my tongue slowly circling his head as I look up at him. I gradually take in more each time my tongue loops around his hardness until I have most if not all of his cock in my mouth. As I slowly come back up, thats when I give a solid flat tongue lick straight up and pay special attention to that sweet sensitive spot.

I love working with my hands too. This could possibly be the point where you may see some of the girls use saliva in their technique. I don't spit, but I'm not afraid to take a long wet lick up the palm of my hand before placing it at the base of his cock as I start slowly stroking. As I stroke, I'm still sucking and circling his head with my tongue. At that point it just depends on how he's feeling as to what my next steps may be....ball play, ass play....what ever makes him feel good. It's all about his pleasure.

 

[bootlover65]

I sucked my first cock when I was underage and I love it! I do prefer a man to be trimmed but I'll take it anyway I can get. It's nice to hear you boys describe it like that. I like to start slow and work my way up to taking the whole cock. I play with his balls and taint too, men love that! I'm always very wet when he comes, sucking cock is SUCH a turn on.

Can I sign up

 

[Porkwarrior]

I think the most important thing about giving a good blowjob is that you have to really LOVE doing it. I am one of those girls that absolutely loves it. I would happily give one or more every day if I could. Just making him feel so much pleasure is a complete turn on.

I don't necessarily think I give a bj like in a porno and it doesn't sound like it's quite how your wife does it either. We all have our own ways I guess. I like starting out with my tongue slowly circling his head as I look up at him. I gradually take in more each time my tongue loops around his hardness until I have most if not all of his cock in my mouth. As I slowly come back up, thats when I give a solid flat tongue lick straight up and pay special attention to that sweet sensitive spot.

I love working with my hands too. This could possibly be the point where you may see some of the girls use saliva in their technique. I don't spit, but I'm not afraid to take a long wet lick up the palm of my hand before placing it at the base of his cock as I start slowly stroking. As I stroke, I'm still sucking and circling his head with my tongue. At that point it just depends on how he's feeling as to what my next steps may be....ball play, ass play....what ever makes him feel good. It's all about his pleasure.

Huh, whaaaaa?
Ahem, oh yeah. A whole series of technical flaws can be overlooked as long as she is enthusiastic about it, and you praise her for it as her reward. But some women just don't like cock in their mouth, and no "technique" is ever going to compensate for the "meh" factor.
If a woman wholeheartedly, absolutely cravingly, can't wait until I push him over that edge, throws herself into a BJ, it will always be a great one.


Well that...and always cover your teeth with your lips. Please!

 

[C2W]

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the way I like to receive oral sex is the same way I like to give it...
long, slow, soft and deep.
(now if I could just make the wife see things my way as well!)

 

[help_me_Rhonda]

I also love the man in a chair.

Walking up to him, dropping to my knees, slowly unzipping his pants, then unbuckling them... Priceless anticipation. Would love to do this in an office, the man in an expensive suit, sounds of people working in the background...

 

[UhlBWett]

So seductive..............

I also love the man in a chair.

Walking up to him, dropping to my knees, slowly unzipping his pants, then unbuckling them... Priceless anticipation. Would love to do this in an office, the man in an expensive suit, sounds of people working in the background...

Let me know when you would like to stop by the office sexy girl......... Don't forget those lovely seamed stockings and heels beneath that dress, as you may also find yourself bent over my desk with your skirt up around your waist. Could you keep quiet as I kneel behind you reciprocate?

 

[suckonsimon]

the kissing after

For us her wonderful oral on me is a prolonged foreplay as she does not want me spunking anywhere near her face or in her mouth which I respect.

But she will always come up for mouth to mouth straight off my cock. I've wondered whether for her this is, subconsciously, re-establishing an 'equality' between us, or something? Whatever it is, as she does that, I find the taste of my cock on her lips and in her mouth is supremely lovely. So I linger long with kissing and tonguing to savor that as well as to savor her.

She says I kiss like a Parisian, so it's also my thank you and appreciation for her wonderful work down below. In due course my fingers and thumb will get nimble at her wetness, and once she's pretty well panting, then, we FUCK ...

Si

 

[ThoMac_13]

I think the most important thing about giving a good blowjob is that you have to really LOVE doing it. I am one of those girls that absolutely loves it. I would happily give one or more every day if I could. Just making him feel so much pleasure is a complete turn on.

Yes, I think this is a pretty important point. I might alter it just a bit to say that it doesn't have to be her favorite position or anything but a women who has a gag-reflex or who otherwise just doesn't like a cock in her mouth is not going to enjoy giving head, and a guy can tell and that can affect the experience. The same, I think, for a girl--can't you tell if a guy does not enjoy licking your pussy? [just for the record, I LOVE the taste of pussy and it always turns me on to make a girl cum this way].

Re: blowjobs--When my cock is stiff, it tends to curve up a bit. So I've found that it is most comfortable for both partners if I'm sitting or on the bed, and she's on her knees or in a laying position. My favorite is either laying down or 69ing because while my cock luxuriates in the warmth of her mouth and she's licking my shaft slowly with her tongue (a little teeth is okay now and again, especially on the top of my head--but no biting!), I like to be able to run my hands all over her body, feel her nipples get hard between my fingers, and smell her arousal as her pussy gets wet when I pet it.

I don't like to stand, because I enjoy blowjobs to be longer and more sensual (either as foreplay or until I cum) and it always feels rushed when I stand. Plus, it's more difficult to play with her when I'm standing.

As far as cumming, this is one that is very specific to what she is comfortable with. Since I can give myself a handjob whenever, I'm not a big fan of pulling out and jacking until I cum on her. I prefer to cum in her mouth . On occasion, I might pull out just as I shoot and cream some in her mouth or on her face and lips. I'm happy to reciprocate as well and let her squirt in on my face, but to each his own.

 

[Edensgarden]

Yes, I think this is a pretty important point. I might alter it just a bit to say that it doesn't have to be her favorite position or anything but a women who has a gag-reflex or who otherwise just doesn't like a cock in her mouth is not going to enjoy giving head, and a guy can tell and that can affect the experience. The same, I think, for a girl--can't you tell if a guy does not enjoy licking your pussy (and, just for the record, I LOVE the taste of pussy and it always turns me on to make a girl cum this way).

Most definitely I can tell when a guy doesn't enjoy eating pussy. It does affect the experience because I know he doesn't want to be there. He doesn't want to get all up in it. I liken it to someone that doesn't like to eat fried chicken or ribs because they don't like getting their fingers dirty. As far as I'm concerned, do me a favor and don't even go there. I want a man who wants to pitch a tent and camp out for awhile.

I like sitting in a chair with her on her knees so I can watch the action and prefer cumming in the mouth with her swallowing, although there are times I love to shoot it on her face or into her open mouth. Special is shooting it into her mouth and before swallowing, giving her long deep tongue kisses to taste my juice before she makes eye contact while swallowing. Sometimes I like to cum on her closed mouth, have her open her cum-covered lips and I lick it into her mouth.

I enjoy a woman who takes as much time and pride in pleasuring me orally as I do pleasuring her. I love watching a woman suck who truly enjoys every nuance that unbridled oral sex has to offer. One who isn't afraid to slobber, or ashamed to gag, or has to have the lights off to perform Getting head for a guy is as much fun for us to watch as it is to feel. And those guys who won't kiss their lover, yes even deeply, after she has given her all to pleasure him and taken all he has to give her when she does, need to grow a pair and "man up"................ I am curious since I am totally shaven (cock and balls), how many women prefer sucking a smoothie like me versus a grizzly bear?

I think it is incredbily hot for a man to kiss me deeply after I have gone down on him and swallowed. If he will allow me to not swallow it all and then share it with him in a passionate kiss....so fucking sexy...so hot, especially if he still has the taste of my pussy in his mouth and on his lips and face. Tasting the mixture of our juices is so intimate and erotic.

 

[Artfan2]

The woman who gave me the best blowjobs liked to do it very slow and delibritely. She'd smile and look into my eyes to see my reaction as her hand wandered down to the crotch of my pants. Then she'd slowly unzip my pants and sink her hand into them to fish around for my cock and balls for a while before pulling them out of my pants.

Once she had them out, she'd play with my cock and balls for a while before touching them with her mouth. She seemed to get a lot of pleasure out of seeing the effect she was having on me and she'd look up at me and ask if I liked what she was doing while her soft hands stroked and fondled my shaft, making it bigger and harder. Eventually, she'd start to gently touch the swollen head of my cock, first with her lips, and then with her tongue. Pretty soon, she'd begin to swirl her warm, moist tongue around the head of my cock and then drag her tongue up and down the underside of my sensitive shaft. Eventually, she'd take the tip of my cock into her mouth and surround it with her wet tongue and lips as she slid it in and out.

By this time, I was extremely aroused and about to cum, but she would take my cock out of her mouth for a while and gently touch it and occasionally stroke it just enough to keep it hard. She'd smile at me and ask me if I liked what she was doing to my cock and if it felt good. She'd ask me if I wanted her to continue and if I'd like to cum in her mouth. I did of course, and I begged her to continue. She liked to let my cock partially soften so that she could play with it and make it hard again before she made me cum. She'd usually stroke it a few times, and then she'd take it into her mouth again. She would bob her head up and down to cause her lips and tongue to slide up and down the end of my cock. At the same time, she'd use one hand to stroke my shaft while she fondled my balls with her other hand. She wanted to give me as much stimulation and pleasure as possible and make me cum really hard. By this time, it didn't take me long to cum, and I always shot huge loads of cum into her mouth. She would continue to work my cock with her hands and mouth and she wouldn't take it out of her mouth until my cock stopped spurting. She'd then continue to lick the still sensitive head of my cock and watch it twitch when she touched it.

 

[markuslovesit69]

I also love the man in a chair.

Walking up to him, dropping to my knees, slowly unzipping his pants, then unbuckling them... Priceless anticipation. Would love to do this in an office, the man in an expensive suit, sounds of people working in the background...

Sounds like a fun story to write together. PM if you want to play it out!

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

The woman who gave me the best blowjobs liked to do it very slow and delibritely. She'd smile and look into my eyes to see my reaction as her hand wandered down to the crotch of my pants. Then she'd slowly unzip my pants and sink her hand into them to fish around for my cock and balls for a while before pulling them out of my pants.

Once she had them out, she'd play with my cock and balls for a while before touching them with her mouth. She seemed to get a lot of pleasure out of seeing the effect she was having on me and she'd look up at me and ask if I liked what she was doing while her soft hands stroked and fondled my shaft, making it bigger and harder. Eventually, she'd start to gently touch the swollen head of my cock, first with her lips, and then with her tongue. Pretty soon, she'd begin to swirl her warm, moist tongue around the head of my cock and then drag her tongue up and down the underside of my sensitive shaft. Eventually, she'd take the tip of my cock into her mouth and surround it with her wet tongue and lips as she slid it in and out.

By this time, I was extremely aroused and about to cum, but she would take my cock out of her mouth for a while and gently touch it and occasionally stroke it just enough to keep it hard. She'd smile at me and ask me if I liked what she was doing to my cock and if it felt good. She'd ask me if I wanted her to continue and if I'd like to cum in her mouth. I did of course, and I begged her to continue. She liked to let my cock partially soften so that she could play with it and make it hard again before she made me cum. She'd usually stroke it a few times, and then she'd take it into her mouth again. She would bob her head up and down to cause her lips and tongue to slide up and down the end of my cock. At the same time, she'd use one hand to stroke my shaft while she fondled my balls with her other hand. She wanted to give me as much stimulation and pleasure as possible and make me cum really hard. By this time, it didn't take me long to cum, and I always shot huge loads of cum into her mouth. She would continue to work my cock with her hands and mouth and she wouldn't take it out of her mouth until my cock stopped spurting. She'd then continue to lick the still sensitive head of my cock and watch it twitch when she touched it.

I want one of those!

 

[markuslovesit69]

The woman who gave me the best blowjobs liked to do it very slow and delibritely. She'd smile and look into my eyes to see my reaction as her hand wandered down to the crotch of my pants. Then she'd slowly unzip my pants and sink her hand into them to fish around for my cock and balls for a while before pulling them out of my pants.

Once she had them out, she'd play with my cock and balls for a while before touching them with her mouth. She seemed to get a lot of pleasure out of seeing the effect she was having on me and she'd look up at me and ask if I liked what she was doing while her soft hands stroked and fondled my shaft, making it bigger and harder. Eventually, she'd start to gently touch the swollen head of my cock, first with her lips, and then with her tongue. Pretty soon, she'd begin to swirl her warm, moist tongue around the head of my cock and then drag her tongue up and down the underside of my sensitive shaft. Eventually, she'd take the tip of my cock into her mouth and surround it with her wet tongue and lips as she slid it in and out.

By this time, I was extremely aroused and about to cum, but she would take my cock out of her mouth for a while and gently touch it and occasionally stroke it just enough to keep it hard. She'd smile at me and ask me if I liked what she was doing to my cock and if it felt good. She'd ask me if I wanted her to continue and if I'd like to cum in her mouth. I did of course, and I begged her to continue. She liked to let my cock partially soften so that she could play with it and make it hard again before she made me cum. She'd usually stroke it a few times, and then she'd take it into her mouth again. She would bob her head up and down to cause her lips and tongue to slide up and down the end of my cock. At the same time, she'd use one hand to stroke my shaft while she fondled my balls with her other hand. She wanted to give me as much stimulation and pleasure as possible and make me cum really hard. By this time, it didn't take me long to cum, and I always shot huge loads of cum into her mouth. She would continue to work my cock with her hands and mouth and she wouldn't take it out of her mouth until my cock stopped spurting. She'd then continue to lick the still sensitive head of my cock and watch it twitch when she touched it.

yes. playing with anticipation is very erotic.

Great write up.

 

[GatorThat8her]

Slow

I like mine slow, deep, and wet. I love it when a woman licks all over my cock, getting it wet, then slowly sucks deep and hard. I want her to move her head slowly down, engulfing my cock then holding her head down on me until she slowly moves back up and repeats it. I.love it when.she.works in sucking and licking my balls.

When she wants a throat fucking I do it slowly and deeply. My hands in her hair. Slowly and deeply sliding my cock in and out of her mouth until she wants me to cum. Then I cum exactly where she.wants me to.