How do you begin with someone new?

[WriterDom]

With c, who I saw for almost two years, we began in the bathtub. After dinner, anyway. It was very erotic.

Now I prefer a more formal setting. Watching her as she strips down to her panties. Helping with the restraints and play collar. Putting her in inspection. Hands behind head, eyes lowered, legs spread. Me with crop in hand. Nice leather British crop, 28". Don't buy a cheap rubber tack shop crop when you can get quality for 30 dollars or so. I press the tip to her lips for a kiss. Then I explore her body with the crop, perhaps slapping her nipple, pussy, and ass at times, but never too hard. I don't want any fear of the crop, it is too important to me. I have things she will fear.

Walking around her. reassuring her. Reminding her of her safe words and telling her that if it is not working for both of us, than it is not working at all. Behind her now, my lips and teeth on her shoulders and neck. Placing the crop between her teeth to free my hands. My hands cupping her breasts. Squeezing. Hot breath on her ear. My familiar voice reassuring as I pinch both nipples. Stepping out of my pants. Pulling her panties down over her ass so she can feel the heat of my cock. My fingers slipping between the soft inner thigh and cotton to bury deep in her wetness. Very wet. Two snips of the knife and they fall away. To be mine forever.

 

[Etoile]

Oooooh, very nice WD. Thank you for sharing.

 

[WriterDom]

Oooooh, very nice WD. Thank you for sharing.

You are welcome. Thanks for keeping a link to your pics on your posts.

 

[FungiUg]

I don't know, it's been different every time. A matter of combining the needs and wants of myself and the submissive. Is my lover involved, or not? Starting has ranged from a spanking delivered in a park overlooking the city, to a private room in which the submissive kneels and offers herself to me to be used, to a large bed where my lover and I show our new toy what we can do with her...

Normally all of the discussion and reminders are ongoing as well, I do agree there.

 

[Zaudika]

With c, who I saw for almost two years, we began in the bathtub. After dinner, anyway. It was very erotic.

Now I prefer a more formal setting. Watching her as she strips down to her panties. Helping with the restraints and play collar. Putting her in inspection. Hands behind head, eyes lowered, legs spread. Me with crop in hand. Nice leather British crop, 28". Don't buy a cheap rubber tack shop crop when you can get quality for 30 dollars or so. I press the tip to her lips for a kiss. Then I explore her body with the crop, perhaps slapping her nipple, pussy, and ass at times, but never too hard. I don't want any fear of the crop, it is too important to me. I have things she will fear.

Walking around her. reassuring her. Reminding her of her safe words and telling her that if it is not working for both of us, than it is not working at all. Behind her now, my lips and teeth on her shoulders and neck. Placing the crop between her teeth to free my hands. My hands cupping her breasts. Squeezing. Hot breath on her ear. My familiar voice reassuring as I pinch both nipples. Stepping out of my pants. Pulling her panties down over her ass so she can feel the heat of my cock. My fingers slipping between the soft inner thigh and cotton to bury deep in her wetness. Very wet. Two snips of the knife and they fall away. To be mine forever.

Very well written and a very nice scenario WriterDom.

I can't say that would be anything I would do if we're talking about a first meeting though.

For me in the past something new always began with simply just being myself; upfront, honest, and straight-forward, but always polite and respectful (unless the guy turns out to be an ass of course, lol).
Then taking my time to get to know that person well over a matter of either a few weeks or months depending on the person. Then perhaps proceeding to what you had described.

 

[Etoile]

You are welcome. Thanks for keeping a link to your pics on your posts.

:blush: thank you

 

[WriterDom]

:blush: thank you

It's hard to pick a favorite. But I like the shower pic. Your body language suggests fear to me. But your eyes are looking directly into mine with a desire you can't hide. Your nipples begging to be pinched. The hint of hair between your legs surrendering to Daddy's razor.

 

[WriterDom]

I'm rethinking this. I think the bathtub is nice. Because the relationship failed, I'm holding on to some negativity. Most women have an insecurity about their body no matter how beautiful. A bubble bath hides imperfections and feels safe. And also cleans her ass for my tongue.

 

[bunny bondage]

I'm rethinking this. I think the bathtub is nice. Because the relationship failed, I'm holding on to some negativity. Most women have an insecurity about their body no matter how beautiful. A bubble bath hides imperfections and feels safe. And also cleans her ass for my tongue.

well whatever beginning you end up choosing, be sure to write ALL about it for us!!

 

[Merelan]

After all these years you would think I would have learned about Writer's posts.

wiggling in chair.

Golly, whew.... and ummmmmmmmmm

and thanks for pointing out the links to Etoile's pictures. What a lovely, lovely young lady.

 

[Etoile]

It's hard to pick a favorite. But I like the shower pic. Your body language suggests fear to me. But your eyes are looking directly into mine with a desire you can't hide. Your nipples begging to be pinched. The hint of hair between your legs surrendering to Daddy's razor.

Ooooh, this sounds like something I should put in my sig. Would you mind?

 

[Etoile]

and thanks for pointing out the links to Etoile's pictures. What a lovely, lovely young lady.

Why thank you! I'm curious, how'd you come up with the name 'Merelan'? It's kind of like my real name, and I'm wondering if that's where you got it.

 

[Merelan]

It is a character in MasterHarper of Pern, a book by Anne McCaffery.

I like the name and at the time I chose it, years and years ago, had no idea it would be my name for so long.

it almost sounds like music, if you say it softly and whisper it in my ear.

 

[WriterDom]

Ooooh, this sounds like something I should put in my sig. Would you mind?

I'd be honored.