How do you "cyber"?

[Isabella Thorne]

ummmm well for me ... cybering is any kind of sexual role play with another person that is done over the internet on a one-to-one basis ...

soooooooo I think it could be done via e-mail too ... or, of course, IM ... but not just IM ...

Because someone told me recently that to cyber you have to do so by IM ...??? Do you agree with that?

Also ... i have never masturbated WHILE cybering (IM or otherwise) ... and well recently an on-line friend requested that I do so .... I did consider for a few minutes to fake it ... ha ha ... but didn't ... I just don't think I feel comfortable typing away and playing with myself at the same time ... am I the exception? I prefer to fantasize about a cyber experience when I masturbate later ...

anyways ... I would love to know what you think and ... how do you cyber?
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[Thumper]

I don't think I have...

Can't figure out how to type and play at the same time.

I do get off on the email thing...and voices turn me on...

Does being here naked count???LOL

Turned on yes very...playing...no ....not yet anyway..hehehe

 

[Xander]

Depends Izzy.
Each cyber session is different from the last.

And yes I have gotten off in a cyber session. What can I say. There's just some women who knows Exactly what to say and do.
you know who you are

 

[MADDOG]

Depends Izzy.
Each cyber session is different from the last.

And yes I have gotten off in a cyber session. What can I say. There's just some women who knows Exactly what to say and do.
you know who you are

I don't know who she is. Tell me.

 

[Mustang Sally]

I rarely cyber, but when I do...

Most of the time, I can't get into it and just play along, hoping I'm at least getting my "partner" off. I think of it as a writing exercise.

I'll admit I have occasionally engaged in a little one-handed typing, but only if the guy is really good. When we're talking about erotic email, I save it for bedtime and play right after reading it (if it's any good).

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Naked Lunch

Does being here naked count???

oh duh, darling lol .... YOU being naked ALWAYS counts ...

ohhhhhh Xander ... you sound soooo very experienced dear ... mmmmm sounds wonderful ...

You know, maybe i am being a bit sexist here but ... well i have cybered with men before who have "gotten off" during ... but geez I think maybe it's different with a woman ... ???

 

[Juliangel]

Ok I do cyber but it takes the right partner and mine is amazing. It is a give and take situation, taking turns really.

I do not really do it with anyone but him although I do talk to several of the guys that post here, but it has never turned to cybering, hey I'll talk to anyone just IM me.

As for emails WOW those can be amazing, got one the other day from a regular poster here and my oh my can he write!!! Had to lock the bedroom door for some private time after reading it.

 

[Mortto56]

"I know whats missing!"

"Well Isabella,I think you need to strap on a "Strap On",on your favorite chair so you can use both hands to type with!"(LOL)

 

[Xander]

Re: Naked Lunch

ohhhhhh Xander ... you sound soooo very experienced dear ... mmmmm sounds wonderful ...

Izzy, bring it on, and I'll show you exactly how experienced I am

 

[Silverlily]

Re: I don't think I have...

Does being here naked count???LOL

Yes



(well, it was good for me anyway )

 

[Alyrahh]

I'm so inexperienced in the art of cybering that it's pitiful. But, the few times that I have done it, I just type exactly what I WISH I were doing. I suppose I'm doing it right. LOL

I think e-mail would count too, I mean, why not? It's still typing...

 

[CW]

Well Isabella,,, based your idea that cyber is anything one on one via the net,,, then yes I do,,, in the SRP,,, just got my cyber virginity popped in that regard,,,

IM would seem too fast paced to me,,, in the SRP, I am free to take to my time and thus enjoy it more

 

[Silverlily]

Ok Iz, why only one-to-one? Can you cyber as a threesome? Foursome? Moresome?

I agree with CW about the SRP board. I think more often than not (or at least half the time) the senarios involve multiple people. If nothing else, there really is an audience. You don't get that with IM or email. (Ok, ok, the exibitionist aspect appeals to me.)

Personally, I don't much care for IM, email is much better. I'm not the fastest typist and I tend to get too hung up on spelling and grammar to really get into it. I also prefer voices too.

 

[Guest]

IM = instant messaging?

 

[Silverlily]

IM - instant messaging

 

[Samuari]

I prefer the SRP board also, for much the same reasons that Kitten Eyes said, plus when I tried IM and voice, I found that I was to shy to let it flow. embarrassing...

 

[Ticklish Girl]

I like to "cyber" using Yahoo IM, but occasionally on AIM. I belong to a lot of Yahoo tickling clubs, and at least 2 or 3 times a week I find myself in a cyber tickling scene. Depending on the guy, I can become very aroused during these sessions. I don't often masturbate while chatting, because it doesn't work for me while sitting down for some reason. Besides, I don't want to lose the thread of the conversation. If the excitement becomes unbearable, I get one of my vibrators and press it between my legs so I can rub against it while I type. But usually I save the chats so I can read them later and masturbate.

Right now I have 6 regular cyber partners, and sometimes I've got 2 or even 3 chats going at once -- if I end up with carpal tunnel syndrome, there goes my sex life!

 

[Guest]

I believe that cybering isn't all that different from RPing, which in turn, is like writing an interactive story with another person/people. 8 times out of 10 I have NOT touched myself when cybering (and, I even have a special way for doing that which lets me keep both of my hands free for typing...hee hee hee). There is a person here, though, who can guarantee me touching myself when I cyber with him. But anyway, those 8 out of the 10 times, I have basically just described things in great detail to a man just to get him off.

[Edited by Tiggs on 11-17-2000 at 05:44 PM]

 

[Dirk13]

don't really get off but just think about it, its niiiice....anyways....smiling is the 3rd best thing you can do wit your lips he he he

 

[Sammyjo]

I don't really get off on cyber, too much. First of all, it is a rare occasion that I can sit still long enough to actually get into a conversation even close to sexual in nature...second, I have a 6 year old, so when I'm not working or sleeping, she's usually right here (not reading over my shoulder...watching TV or reading a book or something constructive) so that I can't exactly go at it...I'm sure there are more reasons....heehee

I've been asked or hinted at cyber a lot in the last few weeks, and I have to say I've been tempted to make a few phone calls late at night (well, if I could stay up that late) It's not that I don't LOVE you guys for asking, but I really am shy (ask Xander) and I just don't do it...but give me a phone call, and I'll be moaning and writhing in about 30 seconds....best if you jump into the conversation with "are you naked?" "what are you wearing?" or "let's fuck"....even better if you start demanding things right off the bat.


Ummmm....yeah....sorry for the outburst.

 

[Dirk13]

outburst? hey sammy...i'll give ya a call some time i hope.

 

[Cheyenne]

Ok I do cyber but it takes the right partner and mine is amazing. It is a give and take situation, taking turns really.

Wow, I had that with someone and now I really miss him. *sniff* Didn't realize how we clicked was that unusual until now. We could finish each other's sentences and knew every inch of each other's body just from cybering.

 

[Matthew D]

Hey Cheyenne

I understand what you mean, I lost the one good partner I had for a couple of months and it really took some of the fun out of it... Now she is back and I am a happy guy. Hope your partner finds there way back to you soon

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Voices in my head

Originally posted by Kitten Eyes Ok Iz, why only one-to-one? Can you cyber as a threesome? Foursome? Moresome? I also prefer voices too.

oh yea I know what you're saying L'il Kitty ... I didn't phrase it right the first time ... what i mean is that to me "cybering" means sexual role playing ... yes ... but you are yourself while it is happening ... not playing a character as in the SRP Board ... also instead of one-to-one, I mean privately as opposed to a public board ...

i have cybered in a 3some ... only once on icq ... you can get that 3-way split screen thing going ... it was cool cause i knew the guy very well as an online friend .. and he introduced me to the woman ... well anyways she was constantly in and out of our chat and not really concentrating on what we were doing ... she was chatting with lots of other people at the same time ... so WTF ... that experience didn't turn out too well ... lol ... and btw that was way before i came to Literotica ...

and also ha ha i sure am glad that i'm not the only one who hears voices too ... lol Kitty ...

but seriously ... voices? do you mean phone sex ... as is Sammyjo's preference ? (btw the only time i have ever had phone sex is with my b/f when we first started dating when we were living apart) cause that is definitely not cyber sex .... cyber sex means over the computer ... but anyways i am way too nervous to give out my phone number to a stranger on the net ... am i being too paranoid?

and well this is weird again ... but i was just asked bout phone sex tonight too ... by someone on the net ... by someone who in no way read this thread ... someone who is not from Lit ... i truly believe these are cyber vibes at work...
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My, my Mr. X ... now you've made me blush ... you have never been that cheeky with me before, dear ... i am sure not used to it ... feels strange ...

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Hey Cheyenne

Hope your partner finds there way back to you soon

Long story, but I never lost him. Just can't be cyberpartners anymore, only friends. But, thanks for trying to cheer me up anyway.