How do you dance

Shadowsdream

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The music that I dance to is the heart beat of the submissive who's application I have accepted. I guide each step from the waltz to the tango with the confidence of One born listening to the beat of a different drummer. Each twist and turn has a meaning that can be interpreted to be complex in it's simplicity or simple in it's complexity. The slow dance that brings My toys to their knee's builds from a soft touch of understanding and crests with a fury of torment for My amusement.
 
Shadowsdream said:
The music that I dance to is the heart beat of the submissive who's application I have accepted. I guide each step from the waltz to the tango with the confidence of One born listening to the beat of a different drummer. Each twist and turn has a meaning that can be interpreted to be complex in it's simplicity or simple in it's complexity. The slow dance that brings My toys to their knee's builds from a soft touch of understanding and crests with a fury of torment for My amusement.

Once again, your words hold magic. A beautiful post, Shadowsdream.
 
I dance...as the old saying goes "like no one is watching" ;)

There's nothing that feels better to me than letting music take over and me just moving through space. No self-editing. No critic in my head. I just let myself enjoy being.

I tend to prefer dancing to music of the last 30 years or so that I consider "danceable" Good beat, it's not house music, it's fun. I like to dance with a partner. It's always great to have a song come on that you can be spun around and dipped to, lol. And I am a pretty decent slow dancer -- although I haven't done it much for years. I even took ballroom dancing as a kid, and then studied it in greater depth when I went to acting school.

Two places in my life that I'm not a control freak...when I dance and when I have sex.

The rest of the time -- control freak. ;)

P. :rose:
 
There is a great deal of contrast in my dancing. Every day I make up new dances for various things I'm happy about. These dances involves a great deal of bouncing around and, ahem, jiggling. I use them as a time to be childish and exuberant.

Then again, there is the dancing I do for my lover, which is anything but childish. A large part of my security in my body comes from my intention to become a stripper (once I'm old enough to get into the good places), and so I'm very aware of how to use my body's sensuality. I prefer exotic dancing to music, but I can easily make silence my own as I sway and send smoldering glances his way.

(The funny thing is, for the vast majority of my life I could not dance in any form. Growing hips did wonders, as did the couple of musicals I've been in.)

I suppose that I dance primarily for myself. I love the uninhibited feeling of revelling in my body and its joy of life. However, when I have an audience I do rather try to make sure he's enjoying himself as well. o)

What a delightful thread! Definitely near to my heart.
 
My dance

is a slow dance, belly to belly, a sensual dance of afro-american inspired jazz, blues, and R & B.

Over time, it quickens to a Motown beat, with syncopated rhythms and short forays into slow dance.

I am a creature of my ethnicity, and it shows in my dance.

Eb
 
re: how do you dance

my dance is erotic and Dirty ,grinding my body so filled with lust and desire against that of my lover's.
heat builds as skin to skin we touch..the "magic' that we share is felt and we are overwhelmed by waves of passion,I love swaying sexily into the roomto greet Him,however get me on a dance floor or into a bed..and my real animalistic nature overpowers me...:heart:
 
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Artful's dream said:
my dance is erotic and Dirty ,grinding my body so filled with lust and desire against that of my lover's.
heat builds as skin to skin we touch..the "magic' that we share is felt and we are overwhelmed by waves of passion,I love swaying sexily into the roomto greet Him,however get me on a dance floor or into a bed..and my real animalistic nature overpowers me...:heart:


Well now, I finally have a smile on my face. If that quote doesn't tell all about you, lovely Dream, nothing does.

By the way, I am shadow dancing right now. But it is helping me perfect my dance steps for the next ball I am invited to attend, Ms Shadowsdream.

Rose:heart:
 
I dance slowly at first, with gasps and smiles of rising need. Soon enough, it becomes a dance of reaction and response, a dance of mirroring touches, a dance of emotion and needs.

I move as i'm instructed, my soul writhing in time to the primal beat of my hunger for more sensation, focused movement, deeper immersion into the pool of raw touch that flows between us.

I dance as he needs me to dance. Sometimes i dance tenderly, murmuring words of respect and caring even as my body seeks release in the deftness of his touch. Sometimes i dance like a wild thing, all flame and shrieks of passion, wordlessly obeying the blind hard thrusts of his driving requirement for me to obey, to submit, to feel.

I dance openly, without shame, without hesitation.
I am more truly alive when i dance than at any other time.
 
you are all amazing and uninhibited woman that exhibit a passion that has Me mesmerized by the beauty of dances that personalize your internal beats.

I can almost sense the emotions that drive you each in your own unique diversities and sit here impressed with the openess you display.

I thank you for showing Me yet another side of your energy and charms.
 
Quint said:
A large part of my security in my body comes from my intention to become a stripper (once I'm old enough to get into the good places)

Quint, any chance you'll do a preview for your friends here before you turn pro? :)
 
well this one is easy!

I have been dancing hula for over 20 years now, so I do dance that alot, anlong with tahittian. I dance for exercize, I dance for fun, to get me out of a funk, or for Master..........it all depends.
 
This is one of the hardest ones for me to answer. I don't normally dance, I've always been very shy about dancing. However, my favorite is wrapped in Master's arms, our bodies swaying against each other, nothing exists but the two of us and the music.

:)
dixi
 
Shadowsdream said:
The music that I dance to is the heart beat of the submissive who's application I have accepted. I guide each step from the waltz to the tango with the confidence of One born listening to the beat of a different drummer. Each twist and turn has a meaning that can be interpreted to be complex in it's simplicity or simple in it's complexity. The slow dance that brings My toys to their knee's builds from a soft touch of understanding and crests with a fury of torment for My amusement.


The music I dance to is played by Robuck ... we start of slowly, weaving the magic. The tempo builds and fades like the waves along a sea shore ... until the crashing climax at the end.

It is a dance I never tire of :)

(In real dancing ... its the slow ones for us - with Him holding me close)
 
sounds like the newest threesome tend towards the sensuous (sp?) intimate sway of seduction.

My imagination takes Me to the base of Diamond Head under a moonlit sky listening to distant drummers beat out heart rhythms as beautiful wahinnies gaze shyly up at their Masters.
 
dancing sets me loose

I find it very odd, but i enjoy the dancing that happens at clubs and other parties...

I'm typically very shy, but when the heavy bass begins rolling through the floors of the club, through the walls and then through me...i just let go...the music we dance to at these clubs is fast and heady...the dancing looks ridiculous if you stand back and watch...but when your in it, caught up by it...you don't care...you just let yourself go...

By the end of the night, you are pleasantly exhausted...while emotionaly and mentaly exhilarated!

I hope to find some one i can "dance" with who leaves me with the same feelings of release and heightened awareness that real dancing gives me.

*pumps up the volume on her stereo*
 
You know, the funny thing is, Shadowsdream, that I had to take this thread very, very literally. Because I've only ever danced with friends. Never ever danced with a lover, even a casual bf. Except once. Not so long-ago -- I slow-danced with a lover in his apartment to a big band song, a slow one, and we held tight and kissed through the whole thing. But the experience took me so much by surprise -- that I couldn't let myself just be in the moment and enjoy it thoroughly. I kept standing back in my mind and trying to analyze what it "meant" -- which was dumb as all get out -- because it didn't mean anything per se -- it was just a nice experience.

But basically, I have no idea what it feels like to mix dance and desire. I'd like to have that experience. And that's not a "poor me" remark, lol. Everyone just makes it sound so special. And considering how much I like to dance -- I'm sure it would be for me too.
 
hana ho! (do it again)

Shadowsdream said:
sounds like the newest threesome tend towards the sensuous (sp?) intimate sway of seduction.

My imagination takes Me to the base of Diamond Head under a moonlit sky listening to distant drummers beat out heart rhythms as beautiful wahinnies gaze shyly up at their Masters.

*thinks that I am being thought of*

:rose:

yes, this new one here leans to the sensual side for sure!
 
confused20

you paint a picture that I have oftened felt as the bass competes with the blood pumping through My veins. Almost a reverberation of self contained energy.

The taste of submission mirroring the scent of Domination will take you to that very same emotion is My guess.
 
perse

Even if you never put a foot on a dance floor the internal dance of desire as your breath catches in your throat the first time you drop to your knees for the Dominant of your choice can take your passions past the steps of imagination and the music that will caress your emotions will rival the river dancers.


lia


Nice feeling isn't it? ~~smile~~
 
Hesitating...painfully self-concious I stand at the edge of the dance floor. I look around me, hearing the music. I notice how MANY people are here. I warm up slowly, having to become accustomed to my surroundings. Slowly I start to nod my head in time with the beat, feeling the music. R&B and Latin Rythms pounding through me. After a while, my hips join the pulse of the music, swaying and rolling with the beat. Until I'm lost in the dance, and no one else is there.

:rose: subtledecadence
 
I have to admit that when I was younger, I loved to go out dancing...the louder the music, the deeper my body would quiver. I would get so turned on by the music, alchohol and bodies moving together that I felt like I was moving to a higher plain. The only problem was that unless I found someone to be with, I would fall hard or you might refer to it as coming down from a "bad trip". I would feel like I had missed out on something or came so close but never found it....it led to many nights of depression and/or unsatisfying sex. The best times, as I look back, were the times when I was closer to being dominated... had no control.... Now that I have identified that, I want more than ever to be taken farther into that realm of desire, to have that "forbidden" taste... even now, music can take me to places in my mind that I long to visit with a firm, guiding hand... I'll be patient and see where life leads me....
 
Persephone36 said:
You know, the funny thing is, Shadowsdream, that I had to take this thread very, very literally. Because I've only ever danced with friends. Never ever danced with a lover, even a casual bf. Except once. Not so long-ago -- I slow-danced with a lover in his apartment to a big band song, a slow one, and we held tight and kissed through the whole thing. But the experience took me so much by surprise -- that I couldn't let myself just be in the moment and enjoy it thoroughly. I kept standing back in my mind and trying to analyze what it "meant" -- which was dumb as all get out -- because it didn't mean anything per se -- it was just a nice experience.

But basically, I have no idea what it feels like to mix dance and desire. I'd like to have that experience. And that's not a "poor me" remark, lol. Everyone just makes it sound so special. And considering how much I like to dance -- I'm sure it would be for me too.

But you will, Perse, you will.

Eb
 
subtledecadence said:
Hesitating...painfully self-concious I stand at the edge of the dance floor. I look around me, hearing the music. I notice how MANY people are here. I warm up slowly, having to become accustomed to my surroundings. Slowly I start to nod my head in time with the beat, feeling the music. R&B and Latin Rythms pounding through me. After a while, my hips join the pulse of the music, swaying and rolling with the beat. Until I'm lost in the dance, and no one else is there.

:rose: subtledecadence

The dance could be seen as a self introduction into sub space, tentative, questioning, trusting and accepting the internal lust.

Bravo!
 
TantaLiza said:
The only problem was that unless I found someone to be with, I would fall hard or you might refer to it as coming down from a "bad trip". I would feel like I had missed out on something or came so close but never found it....it led to many nights of depression and/or unsatisfying sex. The best times, as I look back, were the times when I was closer to being dominated... had no control.... Now that I have identified that, I want more than ever to be taken farther into that realm of desire, to have that "forbidden" taste... even now, music can take me to places in my mind that I long to visit with a firm, guiding hand... I'll be patient and see where life leads me....

your magic will find you and the dance floor will witness your growth from uncertainty to sensuality. A firm hand at your waist and hot breath on your neck whispering seduction will give you the opportunity to transcend yesterdays lonely moments.
 
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