How do women do it?

[Zamdrist]

Say no to sex? I mean, come on...it isn't that easy is it?

 

[bad kitty]

It is if the wrong person is asking for it.

 

[lilminx]

I said no to sex yesterday, and on Friday night- this was with people I've been with before, too. I could have had a threesome yesterday, but I just didn't want to.

It's not that difficult to say no, you know.

 

[Zamdrist]

It is if the wrong person is asking for it.

Well I find that easy too

How about someone you've been hugging and kissing on all night?

Men are in the unamiable postion of having to ask for sex, while women are in the amiable position of doling out sex.

 

[bad kitty]

How about someone you've been hugging and kissing on all night?

No that is a difficult one, I usually can't say no.

 

[Autumn1]

Say no?.Never,but only as far as one person is concerned.

 

[weed]

If it's no I don't start with the kissing and hugging. Not the wet full body kind of hugging and kissing anyway.

Unless we were interrupted by a big turn off .....like puking kids or something.

 

[FriskyVagina]

Say No to sex? LOL You're funny.

 

[Zamdrist]

Say No to sex? LOL You're funny.

What? Women do it all the time, with impunity!

LOL...I don't know how they do it. I could never be a woman, I'd be the biggest Ho on the planet, LOL...

 

[FriskyVagina]

I guess I'm a ho then. I don't say no... well, unless he's drooling and sweaty and breathing really hard. *flashbacks of my first time*

 

[perks]

If I've been hugging and kissing on a person all night it means I like them. It's not a guarantee for sex. It depends what I want with that person in the long run, whether I say yes or not. If that person is hugging and kissing on 10 other people in the same night, It probably won't happen. I'm not about being just another hole.

I used to want sex just for sex' sake. When a cock was just another cock. When it didn't matter. But, it matters to me now. I'm not saying I want to love the person, but I'd like to at least respect them and know them a bit.

As for the threesome or moresome thing. It depends on how I'm feeling at the time. If I'm up to it. But, you know, I'd really like to care about the people involved with that too.

 

[Zamdrist]

If I've been hugging and kissing on a person all night it means I like them. It's not a guarantee for sex. It depends what I want with that person in the long run, whether I say yes or not. If that person is hugging and kissing on 10 other people in the same night, It probably won't happen. I'm not about being just another hole.

Yeah, and I'm just *dealing* with it right now, so bear with me.

I have'nt had to deal with feelings like this in over 12 years, so it's like starting all over again and I have to get accustomed to it.

 

[perks]

Yeah, and I'm just *dealing* with it right now, so bear with me.

I have'nt had to deal with feelings like this in over 12 years, so it's like starting all over again and I have to get accustomed to it.

poor baby Zamdrist. it's good to want. Would you really rather she give it up right away?

 

[Zamdrist]

poor baby Zamdrist. it's good to want. Would you really rather she give it up right away?

LOL...

My dick says yes, my head says no. Is that fair?

 

[perks]

LOL...

My dick says yes, my head says no. Is that fair?

It's natural. That's the way bodies are made. Iwish your duck could be satisfied. But, it will be better when your duck and your head are satisfied. I'll just comiserate with you, okay, sug?

 

[Zamdrist]

It's natural. That's the way bodies are made. Iwish your duck could be satisfied. But, it will be better when your duck and your head are satisfied. I'll just comiserate with you, okay, sug?

Yeah, sympthy feels good right now.

I just need to talk to her! Soon, soon. Sigh.

 

[sacremento]

I had to say no just a few minutes ago!

My boyfriend made biscuits and gravy for breakfast and I feel like a stuffed pig!

In about an hour I'll be ready

 

[intrigued]

We say no because something just isn't right.
At this point in my life....something has to be very wrong with the mix for me to say no....and I still do. I just haven't met him yet, but when I do......OMG.

 

[Zamdrist]

We say no because something just isn't right.

Well I certainly hope that's just one possible reason.

There are many reasons to say no.

 

[cuz cracker]

Ha!

 

[intrigued]

Well I certainly hope that's just one possible reason.

There are many reasons to say no.

Nope, for me right now...thats about the ONLY reason.

I feel I may explode!

 

[Wiggles]

I'll say no early on in a relationship. It's usually because I've been burned in the past, and I want to make sure he's sticking around for more than just that.

It's usually a good sign with me.

 

[calypso_21]

If I've been hugging and kissing on a person all night it means I like them. It's not a guarantee for sex. It depends what I want with that person in the long run, whether I say yes or not. If that person is hugging and kissing on 10 other people in the same night, It probably won't happen. I'm not about being just another hole.

I used to want sex just for sex' sake. When a cock was just another cock. When it didn't matter. But, it matters to me now. I'm not saying I want to love the person, but I'd like to at least respect them and know them a bit.

As for the threesome or moresome thing. It depends on how I'm feeling at the time. If I'm up to it. But, you know, I'd really like to care about the people involved with that too.

Boy, perky_baby, you took the words right out of my mouth!!

 

[Zamdrist]

Nope, for me right now...thats about the ONLY reason.

I feel I may explode!

Right, for you that's the only reason.

I'm speaking more in general. Trying to shake the feeling of feeling unwanted.

Sex had been at my finger tips for the last five years, so...it's the first feeling that occured to me.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

Say no to sex? I mean, come on...it isn't that easy is it?

It isn't easy - especially as a man, but I can and have been doing it for quite some time. If a guy with a hyperactive sex drive can do it, a woman can too.

All it took for me to get some discipline was a few bad situations caused by my readiness to have sex. I probably went to the other extreme, but compared to the ramifications I would rather be at this end than the other.