how do we last longer in an intercourse, help me!

[wannafuk1]

Hello everyone,

Please, i need help badly. I remember when i was younger i could last up to 1 hr each time i have sex; but now, i barely last 5 minutes. I don't know what is wrong with myself, but it would be nice to hear some advice as to maintain my fuck. I need help so please send ur advice, men and women. thank you!

asianjohn511@hotmail.com

 

[Skibum]

Premature ejaculation is often caused by conditioning yourself to come too soon by hurrying when you masturbate. There are a couple of things you can do to reverse this.

1. Slow down. Take your time and go as slow as you can.

2. Stop if you feel the urge to ejaculate. You can either stay inside her, or pull out, but stop stimulating yourself for a few seocnds.

3. Think about something else.

4. Kegel exercises. They work for guys, too!

5. The Masters and Johnson squeeze technique. Have your partner squeeze the shaft of your penis just behind the head firmly when you feel the urge to ejaculate. Keep up the pressure until the urge passes. Then you can resume normal intercourse. You may have to stop and squeeze several times.

Overtime these techniques can reverse the conditioning that lead to premature ejaculation. It will take a few weeks, but think of all the fun you can have practicing!

 

[DriveSouth]

3. Think about something else.

No, no....

Your poor poor partner....

Rather than "thinking about something else" why not think about her, focus your attention on her and pleasing her and making sure she gets to the point that you've come to so hastily.

Just my approach and it works here...

And this from a "guru", our cyber society is going to hell in a hand basket!

Hang in there skibum, you were right on otherwise, the physical key is kegel excercises for us guys too.

[Edited by DriveSouth on 11-30-2000 at 07:25 AM]

 

[Skibum]

Sorry DriveSouth, but I stand by #3. If you think of your partner at a time like that, that could be the last little thing that pushes you over the edge. You need to think of something other than the pleasure to stop the urge to ejaculate.

 

[DriveSouth]

Sorry DriveSouth, but I stand by #3. If you think of your partner at a time like that, that could be the last little thing that pushes you over the edge. You need to think of something other than the pleasure to stop the urge to ejaculate.

You mean something like NASCAR or Football or Hunting or Fishing or Drinking with Buddies or...

Stop me when you get the picture here....

Or will I need to get graphic?

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Nascar! OH MY GOODNESS!

All the above reply's to your question are quite valid..But, you could also go to your local sex toy shop and purchase a cock ring!..~Smiles~
I won't get into the whole of it(They come with instructions) but, you will find that you can STILL think all ya want about your partner and be the Man at the same time!...

And Above all else...RELAX!
No guns ta yer head to tell ya you can't do it more than once!

 

[Skibum]

You mean something like NASCAR or Football or Hunting or Fishing or Drinking with Buddies or...

Stop me when you get the picture here....

Or will I need to get graphic?

That's pretty much the idea.

 

[cork]

hold your load

Think of . . .

Margaret Thatcher Naked on a cold day

 

[Skibum]

Re: hold your load

Think of . . .

Margaret Thatcher Naked on a cold day

Yeah, that might work!

 

[Chuckus]

Re: hold your load

Think of . . .

Margaret Thatcher Naked on a cold day

Yikes, that would make me lose the wood for the entire rest of the day or evening (as the case may be!!!)

 

[DriveSouth]

Ok.....ya asked for it!

I'd hoped to keep this pretty, but you don't seem to get the picture.

Margaret Thatcher nude will not only allow you to hold off, it might very well make you lose what stiffness you have to this point.

Try this next time you are on the verge of losing control - Take your dick out of the poor woman and turn your attentions to her. Lick her, eat her wonderful pussy til she's exploded once more. Then you'll be able to begin again, this time with a little more control than before.

But, should you not be able to manage to pull this off, then let go, enjoy the flow, the feel of cumming and once more, lick your lover, eat her now that she's full of your cum. She'll love it, you'll soon discover that you're growing hard all over and be off to the races once more.

Any way, who says you can only do it once a night?

 

[JHolley67]

Okay, let me just say YUCK!

But, should you not be able to manage to pull this off, then let go, enjoy the flow, the feel of cumming and once more, lick your lover, eat her now that she's full of your cum. She'll love it, you'll soon discover that you're growing hard all over and be off to the races once more.

Now my daddy always told me, "You have to be willing to eat what you want to shoot, but don't eat what you've shot."

And since I've heard semen tastes like eggwhite mixed with seawater, I think I'll keep trying to stomach sushi.

Jason

 

[Temptress_1960]

Re: Ok.....ya asked for it!

Try this next time you are on the verge of losing control - Take your dick out of the poor woman and turn your attentions to her.

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Why do I get the feeling that you have sympathy for his partner? LOL

And you are so right. I love to have my husband lick my pussy after sex. I cum all over again, and much quicker.


Hey JHolley - it actually tastes good. I mean really really good. Can't get enough. In my opinion, anyway. And if you can't bring yourself to lick, you can always touch.

How can you expect someone to swallow something you won't taste yourself?

 

[Temptress_1960]

I'm really proud of myself

MY FIRST QUOTE!!

I think I'm getting the hang of this.

 

[Skibum]

DriveSoputh is definately on to something. That advice is the best yet.

 

[JHolley67]

Re: Re: Ok.....ya asked for it!

Hey JHolley - it actually tastes good. I mean really really good. Can't get enough. In my opinion, anyway. And if you can't bring yourself to lick, you can always touch.

How can you expect someone to swallow something you won't taste yourself?

Actually, I don't, because I have preference for two things. I prefer to finish in a different place and I prefer kissing my wife than losing my nuts that way.

And speaking from experience, let me remind you of the statistics. 4 out of 5 men still prefer NO SNOWBALLS!

Jason

 

[Chuckus]

Let me clarify my position on this......

I'd hoped to keep this pretty, but you don't seem to get the picture.......

Any way, who says you can only do it once a night?

Okie dokie for the record, let me say this. I can do and think of other things that will allow me to do the following things (not necessarily in this order either!!!), continue on and on WITHOUT shooting and still bringing my lady to that peak, more than once before I shoot.

I just don't like the thought of Thatcher naked, kinda is not my bag o tricks. There are plenty of other things to think about and DO that will help in that department. The thought of Thatcher naked, well I will be candid, disgusts me to no end..........and therefore I have other means to and end.

If you are good enough and do it right though, women would be begging to have you shoot your gun off and quit. Claw marks and scratches will be evident as well

Whatever works for each person and floats their boat....good for the goose........good for the ....?

 

[Temptress_1960]

Do I know you???

LOL

You sound strangely familiar to me....

 

[Chuckus]

Re: Do I know you???

LOL

You sound strangely familiar to me....

Who me? I dunno do ya? You might..........

 

[wannafuk1]

hello

hi, thanks all for your opinions. Some are really nice. well, if any ladies would like they can email me and we can have a good time.

 

[DriveSouth]

Re: Re: Ok.....ya asked for it!

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Why do I get the feeling that you have sympathy for his partner? LOL

And you are so right. I love to have my husband lick my pussy after sex. I cum all over again, and much quicker.


Hey JHolley - it actually tastes good. I mean really really good. Can't get enough. In my opinion, anyway. And if you can't bring yourself to lick, you can always touch.

How can you expect someone to swallow something you won't taste yourself?


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As I have told you before, please, keep on Enjoying it!

Sounds as if you and I would know what to do.

 

[Temptress_1960]

Re: Re: Re: Ok.....ya asked for it!

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As I have told you before, please, keep on Enjoying it!

Sounds as if you and I would know what to do.


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You sound like a man after my own, er, heart.

 

[DriveSouth]

Likewise darlin'...